RkyMtnHigh 0 #51 April 16, 2004 ROTFLMAO!! **ding ding ding** we have a match! I knew this thread would bring compatible singles together..YAY! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TomAiello 25 #52 April 16, 2004 My list was something like this: 1) Has to excite me sexually. Has to be excited by me sexually. 2) Have to have great sex. 3) Must be willing to cuddle after sex. Every time. 4) Must give me that warm, held, "home" feeling. That's it. Everything else is negotiable. I evolved that list over a long period. It was originally really long, but then I discovered that I could get lots of things that I thought I needed from my mate from other people. I don't need deep intellectual conversations with my mate--I can get them from other friends. I don't need someone who goes BASE jumping/skydiving/climbing with me--I have friends who do that. It basically boils down to "what do I need that I _can't_ get from anyone else?" Those are the non-negotiable items in my relationship.-- Tom Aiello [email protected] SnakeRiverBASE.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #53 April 16, 2004 Come on...there has to be more on your list than sex that you want in your mate that you can't get from friends. Think Tom..Think BTW..how YOU doin? _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #54 April 16, 2004 Since we are being somewhat serious here. 1) Must have a lot of patience 2) Must have mutual desire/exitement for each other (chemistry) 3) Responsible - but only to a point (Should Know when to say F**K It!) 4) Must be able to do her "own thing" or skydive, but do your own thing there. 5) Must be a fun drinker - not obnoxious(very often) 6) Must be optomistic and happy 7) Must not do drugs 8) Must be an intellectual equal. 9) Must be financially independant 10) Must be focused and driven and passionate about what she wants and how she wants to get it. Yeah - That about does it. Anything else is trivial and can be worked out.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #55 April 16, 2004 0. Female 1. Has a good sense of humor 2. Takes care of themselves fitness wise 3. Is outgoing, and outdoorsy 4. Skydives, or has no problem with my skydiving 5. Has a nice smile 6. Doesn't judge people only on appearances 7. Likes to cuddle and watch movies 8. Likes big Teddybear type guys (i.e. me) 9. Doesn't want me for money, cause I don't have any 10. Likes me as much as I like her, and isn't afraid to show it 11. Is truthful 12. Is within 3 years of my age 13. Likes to travel 14. Has an open mind, likes to try new things 15. Doesn't smoke, or do drugs, and drinks only socially 16. Doesn't expect me to dance to techno/rave/hiphop. Gimme the slow stuff that's where it's at 17. Has a playful personality, but knows when to be serious 18. Doesn't follow politics, or force me into political debates 19. Misses me as much as I miss her when we're apart 20. Must be monogamous 21. Can be emotional and cry on my shoulder, but isn't hyper-emotional Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #56 April 16, 2004 Looks good in jeans :) Employed Cute smile Jumper or be ok with the fact that i jump Can handle when i cry Can do basic maintenance of cars Good kisser Likes my kitty Doesn't hit me Calls when he's supposed to Doesn't lie ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 4 #57 April 16, 2004 Quote 3) Not a jerk Liar! it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #58 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuote 3) Not a jerk Liar! Busted!!! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #59 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuote 3) Not a jerk Liar! [back peddling] I wanted an asshole, but then I settled for a nice guy. It turns out, the nice guys out there give great sex, so I changed my mind about the asshole thing! [/back peddling]There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #60 April 16, 2004 Edditing my list: 11) (Should be #1) Must be ok with the fact that my Daughter comes first. 12) Must be ok with the fact that I will not be having any more kids - ever. 13) If she has kids - the morals involved with the raising of the kid must be agreable to both of us.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #61 April 16, 2004 I had only a few qualifications: 1) Female 2) Couldn't be younger than me 3) Nobody I worked with or around 4) Certainly never, ever a lawyer 5) Geographically desirable These rules were strictly enforced. So I ended up with a female 10 months younger than me, who was a lawyer 240 miles north, and now I work with her. Turns out my list eliminated what I was looking. She called, I answered, and we've been happy ever since (Ironically, her list wiped me out, too. We are the odd couple, and people think we're perfect together) My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #62 April 16, 2004 Quote1) Female Wow, how could we forget to specify sex! goes to edit list of qualifications Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #63 April 16, 2004 I really don't have many on my list except: 1) must be MALE! 2) we have to have chemistry 3) must be honest 4) someone I can trust 5) LOYAL 6) must enjoy FUN SEX and lots of it! Yep, that's about it for me!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chuckbrown 0 #64 April 16, 2004 QuoteTurns out my list eliminated what I was looking. She called, I answered, and we've been happy ever since (Ironically, her list wiped me out, too. We are the odd couple, and people think we're perfect together) Man, doesn't this about sum it all up. Great response. Don't follow your list, listen to your heart. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hookitt 0 #65 April 16, 2004 Quote Who wants to date a BASE jumper anyways You're kidding me right?My grammar sometimes resembles that of magnetic refrigerator poetry... Ghetto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 24 #66 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuote Who wants to date a BASE jumper anyways You're kidding me right? They're even smellier then freefliers.. all this hidding in bushes and all Again, for the hard of reading:Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,400 #67 April 16, 2004 >crappy service = no tip; great service= big tip..so what are you really saying here? No no, not how people tip them, how people treat them. Does someone bark orders at their waiter, complain about the food when it's not perfect, gripe about how slow things are? Those traits may surface later in the relationship. I think a waiter is an example of someone you have no obligation to be nice to, and thus the "real" you comes out. And that's what the later relationship will be based on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #68 April 16, 2004 Hmmm.... I'll ponder that analogy. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gmanpilot 0 #69 April 17, 2004 I think at this point, I only have two requirements. Together, we must effortlessly and joyfully produce: 1. Heat, and 2. Loyalty_________________________________________ -There's always free cheese in a mouse trap. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #70 April 17, 2004 Hmmm...let's see... 1. Breathing 2. Supportive 3. Breathing 4. Honest 5. Breathing 6. Warm and loving 7. Breathing 8. Likes to laugh There's more but I think that's a good start."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BoostedXT 0 #71 April 17, 2004 Honest Trustworthy Caring Communicates Faithful JoeFor long as you live and high you fly and smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry and all that you touch and all that you see is all your life will ever be. Pedro Offers you his Protection. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #72 April 17, 2004 QuoteHonest Trustworthy Caring Communicates Faithful Joe Forgive me? _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
namdrib 0 #73 April 19, 2004 QuoteHmmm...let's see... 1. Breathing 2. Supportive 3. Breathing 4. Honest 5. Breathing 6. Warm and loving 7. Breathing 8. Likes to laugh There's more but I think that's a good start. So what if the person you are dating has asthma? You know, he obtains the "Breathing" aspect that you are looking for, but has difficulty keeping it up without assistance from inhalers! Would that be a problem? Just curious.Unknowing attempting to take out all 4 wheeled vehicles remotely close to the landing area! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #74 April 19, 2004 Steve..what's your list? instead of dissecting someone elses'... _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TomAiello 25 #75 April 19, 2004 QuoteSteve..what's your list? instead of dissecting someone elses'... You must have missed his sig file on another board. Quote"The sooner I figure out a way to make love to my Skyflyer, the sooner I will have no need for a woman" Judging from that, his list is: 1) Made by Bird-man, inc. 2) Able to make love. Seems pretty simple. Maybe somebody ought to give Robert a call and see if he can get started on the next generation wingsuit. -- Tom Aiello [email protected] SnakeRiverBASE.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
