kc10boom 0 #1 June 21, 2005 I have been dating this girl for just about 2 years now. I recently moved to California from Japan(military) and I want to end things with her. We gave it a good honest try and it just really did not work. How do I walk away from this? Any advice would be helpfull...Boom NKAWTG...N Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #2 June 21, 2005 If she is still in Japan just don't call or write. She'll catch on after a week or two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #3 June 21, 2005 uh instead of doing it the way Clay and some others around ehre would and have done.. how about a breath of fresh air and try a dose of honesty.. Its called communication. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 232 #4 June 21, 2005 "Hey, in case I don't see you again; you keep trucking.""I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #5 June 21, 2005 QuoteIts called communication. From a guy? Come on now........... Ok Ok.......try a nice email.... Dear Bitch, I was thinking of you the other day and I came across the most wonderful idea. Why don't you NEVER FREAKIN TALK TO ME AGAIN. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #6 June 21, 2005 Just tell her why things aren;t working out; be gentle, don;t be harsh. Just be open with her why you guys aren't right for each other Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kc10boom 0 #7 June 21, 2005 I thought about that, never talking again. But I feel some sort of obligation to her...we spent two 18 months together...it is hard to just break away...right handle, left handle!!! NKAWTG...N Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #8 June 21, 2005 Ok... you are gettin a spanking across my lap for that one.. you are in serious need of some remdial training. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #9 June 21, 2005 QuoteBut I feel some sort of obligation to her... Why? I mean..............you don't think she's spending every minute thinking of you do you? In Japan? I'd say at best the chances of that are slim. In all seriousness........no reason to burn any bridges. I would probably remain friendly with her. You're a boomer right? You might visit that place again. It's always good to have a friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #10 June 21, 2005 QuoteOk... you are gettin a spanking across my lap for that one.. Oh boy oh boy oh boy!!!!!!!!! Can you call me DIRTY names as well? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kc10boom 0 #11 June 21, 2005 Quote***It's always good to have a friend. Friends...maybe. Or maybe I just need to finish growing my nuts and cut it all lose. I have met some really cool people over the past few week(Colorado, Alabama) that have reminded me how good life can be when you are not being brought down by your signifigant other. She does'nt even skydive for fucks sakes NKAWTG...N Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #12 June 21, 2005 Quote ...We gave it a good honest try and it just really did not work.... Call me crazy, but I think you just answered your own question. Just say that.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Guest #13 June 21, 2005 Quote I recently moved to California from Japan It's harder for her to stalk you if she doesn't know where you live ... should have said your next base is in South Carolina ... You can have it good, fast, or cheap: pick two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Balls 0 #14 June 21, 2005 Dear (insert name here) Welcome to dumps-ville. Population: You. Seriously, just be honest.---------------------------------------- ....so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites FallinWoman 1 #15 June 21, 2005 You end it completely. You do not need to go into a three hour discussion about why it did not work, but you need to just tell her that it is over. Then you need to stop all communication. You may be able to be friends with her in the future, but in order to convince her that you mean it, you need to sever all ties for now. I thinnk it is better to give no excuse than to give a bullshit one. ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites KevinMcGuire 0 #16 June 21, 2005 Sleep with her sister or better yet her mom. Works every time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites FallinWoman 1 #17 June 21, 2005 QuoteSleep with her sister or better yet her mom. Works every time Tell her she is a lousy lay....sex with your sister would be more exciting.... that would work, too....although I do not recommend it... ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ECVZZ 0 #18 June 21, 2005 QuoteSleep with her sister or better yet her mom Her best friend will do the trick if her Mom or Sister aren't receptive to the idea. G. Jones "I've never been quarantined. But the more I look around, the more I think it might not be a bad idea." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites RoysPlayThing 0 #19 June 21, 2005 Quoteuh instead of doing it the way Clay and some others around ehre would and have done.. how about a breath of fresh air and try a dose of honesty.. Its called communication. Well said! I gasped when I saw the first response... thanks to you, there should be little sanity in this thread, and with the "good" responses.. sheesh guys... this is another human being... do it the right way. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ECVZZ 0 #20 June 21, 2005 Quotedo it the right way. But then there's all the trouble of hiding the body parts, cleaning up the chain saw, establishing an alibi... Just screw her Sister and get it over with! G. Jones "I've never been quarantined. But the more I look around, the more I think it might not be a bad idea." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkydivingNurse 0 #21 June 21, 2005 QuoteI have been dating this girl for just about 2 years now. I recently moved to California from Japan(military) and I want to end things with her. We gave it a good honest try and it just really did not work. How do I walk away from this? Any advice would be helpfull...Boom The answer is within the question, grasshopper. (Always wanted to say that) Just tell her that you both gave it a good honest try but things just didn't work out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Shark 0 #22 June 21, 2005 Take her skydiving! Oh, wait.... never mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Squeak 17 #23 June 21, 2005 Hey Baby! Don;'t let the door hit your cute arse on the way outSEE ya Wouldn't wanna be yaYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Beverly 1 #24 June 21, 2005 Be open and honest. If you are feeling funny about it, she is probably feeling it too! Don't sleep with her mom, sister, best friend, and don't say anything you don't mean, like I will come see you, or you can come see me, or we were good together. She will take you seriously. bad karma, end it well. I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Douva 0 #25 June 21, 2005 Quoteuh instead of doing it the way Clay and some others around ehre would and have done.. how about a breath of fresh air and try a dose of honesty.. Its called communication. BOOO! That's heresy! BOOO! Amazon is obviously a witch! BOOO! Burn her at the stake! BOOO! I don't have an M.D. or a law degree. I have bachelor's in kicking ass and taking names. 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ACMESkydiver 0 #12 June 21, 2005 Quote ...We gave it a good honest try and it just really did not work.... Call me crazy, but I think you just answered your own question. Just say that.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest #13 June 21, 2005 Quote I recently moved to California from Japan It's harder for her to stalk you if she doesn't know where you live ... should have said your next base is in South Carolina ... You can have it good, fast, or cheap: pick two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Balls 0 #14 June 21, 2005 Dear (insert name here) Welcome to dumps-ville. Population: You. Seriously, just be honest.---------------------------------------- ....so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #15 June 21, 2005 You end it completely. You do not need to go into a three hour discussion about why it did not work, but you need to just tell her that it is over. Then you need to stop all communication. You may be able to be friends with her in the future, but in order to convince her that you mean it, you need to sever all ties for now. I thinnk it is better to give no excuse than to give a bullshit one. ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KevinMcGuire 0 #16 June 21, 2005 Sleep with her sister or better yet her mom. Works every time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #17 June 21, 2005 QuoteSleep with her sister or better yet her mom. Works every time Tell her she is a lousy lay....sex with your sister would be more exciting.... that would work, too....although I do not recommend it... ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #18 June 21, 2005 QuoteSleep with her sister or better yet her mom Her best friend will do the trick if her Mom or Sister aren't receptive to the idea. G. Jones "I've never been quarantined. But the more I look around, the more I think it might not be a bad idea." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #19 June 21, 2005 Quoteuh instead of doing it the way Clay and some others around ehre would and have done.. how about a breath of fresh air and try a dose of honesty.. Its called communication. Well said! I gasped when I saw the first response... thanks to you, there should be little sanity in this thread, and with the "good" responses.. sheesh guys... this is another human being... do it the right way. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ECVZZ 0 #20 June 21, 2005 Quotedo it the right way. But then there's all the trouble of hiding the body parts, cleaning up the chain saw, establishing an alibi... Just screw her Sister and get it over with! G. Jones "I've never been quarantined. But the more I look around, the more I think it might not be a bad idea." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydivingNurse 0 #21 June 21, 2005 QuoteI have been dating this girl for just about 2 years now. I recently moved to California from Japan(military) and I want to end things with her. We gave it a good honest try and it just really did not work. How do I walk away from this? Any advice would be helpfull...Boom The answer is within the question, grasshopper. (Always wanted to say that) Just tell her that you both gave it a good honest try but things just didn't work out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shark 0 #22 June 21, 2005 Take her skydiving! Oh, wait.... never mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #23 June 21, 2005 Hey Baby! Don;'t let the door hit your cute arse on the way outSEE ya Wouldn't wanna be yaYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beverly 1 #24 June 21, 2005 Be open and honest. If you are feeling funny about it, she is probably feeling it too! Don't sleep with her mom, sister, best friend, and don't say anything you don't mean, like I will come see you, or you can come see me, or we were good together. She will take you seriously. bad karma, end it well. I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Douva 0 #25 June 21, 2005 Quoteuh instead of doing it the way Clay and some others around ehre would and have done.. how about a breath of fresh air and try a dose of honesty.. Its called communication. BOOO! That's heresy! BOOO! Amazon is obviously a witch! BOOO! Burn her at the stake! BOOO! I don't have an M.D. or a law degree. I have bachelor's in kicking ass and taking names. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
