Baksteen 84 #1 June 25, 2008 clicky This guy claims to have dated models, actresses and what have you. Yet IMO he comes across as a pathetic loser who is desperately trying to validate himself while failing to understand even the most basic thing about women: they too are just people. QuoteMISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women Right back at ya, buddy"That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 200 #2 June 25, 2008 I don't think he's that far off the mark. Maybe you just don't like it being put in writing...or maybe you're one of those who doesn't fall into the category. But I'll bet at least 4 of them would be correct for any woman.Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DougH 270 #3 June 25, 2008 No, he is dead on with a lot of those rules for many women."The restraining order says you're only allowed to touch me in freefall" =P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #4 June 25, 2008 I agree with some, but dont agree with the one about nice guys. I used to go after the bad boy, but after having my heart put thru a meat grinder time and time again, I started looking for the respectful nice guy. Ive never been happier. My biggest attraction to my boyfriend now is how he treats me, its with 100% respect 100% of the time. He's not a push over, and I know when he's not happy, but he respects me even in those times. That is worth its weight in gold. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #5 June 25, 2008 Yeah, I'd say about 50 - 60% of what he said is pretty dead on... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #6 June 25, 2008 I like #10 the best... "Not getting HELP" because I want to sell you my book!!! Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #7 June 25, 2008 Wow.. The women I usually hang out with or date casually are quite different. I guess there's a middle road somewhere. The nice guy thing is bull - noone wants a jerk, it's just that noone wants a pushover either. To me at least this guy seems very superficial, and to be telling men to be the dominant personality in a relationship, rahter than assume equal roles/compromise. Poorly worded, i know, but I hope you get the idea. 'Be yourself' may be a cliche, but it's absolutely true. You could pretend to have a completely differen, 'mr. right' personality, but anyone worth the air they breathe will sooner or later find you out."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hausse 0 #8 June 25, 2008 Quote Wow.. The women I usually hang out with or date casually are quite different. I guess there's a middle road somewhere. The nice guy thing is bull - noone wants a jerk, it's just that noone wants a pushover either. To me at least this guy seems very superficial, and to be telling men to be the dominant personality in a relationship, rahter than assume equal roles/compromise. Poorly worded, i know, but I hope you get the idea. 'Be yourself' may be a cliche, but it's absolutely true. You could pretend to have a completely differen, 'mr. right' personality, but anyone worth the air they breathe will sooner or later find you out. So, how often do you get laid? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 200 #9 June 25, 2008 Simple rule...the one who wants the relationship the least wins.Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #10 June 25, 2008 Nasty.."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #11 June 25, 2008 Just skimming over, it's probably pretty good for dating. Not so good for building a relationship.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poe62 0 #12 June 25, 2008 QuoteSimple rule...the one who wants the relationship the least wins. You are dead on...seriously.~Nikki http://www.facebook.com/poe62 Irgity Dirgity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hausse 0 #13 June 25, 2008 Quote Nasty.. Hey I gotta keep practicing in order to stay current... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #14 June 25, 2008 QuoteJust skimming over, it's probably pretty good for dating. Not so good for building a relationship.ding, ding, ding!!! We have a winner!!!Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butters 0 #15 June 25, 2008 QuoteJust skimming over, it's probably pretty good for dating. Not so good for building a relationship. QuoteEben W. Pagan (David DeAngelo) is a notable member of the seduction community and stresses that his recommendations are limited to advising men on how to present themselves more attractively in dating scenarios, and makes it clear that his advice is not necessarily relevant to ongoing relationships."That looks dangerous." Leopold Stotch Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DougH 270 #16 June 25, 2008 QuoteJust skimming over, it's probably pretty good for dating. Not so good for building a relationship. It is typical pick up artist playbook. And your right it isn't the way to meet a long term partner, but it works pretty well to get a girl to go home with you."The restraining order says you're only allowed to touch me in freefall" =P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
millertime24 8 #17 June 25, 2008 Well technically it IS "advice". Now is it good or bad advice? I guess thats whats in question here.Muff #5048 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piratemike 0 #18 June 25, 2008 QuoteI agree with some, but dont agree with the one about nice guys. I used to go after the bad boy, but after having my heart put thru a meat grinder time and time again, I started looking for the respectful nice guy. Ive never been happier. My biggest attraction to my boyfriend now is how he treats me, its with 100% respect 100% of the time. He's not a push over, and I know when he's not happy, but he respects me even in those times. That is worth its weight in gold. It sounds like your outlook will lead to good times for all. Now, how many other women out there feel the same as you do? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites