wildcard451 0 #26 January 31, 2009 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuotephysical age mostly likey is not an issue mental (maturity) age is another issue Please elaborate as to how this is a problem... I'm curious to hear what you have to say. I'd love to fuck and date a toned in shape 18 year old girl. I could not stand to hear her talk for more than 30 seconds. Just one example. I understood, generally speaking, what he was implying. And what you're implying. However, I think there are varying definitions of mental maturity... at least in my world. I think I was reaching for a more insightful response. I know you wanted something insightful. That is why I gave you what you got. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muff528 3 #27 January 31, 2009 Quote The rule I try to live by is my age divided by 2 plus 7. The is the youngest age I would date, or have a serious relationship with.. If I used that rule I would have to date only old ladies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #28 January 31, 2009 Quote Quote I can't wait til voice box removals become more popular than fake tits. Or just a removal of the gag reflex. +1 “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #29 January 31, 2009 Doc and I are just over 20 years apart. We have been married for 2 years now and together for 7. He had more of a problem with the age difference than I ever have. The big issue comes along when there is the possiblity of having children (not an issue for either one of us as we both didn't want anymore kids) and then you have to think about where you are in your life and what your goals are. These things change and if you can find compromise on both sides I haven't seen it as an issue.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caress 0 #30 January 31, 2009 only time it should matter is if one is underage. Then you have to consider legal implications. For instance-My son 18 in Aug-His girl 16 just turned in Dec. So no nookie until after she is 18. Preferably after they are married. Thats the deal. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #31 January 31, 2009 QuoteI don't think it's an issue. Until you get to those extreme cases. Not picking on anyone in particular but the case of Anna Nicole Smith being married to the 80 year old guy...that was just wrong. Just an example of the extreme. ^this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildcard451 0 #32 January 31, 2009 Quote only time it should matter is if one is underage. Then you have to consider legal implications. For instance-My son 18 in Aug-His girl 16 just turned in Dec. So no nookie until after she is 18. Preferably after they are married. Thats the deal. Depending on the state, that may easily be legal. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ravenhk 0 #33 January 31, 2009 age is only a number of on a paperpain is weakness leaving the body Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loudtom 5 #34 January 31, 2009 I am glad to see that most of us agree. You may only find someone that cares about you, so that you know they will always be on your side, once if your lucky, maybe twice. NOTHING should stand in the way of that... Erin would agree, but she is gone, and I have to hope it happens again. ha lt You'll see I don't get here often, but the subject spoke to me...so to speaktom #90 #54 #08 and now #5 with a Bronze :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohanW 0 #35 January 31, 2009 Quote Eventually an age disparity will make a difference... A friend had his younger girlfriend ask him if Paul McCartney was in a band before Wings. Having once attended a Beetles concert it kinda made him stop and go hmmm... Beetles? Who are they? Kids these days .. can't spell wotrh a damn. Johan. I am. I think. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuna-Salad 0 #36 January 31, 2009 For the most part it doesn't matter, but the bigger the gap the more it matters. 20 something + 50 something? That is sort of borderline.Millions of my potential children died on your daughters' face last night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,397 #37 January 31, 2009 Quote I don't think it's an issue. Until you get to those extreme cases. Not picking on anyone in particular but the case of Anna Nicole Smith being married to the 80 year old guy...that was just wrong. Just an example of the extreme. Women. They just can't stand the idea that an old guy died happy.And I am told that in accordance with his last wishes, he was buried face down between two large pillows."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #38 February 3, 2009 Quote I don't think it's an issue. Until you get to those extreme cases. Not picking on anyone in particular but the case of Anna Nicole Smith being married to the 80 year old guy...that was just wrong. Just an example of the extreme. Seems to work for Hef... Of course at this point I'm kinda betting that is more a PR and ego thing than physical.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #39 February 3, 2009 Quote I think I was reaching for a more insightful response. You are aware of where you posted this, right? Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 6 #40 February 3, 2009 Quote age is only a number of on a paper Yeah? ........bet ME and lose! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #41 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote I don't think it's an issue. Until you get to those extreme cases. Not picking on anyone in particular but the case of Anna Nicole Smith being married to the 80 year old guy...that was just wrong. Just an example of the extreme. Women. They just can't stand the idea that an old guy died happy.And I am told that in accordance with his last wishes, he was buried face down between two large pillows. When a guy is living with younger women, then he is using them for "sexual gratification" and is a pig. When Demi Moore is living with a guy way younger than her, she is "empowered" by the "relationship". You just don't understand the operative phrase. "...that's different." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SSHusky 0 #42 February 3, 2009 absolutely not. Scott (Icon) and I are getting married. he is 11.5 yrs older than me. Age doesn't seem to play a factor in our relationship... although I do like to constantly tell him that he is so old. We are at similar stages in our life... both out of school. Obviously he has more work experience whereas I just started. We are both patient with each other (Scott seems to have more patience than me). We both are aware of the age/maturity difference but it rarely becomes a factor. Our families don't have a problem with the age difference... although initially both parents had their worries... mine that I was dating and older man that might take advantage of me... and his parents that this young thing would break his heart. Anyways obviously I am very happy and I think age shouldn't matter. Love is love, it can be complicated by age but if you truely love each other you both will work through it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #44 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote When a guy is living with younger women, then he is using them for "sexual gratification" and is a pig. When Demi Moore is living with a guy way younger than her, she is "empowered" by the "relationship". You just don't understand the operative phrase. "...that's different." I just figured if a guy is with a much younger woman, she's a whore. And if a guy is with a much older woman, she's a cougar. Go figure... "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SSHusky 0 #45 February 3, 2009 QuoteThe rule I try to live by is my age divided by 2 plus 7. The is the youngest age I would date, or have a serious relationship with.. well crap... Scott you and I are going to have to end it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #46 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote When a guy is living with younger women, then he is using them for "sexual gratification" and is a pig. When Demi Moore is living with a guy way younger than her, she is "empowered" by the "relationship". You just don't understand the operative phrase. "...that's different." I just figured if a guy is with a much younger woman, she's a whore. And if a guy is with a much older woman, she's a cougar. Go figure... "...that's different." See how easy that is? Remove all the logic from the discussion and apply a valueless phrase. At this point, conclude a return to reason by adding "Well, I am so done talking with you about this." I hope that Normiss isn't having moral qualms about dating younger women. Since he recently had another birthday, a lot more of them are younger. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #47 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote When a guy is living with younger women, then he is using them for "sexual gratification" and is a pig. When Demi Moore is living with a guy way younger than her, she is "empowered" by the "relationship". You just don't understand the operative phrase. "...that's different." I just figured if a guy is with a much younger woman, she's a whore. And if a guy is with a much older woman, she's a cougar. Go figure... "...that's different." See how easy that is? Remove all the logic from the discussion and apply a valueless phrase. At this point, conclude a return to reason by adding "Well, I am so done talking with you about this." I hope that Normiss isn't having moral qualms about dating younger women. Since he recently had another birthday, a lot more of them are younger. Well he does continue to post those "ass of the month" threads.... "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #48 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote The rule I try to live by is my age divided by 2 plus 7. The is the youngest age I would date, or have a serious relationship with.. well crap... Scott you and I are going to have to end it. You don't think get away from me that easily do you... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SSHusky 0 #49 February 3, 2009 QuoteI just figured if a guy is with a much younger woman, she's a whore. QuoteYou don't think get away from me that easily do you... yeah but apparently I am a whore... of course you would want to hang onto me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #50 February 3, 2009 Quote Quote I hope that Normiss isn't having moral qualms about dating younger women. Since he recently had another birthday, a lot more of them are younger. Well he does continue to post those "ass of the month" threads.... Yes. I've noticed that none of the women are in the "mature" age bracket. I have noticed that all of the sales reps that I meet are women who resemble them. Apparently, middle-aged guys want to talk to them for any reason. If one of those women would run for elected office, I'd vote for her for Secretary of State. I see peace in the middle east if Miss January was there. "I will be signing the treaty if I see your boobies this once more" Might as well get some productive use out of this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites