Amazon 7 #26 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Well, it must be possible, but in my experience someone always ends up feeling left-out! It takes true talent to insure no one is "left out" Ah ha ha!! Now I'm picturing someone trying to buy insurance for a threesome!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #27 August 20, 2010 Happy Birthday Deedy!I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #28 August 20, 2010 I would say that the married person is cheating, and the single person is enabling them, which makes it almost as bad. I would add exceptions for married people who have filed for divorce and are living apart from their soon to be former spouse and open relationships. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 3 #29 August 20, 2010 QuoteI would say that the married person is cheating, and the single person is enabling them, which makes it almost as bad. I would add exceptions for married people who have filed for divorce and are living apart from their soon to be former spouse and open relationships. What about military spouses? They live 7000+ miles from their SO... cant get more seperated."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #30 August 20, 2010 QuoteQuoteI would say that the married person is cheating, and the single person is enabling them, which makes it almost as bad. I would add exceptions for married people who have filed for divorce and are living apart from their soon to be former spouse and open relationships. What about military spouses? They live 7000+ miles from their SO... cant get more seperated. "married people who HAVE FILED FOR DIVORCE and are living apart from their soon to be former spouse" That wouldn't apply to the majority of military spouses. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #31 August 20, 2010 We refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #32 August 20, 2010 QuoteWe refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book. Separated means still married. I agree. However, separated and filed for divorce means they're just waiting for the legal waiting period to run out. Here in CA, it's six months, which is pretty short, but in some other states it can be two years. If someone's filed for divorce a year and a half previously, has been living apart the entire time, and is just waiting for it to be final, that's a different situation than someone who is on a "trial separation" and hasn't filed anything at all. It's a situation that requires careful evaluating, but I wouldn't rule it out completely. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #33 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote We refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book. Separated means still married. I agree. However, separated and filed for divorce means they're just waiting for the legal waiting period to run out. Here in CA, it's six months, which is pretty short, but in some other states it can be two years. If someone's filed for divorce a year and a half previously, has been living apart the entire time, and is just waiting for it to be final, that's a different situation than someone who is on a "trial separation" and hasn't filed anything at all. It's a situation that requires careful evaluating, but I wouldn't rule it out completely. So at what point in the process do the lawyers get paid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #34 August 20, 2010 OK. Agreed.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #35 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote We refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book. Separated means still married. I agree. However, separated and filed for divorce means they're just waiting for the legal waiting period to run out. Here in CA, it's six months, which is pretty short, but in some other states it can be two years. If someone's filed for divorce a year and a half previously, has been living apart the entire time, and is just waiting for it to be final, that's a different situation than someone who is on a "trial separation" and hasn't filed anything at all. It's a situation that requires careful evaluating, but I wouldn't rule it out completely. So at what point in the process do the lawyers get paid As a former practicing attorney, I'll tell you that many of them try to get paid up front, during, after and then try to bill long after if they think the client still has anything. It's one of the reasons I no longer practice. You are known by the company you keep. And yes, I've known of them trying to prey on their clients for sex as well.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 3 #36 August 20, 2010 QuoteQuoteWe refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book. Separated means still married. I agree. However, separated and filed for divorce means they're just waiting for the legal waiting period to run out. Here in CA, it's six months, which is pretty short, but in some other states it can be two years. If someone's filed for divorce a year and a half previously, has been living apart the entire time, and is just waiting for it to be final, that's a different situation than someone who is on a "trial separation" and hasn't filed anything at all. It's a situation that requires careful evaluating, but I wouldn't rule it out completely. But, technically still married. Military service members can still be penalized even if they have been separated and filed a year ago."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 3 #37 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote We refer to men who are separated physically from their spouses as 'geographical bachelors'. Hmmm? For the record, I have nothing to do with women who are in any kind of relationship. And separated means that you are still married in my book. Separated means still married. I agree. However, separated and filed for divorce means they're just waiting for the legal waiting period to run out. Here in CA, it's six months, which is pretty short, but in some other states it can be two years. If someone's filed for divorce a year and a half previously, has been living apart the entire time, and is just waiting for it to be final, that's a different situation than someone who is on a "trial separation" and hasn't filed anything at all. It's a situation that requires careful evaluating, but I wouldn't rule it out completely. So at what point in the process do the lawyers get paid As a former practicing attorney, I'll tell you that many of them try to get paid up front, during, after and then try to bill long after if they think the client still has anything. It's one of the reasons I no longer practice. You are known by the company you keep. And yes, I've known of them trying to prey on their clients for sex as well. Well, maybe you should have stopped practicing and started DOING it."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #38 August 20, 2010 From a moral standpoint, I think it's fine if both parties agree to see other people (either because they have "separated" or because they are in an open relationship). If one of the parties is unaware that their partner is seeing someone else, however, it's totally unacceptable in my view. As for the person who is seeing a married man / woman, well, I wouldn't say they are cheating on anyone.. Certainly they are cheating themselves and they are essentially accepting that infidelity is ok, thereby setting a bad precedent if they ever did want exclusivity with their partner... In any case, I genuinely can't understand how a person could be ok with being "the other woman/man"."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 0 #39 August 20, 2010 QuoteOne is cheating and the other is a low life for being involved with someone in a commited relationship IMHO. Agreed. If you're married and cheating, at least you are risking serious consequences to your own life. If you're single and bangin' a person you know is married, you have less to lose, but you're wrecking someone else's home, and you can always walk away from the mess with far fewer consequences to yourself - so I think that's even worse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ZigZagMarquis 8 #40 August 20, 2010 I'm really surprised boobies are getting more votes... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #41 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote I imagine it's possible for some people to be happy in mutually agreed-upon open relationships... Subtle use of italics noted Well, it must be possible, but in my experience someone always ends up feeling left-out! It doesn't have to be an observer ride, if not involved they can still fly camera...Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
labrys 0 #42 August 21, 2010 If the single person doesn't know the married person is married... then the married person is a complete ass gasket. If the single person knows... then it depends a lot on circumstances.Owned by Remi #? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 268 #43 August 21, 2010 Quote And separated means that you are still married in my book. +1. Show me the certificate of divorce.See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CDRINF 1 #44 August 23, 2010 If he (or she) thinks its okay to help you do someone dirty, it's only a matter of time before he dirties you. CDR Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #45 August 23, 2010 Damn! Where were all those single men when I was trying to get somebody to take her sorry ass off MY hands for a while? I would have paid for their dinner, dance AND the 3-day weekend in Aspen.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyhi 24 #46 August 23, 2010 Quote depends on who the two guys are The Devil's threesomeShit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 622 #47 August 23, 2010 My two favorite biker helmet stickers" "I had a wife once but her husband came and got her" "Now matter how good she looks, someone somewhere is tired of her shit" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ZigZagMarquis 8 #48 August 23, 2010 A good one I've seen is: "I used to be fucking crazy, but I don't anymore!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #49 August 24, 2010 QuoteOne is cheating and the other is a low life for being involved with someone in a commited relationship IMHO. this is the only answer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #50 August 24, 2010 Quote When a married person has an affair with a single person are they both cheating or is just the married person cheating? 7 states have a law that affords the SPOUSE rights to sue the person in the affair that's outside their marriage= ALIENATION OF AFFECTION. (it should be in all 50 states) *note: had I been able to sue in my case, all I would have won is= 2 Skate boards and 1 or 2 video games (that's about all he has)_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
