Have you ever been unfaithful?

[airtwardo 6]

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It isn't cheating if it is with her and and her girlfriend at the same time is it?

Yes it is...you're thinking of a wife & her sister.

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[shah269 0]

it's just bad karma.
I have enough of that in my life I don't need any more.
but.....not cheating isn't the best thing.
Some of the happiest couples I know are those where the wife knows full well that their husbands have something on the side.
Though it's not my thing, I've often thought that maybe having something on the side would have saved my marriage?
Forgoing fidelity for stability? Rough call.
But I'm glad I never did. At least I can say that.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[airtwardo 6]

'having something on the side'

They MOVED IT?!

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[skyrider 0]

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It isn't cheating if it is with her and and her girlfriend at the same time is it?

Yes it is...you're thinking of a wife & her sister.

Oh gawd, I just barfed a bit in my mouth, her sister, is just under 300 pounds...

[kasch 0]

I fell in love with my very good friend while I was dating someone. Didn't physically do anything but I guess it was emotional cheating since I kept dating her a couple months even after I realzied it.

Sex with sith is like sex with a stripper. A lot of flashing lights and waving of glowing sabers, but in the end you end up with something dark and wrinkely.

DPH# "-13"
TSK# "-13"

[JohnMitchell 14]

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, her sister, is just under 300 pounds...

Did you say under?

[booyah 0]

A mans willingness to cheat is limited only by his options.

Men cheat, period. Fact of life. We were put on this earth to spread our seed, it is how the human race survives. It is in our nature, we can't help it.

There are those that put on a facade to make their wife, or girlfriend, or whoeever think they would never do it, but if given the opportunity the majority would. If there was a guarantee they would never get caught 100% would.

Dispute it, argue it, say whatever you want but it is the truth. It doesnt say anything about the person, its just simply how we were created, a sex drive and the desire to spread our seed is a very very strong attribute of the male species.

Why do all men when they masturbate think about someone else other then their wife or girlfriend? Its because we all desire to have sex with other people. Cant wait for those to speak up and say they actually think about their wives or girlffriends when they masturbate cause that is guaranteed bullshit.

All men will know what I am talking about, those that say I am full of shit, are those that either dont have the opportunities to cheat or are simply filling their wives or girlfriends heads with bullshit because thats what the wives and girlfriends want to hear.

[airtwardo 6]

I guess I'm one of those guys that will tell ya your full of shit...

I've never cheated and have the opportunity constantly, half the month my wife is 5000 miles away...that's EVERY month for the last 20 years!

There are so many other factors that go into a relationship besides sex, if those other things are missing maybe that is part of what the cheater is really looking for in other partners, and the physical contact is just the quickest and easiest to get.

When ya find the right one, waking up next to her everyday is ten times better than rolling off someone you met the night before...trust me!

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[ManagingPrime 0]

"We were on a break!!" needs to be added as a poll option.

[wildcard451 0]

Sure. It was college. I played around. I enjoyed the thrill and game of it. Looking back was it right? No, but I live, learn my lessons, and moved on.

Gave it up though. Too much trouble to keep everyone straight.

[JohnnyMarko 1]

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Gave it up though. Too much trouble to keep everyone straight.

me too

[airtwardo 6]

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Gave it up though. Too much trouble to keep everyone straight.

me too

I thought the too Johnny...just wouldn't have been as funny if I said it!

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[wildcard451 0]

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Gave it up though. Too much trouble to keep everyone straight.

me too

*golfclap* Bravo.

[skyrider 0]

Unfaithful? yes...many times I have ridden jap bikes....they always make me feel dirty and cheap.....but...they .........are ....just .........so easy.....How can I pass them up?

[airtwardo 6]

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Unfaithful? yes...many times I have ridden jap bikes....they always make me feel dirty and cheap.....but...they .........are ....just .........so easy.....How can I pass them up?

Like dancing with a fat chick...it's fun but ya wouldn't want yer friends to know!

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[Croc 0]

A man who will cheat on the one person he promised not to will throw his best friend under the bus in a heartbeat to save his own ass. Never trusted them.

This is not personally directed at anyone, just a general observation.

"Here's a good specimen of my own wisdom. Something is so, except when it isn't so."

Charles Fort, commenting on the many contradictions of astronomy

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

While married: Absolutely not. I took those vows extremely seriously. I don't lie to God.

In my early 20s before I started dating my future xH when I was 23 or 24: Kinda... in a drunken hook up while out clubbing kinda way. Never dumped anyone to be in a relationship with a hook up. And those alcohol fueled hook ups only happened 2 or 3 times, tops.

And anyone I've dated after my divorce: Nope. Wouldn't dream of it.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[davjohns 1]

I tried dating two women at the same time once. I was a wreck for the entire week. There was no agreement or exclusivity. I just appear to be extremely monogamous. Not sure how people cheat and make it work in their minds. Whether it is just dating or engaged or married. It just doesn't click in my mind. Never have. Never will.

I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet..

But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course.

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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I tried dating two women at the same time once. I was a wreck for the entire week. There was no agreement or exclusivity. I just appear to be extremely monogamous. Not sure how people cheat and make it work in their minds. Whether it is just dating or engaged or married. It just doesn't click in my mind. Never have. Never will.

"Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups."

I hate it when people ASSUME there's exclusivity before it's been discussed.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[davjohns 1]

That's just it. I don't think they had any notion of us being exclusive. I just felt guilty about seeing two women at once.

I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet..

But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course.

[Bolas 5]

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Why do all men when they masturbate think about someone else other then their wife or girlfriend? Its because we all desire to have sex with other people. Cant wait for those to speak up and say they actually think about their wives or girlffriends when they masturbate cause that is guaranteed bullshit.

I have while in relationships masturbated about the one I was with.

Masturbation is much more "goal oriented" then sex and fantasizing about others can get you to that goal quicker without impacting your "travel times" when having sex.

It also depends on who you're fantasizing about.
Movie, TV, Internet, and/or porn stars, pictures of people you don't know, someone seen while out and about, all are relatively "safe" as long as you're not turning down sex for it.

Friends, neighbors, coworkers, someone you see regularly may also be okay occasionally but if continuously the same person that may indicate a problem as well.

There are two things I won't tolerate or do in a relationship, nonconsensual violence and cheating. If either occur, we're obviously not right for each other if the communication is so bad it's come to this point.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[airtwardo 6]

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Why do all men when they masturbate think about someone else other then their wife or girlfriend? Its because we all desire to have sex with other people. Cant wait for those to speak up and say they actually think about their wives or girlffriends when they masturbate cause that is guaranteed bullshit.

I have while in relationships masturbated about the one I was with.

Masturbation is much more "goal oriented" then sex and fantasizing about others can get you to that goal quicker without impacting your "travel times" when having sex.

It also depends on who you're fantasizing about.
Movie, TV, Internet, and/or porn stars, pictures of people you don't know, someone seen while out and about, all are relatively "safe" as long as you're not turning down sex for it.

Friends, neighbors, coworkers, someone you see regularly may also be okay occasionally but if continuously the same person that may indicate a problem as well.

There are two things I won't tolerate or do in a relationship, nonconsensual violence and cheating. If either occur, we're obviously not right for each other if the communication is so bad it's come to this point.

Sounds like you've got no lock at all on your spank bank!

~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~

[skyrider 0]

Theres Locks?

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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That's just it. I don't think they had any notion of us being exclusive. I just felt guilty about seeing two women at once.

I wish that would rub off on someone I know.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[Bolas 5]

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That's just it. I don't think they had any notion of us being exclusive. I just felt guilty about seeing two women at once.

I wish that would rub off on someone I know.

Pilots don't feel guilt.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.