Bad relationships

[swoopfly 5]

How do you let someone go that you love, because you know it will never work????

[cocheese 0]

I have no idea, but if you say the wrong thing, she will do it for you.

[Jbag 0]

you just gotta detach, stop talking to them, use logic over emotion, it really really sucks but its doable.

IHYD

[JohnDeere 0]

Do like I did one time and change the locks to the house....... she got the point!

Nothing opens like a Deere!

You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!

[SkydiveJack 1]

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How do you let someone go that you love, because you know it will never work????

You pull your cutaway handle,

then move on.

If you know it will never work,

then it won't.

[Andy9o8 0]

Marry her; wait until she hates your guts and divorces you; then buy her a house.

[BaronVonBoll 0]

smash her crack pipe

[bobsled92 0]

No painless way.
2 sides
no winners
(it would have to be mutual to just walk away ok)

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[LongWayToFall 0]

If it will never work, then you OWE her the decency to end it. Hanging on for the sake of old times is bullshit.

[BillyVance 34]

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If it will never work, then you OWE her the decency to end it. Hanging on for the sake of old times is bullshit.

There's the answer.

"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

[Zep 0]

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Marry her; wait until she hates your guts and divorces you; then buy her a house.

Good God a masoquistic lawer, whatever next

Gone fishing

[turtlespeed 212]

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How do you let someone go that you love, because you know it will never work????

Untie her. Leave the locks undone. Move out of state. In that order

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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[pontiacgtp00 0]

How do you love someone but not want to be with them? Must be conditional.

[Beerlight 0]

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How do you let someone go that you love, because you know it will never work????

I don't know. You'll have to ask my ex-GF.

[emmiwy 0]

And I thought love conquers all...

[Heatmiser 0]

Mutual love does.

What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo

Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama

[amstalder 0]

Dont have any interaction with said person for a few weeks to a few years... And that includes facebook stalking...

[emmiwy 0]

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Mutual love does.

How sad.

[skybytch 259]

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How do you love someone but not want to be with them?

Easy. When the person you love becomes somebody you don't want to hang out with. Or when the person you love isn't willing to make a commitment and you want one. Or when the person you love has completely different values and hopes for the future and you know those will conflict with yours.

Or all of the above.

[dreaming13000 1]

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If it will never work, then you OWE her the decency to end it. Hanging on for the sake of old times is bullshit.

But for how long? What about hanging on for the future? Just curious what others think?

"A man only gets in life what he is believing for, nothing more and nothing less" Kenneth Hagen

[Hjeada 0]

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How do you let someone go that you love, because you know it will never work????

Still trying to figure that one out, if you find an answer, let me know...

Dudeist Skydiver #0511

[Smirniof 0]

Eat plenty of onions and garlic ..then go out ... and drink plenty of carbonted water ... :) ... He will be more than glad to let you go :)

[shah269 0]

My smart ass side is telling me to for you to tell this person that you want a threesome.
In which case if they say yes....well she's a keeper!

The more Zen side of my brain is telling me that I should tell you to be honest.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[Southern_Man 0]

Be honest but do it quickly. Stretching it out is not doing her any favors and is just making it torturous to you. Tear it off all at once like a bandaid. Get it over with.

Then cut off contact, at least for a short while. Don't go back. Things won't change.

"What if there were no hypothetical questions?"

[amstalder 0]

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Be honest but do it quickly. Stretching it out is not doing her any favors and is just making it torturous to you. Tear it off all at once like a bandaid. Get it over with.

Then cut off contact, at least for a short while. Don't go back. Things won't change.

Yep. Always best to cut off contact when you rip that bandaid off. Its so much harder to deal with when youre trying to pretend everything is hunky dory now that youre just friends. Dont bullshit yourself.