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billvon 2,470
>but wouldn't it have been better if she has realized that he was a
>great guy back when he was 18?
And he would have ended up with a vain and shallow 18 year old woman. Given a choice between a vain and shallow 18 year old and a more mature 25 year old, I'd have taken the 25 year old any day (back when I was around those ages, that is!) That way he gets an extra 7 years to have fun as a single guy while the woman matures. He lives his own life while she makes other people's lives hell. Sounds like a win-win.
>great guy back when he was 18?
And he would have ended up with a vain and shallow 18 year old woman. Given a choice between a vain and shallow 18 year old and a more mature 25 year old, I'd have taken the 25 year old any day (back when I was around those ages, that is!) That way he gets an extra 7 years to have fun as a single guy while the woman matures. He lives his own life while she makes other people's lives hell. Sounds like a win-win.
shah269 0
Bill,
If she showed up without any baggage.
The girl was tool food for 7 years, and has a little one in hand....which means the tool is now a part of the picture.
OK here is an example, you like sports cars?
OK how about I buy one, abuse the crap out of it treat it like dirt......and at 50k miles hand it over to you at a really good price....for me!
Would you want that car?
If she showed up without any baggage.
The girl was tool food for 7 years, and has a little one in hand....which means the tool is now a part of the picture.
OK here is an example, you like sports cars?
OK how about I buy one, abuse the crap out of it treat it like dirt......and at 50k miles hand it over to you at a really good price....for me!
Would you want that car?
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.
The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
champu 1
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25 is not middle aged and there was no "plan A".
Nah 25 is not middle aged....but 25 been around the block a dozen times walking around with a new born realizing the tools are going for the 21yo girls and well....one can get old rather quick.
So she reached back.....WAY BACK......to a guy she would not give the time of day to and made it as if she was doing him a favor......and he fell for it.
I'm sure he is happy, he finally "got the girl" but wouldn't it have been better if she has realized that he was a great guy back when he was 18?
If the guy sat around alone pining over her for 7-8 years then the outcome of the relationship probably won't depend on when they got involved. If he had other relationships in the meantime then maybe he grew and that's why he finally "got the girl". Would it have been better? Meh. Maybe it would just better fit your relationship mold.
Personally, I don't think I'd get involved with a woman who already has kids, but my reasons lie in our future not her past or what "plan" I happened to be.
shah269 0
No mate he didn't get anything.
She reached back and found him.
She hunted him down!
Ever see a Japanese whaling ship stalk and take out a whale?
Kind of like that...
She reached back and found him.
She hunted him down!
Ever see a Japanese whaling ship stalk and take out a whale?
Kind of like that...
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.
The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
Less hair but the same guy.
I'm still who I am.
Regardless of the job or education. I am who I am.
Case in point, I'm a professional now. A few people never left the little town I grew up in...which I do my best not to visit.
But it has happened that when I have visited, girls who would not talk to me due to me being Persian are now very friendly because I'm tipping the bartender and buying drinks for me and my brothers.
Well.....why on gods green earth would I give them the time of day? I wasn't good enough for them when I was 14 why am I suddenly good for them now that I'm 34?
I'm no ones plan B!
The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
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