Guest #1 October 1, 2003 Hi all, I recently posted a message about my former supervisor at Boeing, and how he underwent chemo to defeat leukemia. He had some close calls, and endured a living hell in order to undergo a bone marrow transplant. Everything looked pretty good. This past thursday, lab results came in. He and his wife (an OB-GYN) were expecting complete remission; that is, zero percent cancer. His marrow is now 60 percent cancerous. The odd part is that he says he feels fine. He had two choices to make - undergo another round of chemo even worse than the last, and get another couple of months at best, most of which would be spent in violent illness to the treatment, or bag it. He's chosen the latter option, and since the cancer is growing at about a percent a day, odds are he won't live to see Hallowe'en. He has lasted about 6 months more than he was supposed to when he was diagnosed last March, but he's had it. I know you don't know him, and you likely don't know me very well, but I hope you'll send vibes to a "cousin" (he's a scuba diver) to ease him on his way. A wonderful friend and associate who's hospice-trained is helping this chap and his wife with the final stuff. I burned a Dr. Dimento CD with a personal farewell message to him, because he isn't taking calls (some people are trying to convert him, and urge him to keep fighting the cancer when the cause is already lost)."The mouse does not know life until it is in the mouth of the cat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #2 October 1, 2003 sending vibes to your friend and to you Mark. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #3 October 1, 2003 (((((hugs))))) to you and your friend, Mark. ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fool 0 #4 October 1, 2003 ((((vibes))))) to all involved. S.E.X. party #1 "Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "f*#k, what a ride". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skygod7777 0 #5 October 1, 2003 ~~~~~vibes~~~~~~ tones of vibes going your friends way. later Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diverdriver 5 #6 October 1, 2003 Most sincere ((((vibes)))) for peace and solace for your friend. Go easy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,150 #7 October 1, 2003 Many vibes to him and his family, including the extended family which includes you. I hope his family can come to terms with this, and help him to die well, feeling as though he's had a good life. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #8 October 1, 2003 Vibes to everyone involved. He is in my thoughts. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #9 October 1, 2003 (((((((((((((((VIBES))))))))))))))))))))))))) You and your friend will be in my thoughts and wishes. If you need anything, anything at all, PM me. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest #10 October 1, 2003 QuoteMany vibes to him and his family, including the extended family which includes you. I hope his family can come to terms with this, and help him to die well, feeling as though he's had a good life. Wendy W. Wendy, Many thanks to you and to all. I hope when my time comes that I will die well. "The mouse does not know life until it is in the mouth of the cat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BartsDaddy 4 #11 October 1, 2003 {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} To your friend , his family and you. I hope his time left here can be relitivly painless and enjoyed by him and his family. God bless you all Handguns are only used to fight your way to a good rifle Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #12 October 1, 2003 Prayers and vibes going out to you. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydyvr 0 #13 October 1, 2003 Positive Vibes to you and your friend. . . =(_8^(1) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #14 October 1, 2003 Puget Sound vibes going his way Mark.My other ride is the relative wind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ltdiver 3 #15 October 1, 2003 Mark, You're a true friend to your boss. He's lucky to have you. Prayers sent to both him and his family. ltdiver Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footprints on the moon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #16 October 1, 2003 Sending VIBES to your friend, his friends and his family. This is a difficult time for all of you. He is at peace with his decision, but still a very difficult time. Jan -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #17 October 1, 2003 The easy part is giving in Mark, i hope he realizes his responsibilities to his friends and family. I can't say i envy a decision like his, but if fighting for 6 months longer would give him a year, then its another year in the bag, and another year closer to an effective treatment. I hope he sees some sense, in what must be a traumatic time for you all. UK vibes too mate. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riddler 0 #18 October 1, 2003 Good vibes to your friend and yourself, Mark. Take is easy.Trapped on the surface of a sphere. XKCD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #19 October 1, 2003 Vibes to him and you, my friend.Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GARYC24 3 #20 October 1, 2003 Message received. Prayers said. Gary Calhoun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites