Conundrum 1 #1 December 22, 2007 I will make this short. My grandma has stage 4 lung cancer. It is directly linked to smoking, which she quit doing over 17 years ago. We found out less than a year ago. She was really sick and no one knew what it was so they gave her a CAT scan, and by time they found it, it was already to late. Treatment would only delay the inevitable. She and the tumors responded well to the chemo and radiation but suddenly (this week) her condition started deteriorating very rapidly. She moved up to Portland after she was diagnosed so she could be with my Aunt, who she rarely saw. She was supposed to come back down here to be with us for Christmas, but she cannot because of her current state. I spoke with my mom earlier today and she said they weren't sure she'd make it to the end of this year. I just got off the phone with my dad. He said after running some tests today they aren't sure she will make it through this weekend. I've never heard his voice tremble like that. We spent 5 days up in Portland for Thanksgiving to be with her and I am thankful for that. I won't ever get to see her again. I guess this wasn't very short, but any thoughts you can just say to yourself would be great. I know it won't change anything, but you never know what good thoughts can do. I hope she can hang on at least until after Christmas. Thanks for reading. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NtheSeaOrSky 0 #2 December 22, 2007 You got it. Some for your grandma, some for your family, and some for you. Life is not fair and there are no guarantees... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #3 December 22, 2007 Ya'll are in my prayers. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RALFFERS 0 #4 December 22, 2007 QuoteYa'll are in my prayers.Ditto....Dialogue/commentary between Divot, Twardo & myself - "from your first Oshkosh when the three of us were riding to or from one of Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #5 December 22, 2007 I am sorry about your Grandma, and hope that her suffering will end in her sleep. I wish I had some wise words for you but I do not. Maybe just call her and speak with her, that might mean the world to her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #6 December 22, 2007 I was wondering why I hadn't seen much of you in th elast week. Best wishes for you and your family. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #7 December 22, 2007 My thoughts and heart to you & family as well as her, and hoping that her suffering is short and passing peaceful.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #8 December 22, 2007 I'm sorry for the pain that your grandmother and your family has to endure. Cancer is truly a horrific thing. I hope that things progress gently and peacefullly during this holiday season. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #9 December 22, 2007 Hey Chelle, thoughts, hugs and prayers sent your way. My grandmother passed away from the same thing 7 1/2 years ago. We were very close - I still think of her almost every day.....and tonight I got to see my grandfather...we had a long talk about the loss of her for quite a while. pm if you need to chat.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #10 December 22, 2007 January 23, 2006 I lost my father to the same exact thing. I understand how incredibly difficult and painful this is for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mayberry 0 #11 December 22, 2007 Wow, I'm sorry to hear this Chelle. I lost my dad 10 years ago & my brother just this past Aug. to the same thing. I know what you & your family are going through & will keep you in my thoughts. Hugs- Don Here's to friends! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hungarianchick 0 #12 December 22, 2007 You and your family will be in my thoughts. Stay strong! "I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wv_girl 0 #13 December 22, 2007 I'm very sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my thoughts. The same thing happened to my grandpa in 2003. We found out the day before Thanksgiving that he had stage 4 cancer and he passed away early Christmas morning. It's a tough thing to go through at any time, but especially during the holidays. Stay strong and remember to take care of yourself.There are three types of people in this world; those that can count and those that can't. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #14 December 22, 2007 I'm so sorry, Chelle. I know exactly how you feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hang in there, sweetie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drdive 0 #15 December 22, 2007 I lost my Mom 5 years ago yesterday. It's a tough time to lose a loved one. My thoughts and prayers are coming your way. Ed"We saved your gear. Now you can sell it when you get out of the hospital and upsize!!" "K-Dub" " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #16 December 23, 2007 My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I've been through something similar. Peace and comfort to your grandmother. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #17 December 23, 2007 I am sending out thoughts of peace to your grandma and to you. May she be comfortable during the time that's left here for her, and may her family recieve strength and acceptance. Sorry for your situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #18 December 23, 2007 I'm praying for all involved, especially your grandma. Hang in there, Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nanook 1 #19 December 23, 2007 Wishing I can take the pain away. _____________________________ "The trouble with quotes on the internet is that you can never know if they are genuine" - Abraham Lincoln Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elias123 0 #20 December 23, 2007 My thoughts and best wishes are with you and the whole of your family. Hang in there."In a mad world, only the mad are sane" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
base689 0 #21 December 23, 2007 Your grandma and yourself are in my thoughts. Take care you allStay safe out there Blue Skies and Soft Walls BASE #689 - base_689AT_NO_123_SPAMyahoo.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #22 December 23, 2007 Having lost an uncle to cancer two months ago and slowly losing my 94 year old grandmother (same uncle's mom), I can understand your pain. Hang in there. Prayers sent."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #23 December 23, 2007 Little update: She was admitted to the hospital on her request (after getting scared) the night before last. The end is very near. My dad flew up last night to be with her for her last hours. They have her on o2 and morphine, so I hope that she is at least in little to no pain. I called my aunt last night to see if I could just talk to her for just a second, but she was so tired. She said to tell me she loved me, thanks for calling, and tell my family she loves them. I don't think she will make it to Christmas, in fact I don't know that she will last through today. I wish I could be there to hold her hand, but I know that she has her children there with her to be by her side during that time. Thank you everyone for your PM's and thoughts here. I appreciate it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Usetawuz 1 #24 December 23, 2007 My prayers, thoughts, and best wishes for your Grandma, you, and your family. _________________________________________ The older I get, the better I was! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #25 December 23, 2007 Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Hope everything is as pain-free as possible.Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites