LuckyMcSwervy

OMG LuckyMcSwervy is still around? Yikes! I ain't dead yet!! Always be kinder than you feel.

OMG this thread is still around? Yikes! Always be kinder than you feel.

Hi all! Life is fine but I've decided to only live in Key West part time. Honestly, I can't take the tourists, the noise, the crowds or the psychos full time. I'm starting to hate the island. So, to preserve my love for this place like I had before I lived here full time I'm getting out ASAP. I'll come down from up north-ish (not NJ) when I feel like it. Always be kinder than you feel.

Just popping in to say hello! I hope you're all well!! Always be kinder than you feel.

I've been unsuccessfully trying to upload a pic of the ocean view I have when I open my eyes and wake up at my guy's house. Cruise ships, shrimp boats, fishing charters and the like. Life is so fucking good it's like a dream. Thank God for second chances and reconnecting with someone who is amazing in so many important ways. Always be kinder than you feel.

Just say no. Always be kinder than you feel.

Lucky has been getting lucky??? In November, the first guy I dated here in July and I innocently, casually reconnected. Perfect gentleman, totally respectable, very smart, very handsome, lots of fun and a conservative. Treats me like a princess. Always be kinder than you feel.

I don't have a list, actually. I have always been flexible in my approach to finding someone because so many things go into making each person unique that the same trait in one person could be a strength and in another a real turn-off... Cockiness can be charming or it can be offputting... Romanticism can be wonderful or it can be stiffling... So it's not like the guy didn't "tick enough boxes" - it simply felt very wrong. When your gut tells you that, you'd be foolish not to listen... I'm not looking for some kind of prince charming or an unrealistic fantasy... Of course getting to know someone takes time but in some cases, it's immediately obvious that no further dating is required... And that shouldn't be taken as some kind of insult. I met with a guy a couple if weeks ago. On the face of it, I thought we would get on swimmingly. Plus I found him VERY handsome and couldn't wait to meet him. I was all giddy and excited and thought the evening went well but he never called me back. I'm not offended by this and upon further reflection my enthusiasm was not actually shared. It happens. It's nobody's *fault*. I am who I am and not what he was looking for. It is disppointing but I'm not going to curl up into a ball and feel bad about myself!! I just accept it and move on. That would drive me crazy. You're nice like me. I bet you let someone know there will be no further dates. Some people think one date doesn't "require" an explanation but I like to let someone know I'm not interested. Always be kinder than you feel.

When/if you decide to lower ALL of your standards, let me know. (by the way, I'm 5'10" so I've got that going for me. ) I just remembered you've actually seen this list. Always be kinder than you feel.

Thanks for sharing! I know there's a few active members of DZ.com who have dived this beautiful plane.

Sucks, doesn't it? I made a list of must haves and have been told it's ridiculous to paint someone into a box. I disagree. No one knows you better than you. Some things on the "list" can seem rather silly to someone else but if it matter to YOU that's all that matters. For example, I like taller guys. Taller to me is 5'10"+. I like to wear heels (I'm about 5'5" now, I'm shrinking). I hate to tower over my date. It also goes to a feeling protected thing by being with a bigger guy. Silly to some, but it is one thing I found didn't matter TOO much as I'm seeing someone who is 5'9" and makes me feel amazingly safe.

Thanks for sharing! I know there's a few active members of DZ.com who have dived this beautiful plane.

Good luck with that! Always be kinder than you feel.

Then again if you leave the foreskin alone you won't have to be worried about the moyl/mohel giving the kid herpes. Blech. Always be kinder than you feel.

Snake in a turtleneck. I haven't heard that in YEARS!! Always be kinder than you feel.