Singles: Do you have a "list"? WAY SERIOUS STUFF HERE..BRACE YOURSELF!!!!

[RkyMtnHigh 0]

Just curious..those who are single and have been in relationships that weren't quite right...have you put together a "list" of what is important to you for the next relationship and what are red flags? My list is slowly coming together and I'm just curious if there is more I could include...

So far......

1. Is spiritual...believes in God.
2. What is/was their relationship with their mom?
3. If there's an ex, how do they get along?
4. How does he deal w/small dishonesty?character Q.
5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc.
6. How I rank? Are friends more important than me?
7. Do they miss me after a week of being apart?
8. Do they smile? Are they Funny?
9. Are they playful and know how to have fun?
10. Do they take care of themselves?
11. Are they self sufficient?
12. Are they a momma's boy? meaning do they call mom before making every decision?
13. Supports the fact that I jump from planes...


There's more...but that's the start of my list..what's yourlist boyz and gals?

[AggieDave 6]

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5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc

You left out "skydiver" in the list there.

--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

[Casch 0]

1. Is spiritual...
no
2. What's their relationship with their mom?
drives me nuts
3. If there's an ex, how do they get along?
no ex
4. How does he deal w/small dishonesty?character Q.
little white lies, while often unneccessary, are ok. I try to be entirely honest
5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc.
don't gamble, don't smoke, drink socially
6. How I rank? Are friends more important than me?
I have 1 best friend, he is at the top of my list within reason. Otherwise my SO is "it"
7. Do they miss me after a week of being apart?
most likely
8. Do they smile? Are they Funny?
I smile quite a bit, and try to be funny
9. Are they playful and know how to have fun?
quite playful, and miss having someone to have fun with
10. Do they take care of themselves?
I'm getting in shape, and shower daily, trying to eat healthy
11. Are they self sufficient?
Self sufficient if I have the money to be so lol
12. Are they a momma's boy?
Absolutly not




Oh wait, this is supposed to be a list of MY requirements...ooops

[RkyMtnHigh 0]

Oh wait, this is supposed to be a list of MY requirements...ooops

[chopchop 0]

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I'm taken but thought I'd see how I measure up to your list anyway..

1. Is spiritual...believes in God. that'd be a big nuh uh..nope
2. What is/was their relationship with their mom? ummm.. uh.. yeah.. uhh... I remember her.. she's ok, I guess.
3. If there's an ex, how do they get along? which one of dem bitches you aksin about?
4. How does he deal w/small dishonesty?character Q. hey.. I don't rat out my friends and they shouldn't rat me out neither.
5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc. I am a PW. nuff said.
6. How I rank? Are friends more important than me?well.. seeing I gots no friends.. my women are always tops.. ain't that right plaything?
7. Do they miss me after a week of being apart? a week? hell.. as soon as i get horny..
8. Do they smile? during the whole bj..Are they Funny?women have laughed at the look on my face when I am cumming..
9. Are they playful and know how to have fun? welll.. I have a plaything.
10. Do they take care of themselves?I know where the McDonalds is.. I can feed me.
11. Are they self sufficient? Yup.. I can do it with my left or right hand.
12. Are they a momma's boy? meaning do they call mom before making every decision? nah..that tweaker aks for money every time I call da bitch.. oh wait.. that's the exeses
13. Supports the fact that I jump from planes... as long as your packin', we're jumpin'


I is a great catch.

chopchop
gotta go... Plaything needs a spanking..

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[nacmacfeegle 0]

Okay, I'm spoken for and don't play the field, but I reckon sense of humour used to be pretty high on my list.

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[Gawain 0]

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Oh wait, this is supposed to be a list of MY requirements...ooops

It was interesting...I appreciate your insight..you're a cutie patootie anyway! Thanks for sharing!

[winsor 186]

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Just curious..those who are single and have been in relationships that weren't quite right...have you put together a "list" of what is important to you for the next relationship and what are red flags? My list is slowly coming together and I'm just curious if there is more I could include...

So far......

1. Is spiritual...believes in God.
More of a nihilist than atheist - Orthodox Infidel - so a big no there.

2. What is/was their relationship with their mom?
Get along great in small doses.

3. If there's an ex, how do they get along?
First - fine, second - no contact (not sure if she's still alive).

4. How does he deal w/small dishonesty?character Q.
No use for liars whatsoever. A lie is a lie.

5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc.
17 years without intoxicants, don't smoke or gamble. Way addictive personality.

6. How I rank? Are friends more important than me?
It depends on the relationship - I'm a sex fiend.

7. Do they miss me after a week of being apart?
See answer to #6.

8. Do they smile? Are they Funny?
Truly sick sense of humor, so I smile a lot and think LOTS of things are funny.

9. Are they playful and know how to have fun?
Yes.

10. Do they take care of themselves?
After a fashion.

11. Are they self sufficient?
Pretty much so (see answer to #10).

12. Are they a momma's boy? meaning do they call mom before making every decision?
Not hardly.

13. Supports the fact that I jump from planes...
If you don't jump, you don't count - unless you're REALLY good in bed.


Blue skies,

Winsor

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[schwede 0]

#1 should be a skydiveress...

If thats not on the list.... Have tried whuffos and it simply didn't work.. except during winters when there was no skydiving activities.

Schwede
"Das Leben ist schön, nicht immer aber immer öfter"

[QuickDraw 0]

My 'list' appears here.

http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=680953#680953

-- Hope you don't die. --

I'm fucking winning

[WrongWay 0]

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Dude...she called you a "patootie"...

I was thinking the same thing.....is that like a potato??


For mine it's pretty simple.

1. Must like skydiving/be a skydiver.
2. Must be honest and faithful.
3. Must have a good sense of humor.
4. Must not enjoy bitching.
5. Being cute doesn't hurt either.

Wrong Way
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The wiser wolf prevails.

[Vallerina 2]

My "list" is seemingly simple, but it's actually very difficult to fulfill.

1) Intelligent
2) Honest
3) Not a jerk
4) Funny

I have never accepted anything less than those four things.

There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning

[Remster 24]

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1) Intelligent
2) Honest
3) Not a jerk
4) Funny

I have never accepted anything less than those four things.

Are you sure about #3 and your present situation?

Remster

[TheBile 0]

1. Must be someone I can trust.
2. Must be genuinely friendly.
3. Must not be afraid of or supress her femininity

4. Has patience when needed.
5. Independant enough to be able to carry on with her own life whilst being in a relationship.
6. Must not have a criminal record.
7. A spark of innocence helps.
8. Maybe a little shyness too.
9. Adventurous
10. Kind, caring, sense of humour etc. etc. etc....

Obviously I would never 'require' anyone to fulfil every one of those points, but the top 3 are the most important to me.

Gerb

I stir feelings in others they themselves don't understand. KA'CHOW !

[ryoder 1,382]

You forgot :
#14: Do they have an arbitrary list they use to nitpick every aspect of our relationship?

Here is my list:

1. Am I better off *with* this person, or *without* them?

Isn't that much simpler?

"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

[Vallerina 2]

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Are you sure about #3 and your present situation?

I should modify #3 to "Less jerky than I am," then I think my current situation is covered.

There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning

[RoysPlayThing 0]

ROTF LMFAO!

You forgot a number 14.

14. Does he Have a great mind, and even stupid jokes seem to come out with ease and mastery? Yup, Dat be you chopchop, you're answers were molded with personality and charmed with your wit... I'm still laughing dammit! ...

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My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open.

[skybytch 259]

Mine is constantly evolving...

1) Gotta be a skydiver
2) Makes me laugh and vice versa
3) Smart.
4) Doesn't mind that I hate to cook
5) Has a strong connection with his family - parents, siblings
6) Takes care of his kids if he has any - ie if he doesn't have custody he pays his child support, looks forward to visits and keeps in close contact with them - but I'd prefer that his kids be already grown or if they aren't they don't live with him full time
7) Either already has all the kids he wants or doesn't want any
8) Gotta be a good kisser
9) Lives alone and kinda likes it that way
10) Single - ie the divorce is final or he's never been married
11) Wants to get married at some point but is in no great rush to do so
12) Open and honest about his baggage
13) Has dreams and plans for his future
14) My height or taller (yeah, I know, that's superficial but I like to look up to my man )
15) Shares or at least tolerates my addictions
16) Shares many of my interests but has interests of his own as well
17) Doesn't have a "can't miss" TV show - I hate TV
18) Willing and able to talk about the serious stuff without changing the subject.. and willing and able to get me back on the subject when I change it
19) Loves to travel and experience new things
20) Understands that my son is always going to be one of the most important people in my life and doesn't resent the time I spend with him
21) Has a soft mustache

[RkyMtnHigh 0]

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You forgot :
#14: Do they have an arbitrary list they use to nitpick every aspect of our relationship?

Here is my list:

1. Am I better off *with* this person, or *without* them?

Isn't that much simpler?

Yo! hehehe...I knew you were lerking and would pop up eventually!...

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[RkyMtnHigh 0]

I really like your list Lisa! it made me think of a few more.

Another one is that it'd be nice if he's "mechanically inclined". I'm ready to turn the plumbing projects over

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[Remster 24]

What a bunch of demanding people!!!!!!!!


I'm glad I found myslef a woman with low standards!

Remster

[DrunkMonkey 0]

1. Intelligent. College educated.
2. Shares/appreciates a morbid sense of humor.
3. Physically fit (including weight and appearance).
4. Loves aviation and/or skydiving.
5. Likes travel.
6. Not uber-religious. (11th Commandment: Thou shalt keep thine religion to thineself.)
7. No drugs other than alcohol (no illicit/tobacco), but not a boozehag.
8. Likes the outdoors (scuba, jumping, etc).
9 NO KIDS!
10. Ablility to debate without getting personal.
11. A tomboy but a girly-girl as well (situational).
12. Sexual but not wantonly slutty.
13. Makes her own damn money.
14. No Nagging!
15. Positive/upbeat. Likes to laugh.
16. Must have own life, and not leech mine.
17. Finished with stupid shit like a high school-esque obsession with "bad boys."
18. Hasn't slept with the whole fucking planet
19. Good teeth.
20. Pretty eyes.
21. Not obsessed with that home-n-garden shite.

...That's about it.

[turtlespeed 212]

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Just curious..those who are single and have been in relationships that weren't quite right...have you put together a "list" of what is important to you for the next relationship and what are red flags? My list is slowly coming together and I'm just curious if there is more I could include...

So far......

1. Is spiritual...believes in God.
>>Like Skygod?
2. What is/was their relationship with their mom?
>>She lives in another city - we talk on the phone - I love her - but it's not a freudian thing.
3. If there's an ex, how do they get along?
>>Fair to partly wild - Some people just don't get it
4. How does he deal w/small dishonesty?character Q.
>>It should be brought out and showed to all that will listen and even those that don't want to.
5. Addictive personality? gambling, drugs, etc.
>>Check
6. How I rank? Are friends more important than me?
>>Hard question can we grade it on a bell curve?
7. Do they miss me after a week of being apart?
>>See Answer #6
8. Do they smile? Are they Funny?
>>All the time - Yes but looks aren't everything!
9. Are they playful and know how to have fun?
>>Oh yeah - Riding the beacon Nekkid and jumping outta planes - what more could you ask for?
10. Do they take care of themselves?
>>I love me - so, yeah, I take real good care of me.
11. Are they self sufficient?
>>I have a job - It was posting in TalkBack - Now it's the Bonfire.
12. Are they a momma's boy? meaning do they call mom before making every decision?
>>NO. Not Just No, But HELL No.
13. Supports the fact that I jump from planes...
>>I isnsist that I get to go too.
14. Will he let me be his pack biotch?
>>Sure, I'll let you.


There's more...but that's the start of my list..what's yourlist boyz and gals?

There - I listed that last one - seems like you forgot it.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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[Aviatrr 0]

Damn....no wonder there are so many single people...with lists like that.... I don't have any kind of "list"...for me, it's based more on impressions. If I enjoy being around her, I'll give it a shot. Maybe that's why I've had so many short relationships - since I don't have such high standards...but I'm using the shotgun theory..

Mike

[Brains 2]

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since I don't have such high standards...but I'm using the shotgun theory..

I call it the trotline theory. One line with a bunch o hooks just to see what you catch.

Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you.