npgraphicdesign 2 #1 September 22, 2011 Seriously...do people really KNOW what love is? How the hell do you know if you truly love someone? Why are you required to say 'i love you' to someone 2-3 months (or less) after you start dating them? When I see young kids saying ' I love you ' almost automatically to each other, it makes me wonder...are they even aware of what it means ?? Oh and the look of discomfort on the face of this teen when his gf said 'I love you' to him on the train today...it was priceless. Its a trap really... Regardless of who says it first, it always puts immense pressure on the other person. If they don't say it back, then the 'he/she didn't say it back...do they love me or not?' doubting begins. Thought on love? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wolfriverjoe 1,351 #2 September 22, 2011 Thoughts on love? Sure. "There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy "~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beerlight 0 #3 September 22, 2011 Quote Thought on love? Never be the first to say it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtbox 0 #4 September 22, 2011 Ha! I don't believe in it. A person should be able to tell how much you care by how you treat them, saying a stupid commercialised word with almost no real meaning doesn't really prove shit... that said my current girlfriend finds it odd (though she gets it and know how I feel about her regardless of the word) and other people, when discussing this view, normally just think I am bitter or someshit :P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 622 #5 September 22, 2011 I LOVE seeing Skymama in her panties, does that count? It is easily thrown around I believe, but if you feel it why wouldn't you say it? No worries, no pressure. Part of love is letting go of that fear and going for it. If you're more concerned with their happiness than your own is that a sign? Think of them first in everything? It's only a trap if you let it make you feel that way. YMMV Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The_Don 0 #6 September 22, 2011 You got it bad!! And that is GOOD!!!!!! I am NOT being loud. I'm being enthusiastic! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 14 #7 September 22, 2011 Quote If you're more concerned with their happiness than your own is that a sign? I think that's one of the best signs of true love. You're a smart man ( But of course, you're dating Skymama). The early "I love you"s? Well, a lot of that is hormones, but hey, it makes the world go 'round. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #8 September 22, 2011 Quote A person should be able to tell how much you care by how you treat them, saying a stupid commercialised word with almost no real meaning doesn't really prove shit... that said my current girlfriend finds it odd (though she gets it and know how I feel about her regardless of the word) Well then, show your girlfriend how much you care about her by telling her that you love her. Since the words mean nothing to you, but a lot for her to hear, put her needs in front of your own and say it. What's the big deal?She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #9 September 22, 2011 Quote I LOVE seeing Skymama in her panties, does that count? I LOVE that you love seeing me out of them too. I also love that you stayed home from work yesterday because you were worried about strangers coming to the house for a meeting with me and also how you told me to take your Pimpmobile yesterday so you could go get my tire fixed. The words "I love you" are definitely nice to hear but loving actions also send the message. I do feel that most young girls probably say it too soon. They should be saying "I lust you" instead.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirtbox 0 #10 September 22, 2011 but she understands my 'understanding' of the word so saying it would be hollow - going to this orchestra tonight shows 'love' (I was born without a musical gene (we both mock my musical ability ) and I'd rather walk over coals than attend something musical but with her I'll go and there is a decent chance I'll enjoy it because I am there with her. A few notes slipped into the pockets of different clothes she wears also helps :P ) but seriously it is one of those words that people use when they have no logical way to express themselves or validate their point like when arguing with religious whack jobs or people who blindly follow cultural or political ideals and just repeat a stated belief without being able to provide a reason why. On the down side we will be going our seperate ways after 18months at the end of next week Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeJD 0 #11 September 22, 2011 Quote Its a trap really... Regardless of who says it first, it always puts immense pressure on the other person. If they don't say it back, then the 'he/she didn't say it back...do they love me or not?' doubting begins. "Ditto." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 24 #12 September 22, 2011 Are we talking prison love?Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #13 September 22, 2011 Quote Are we talking prison love? Maybe you are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jonstark 8 #14 September 22, 2011 Quote Thought on love? Did you hear about the Minnesota farmer who loved his wife so much he almost told her? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #15 September 22, 2011 Quote I LOVE seeing Skymama in her panties, does that count? TTIWWP "What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 622 #16 September 22, 2011 Oh I have pictures. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
agentsmith413 0 #17 September 23, 2011 *Patiently waits to hear what shah has to say about this* Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, all used up, and loudly proclaiming: Wow, what a ride! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #18 September 23, 2011 Geez...let those words slip out once and look what happens! "It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 14 #19 September 24, 2011 Quote Did you hear about the Minnesota farmer who loved his wife so much he almost told her? "Oh yeah sure, you betcha." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 14 #20 September 24, 2011 You gotta remember the classic words of Chrissy Hynde on this subject: Now the reason we're here As man and woman Is to love each other, Take care of each other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #21 September 24, 2011 Quote You got it bad!! And that is GOOD!!!!!! +1 That's awesome! I wish you guys the best of luck!Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeJD 0 #22 September 26, 2011 Quote You gotta remember the classic words of Chrissy Hynde on this subject: Now the reason we're here As man and woman Is to love each other, Take care of each other. ...When love walks in the room Everybody stand up Oh it's good, good, good Say I love you, I love you, I love you I love you, I love you, I love you... Of course, she also sang 'Bad boys get spanked'. I do like that woman's attitude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #23 September 26, 2011 I love you means whatever you want it to... Throw it around like "hello" and it means nothing... Say it when you feel it with all your body/heart/soul and it means everything."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
