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how would you explain to a good friend that he is too heavy to make a tandem? (or she if that were the case) :S



How heavy is he?
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how would you explain to a good friend that he is too heavy to make a tandem? (or she if that were the case) :S



Easy, I would take them out for pizza and then when they took the last slice, I would say" oh. by the way...
about that tandem...
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maybe I am different but I never have a problem telling ppl that.

its not like they dont know but theres no reason to be malicious about it.

just come out and tell them that they have to weigh 225 or less.

a good friend should understand that you arent being an asshole but they should also know they are heavy
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I've had to do this on a Number of Occasions. I tend to be indirect to the situation, it makes it easier on the person. I put it in terms of Gear TSO's or other regs - It makes it easier for them to think they can't jump because of a beuracracy - not because they are simply chunky.
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- It makes it easier for them to think they can't jump because of a beuracracy - not because they are simply chunky.



i guess it may just be me, but if you try to protect their feelings b/c theyre overweight, dont you feel youre insulting them?

I do. I tell them the weight limit and then I ask how close they are to it.

I have never had anyone get mad at me. its not like theyve only been overweight for a few days. they know it. I dont try to sugar coat anything. it seems like an insult when ppl do it to me and I am only extending that courtesy

EDIT: B/C MY SPELLING WAS ATROCIOUS
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okay, but i kind of screwed myself on this one. i've been trying to convince him and some other college buds for years to do this. i think at the start of my convinving he really did only way 230ish. as he's gained the weight over the years, i just let him continue to yap about it, thinking he really never would want to, so it wasn't a big deal. well, here i am and he's saying he's ready. freakin whuffos!

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The max suspended weight on the Vector reserves is 500 lbs so if you find a tandem master light enough, they could take him. My tandem exit weight is 207 and the heaviest student I have taken was exactly 293 (with harnass, altimeter, hat, and all). We do charge extra, though, because if the wear and tear on the gear and TM.
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LOL,

well chances are he wont do it anyway!
if you are afriad to say anything. just make your plans (for the time he's there ) around things other then skydiving. I bet he wont even mention it. unless thats the PRIME reason he's coming to visit.

i wouldnt use an excuse,though. I personally find it insulting and childish for ppl to lie to me to try to protect my feelings. I am different then most ppl I guess.

I like to tell it like it is if he really wants to jump hell lose the extra weight.and it may help his health if he losses enough weight.
sticking your head in the sand is not gonna make it go away. there are so many more thing you cant do b/c of his weight. eventually youre gonna hafta brave up and tell him
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I weighed 260lbs for my tandem. Got to go with Jay stokes (small guy from Arizona Airplay) I've got video but dont have a way to put it on the net. If the gear can handle it then it will be hard on him. I about passed out because of all the weight on the leg straps on opening, I got a bruise from underarm to underarm from the chest strap because is smacked me on opening. We even had a standup landing. But it can be done just depends on where/equipment and it wont be a comfortable canopy ride.

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It should not be hard to explain why there are weight limitations. Safety is number 1 and that is that. This sport is not about tempting fate or skirting death. Just a good healthy adrenaline rush. The gear can only handle so much weight. Tis unfortunate for larger people but it is what it is. Heavy people present more of a risk to instructors, more of a risk when landing and more of a risk of failure of the gear. Especially a main or reserve.

It's sucky but people of certain proportions and weight may not ride this ride...

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how would you explain to a good friend that he is too heavy to make a tandem? (or she if that were the case) :S



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What kind of shape is your friend in? It was my understanding from conversations with various people that the tandem weight limits were driven more by fitness than by equipment. A typical man much over 235 is probably not in very good shape- likewise for women over about 170. This probably varies so I would have him call the drpzone first.

We had someone out for a tandem that musta been approaching seven feet and had quite a bit of meat. He jumped with the smallest TI we had. Too bad there was no video- we were wondering how he managed to do that dangling from the harness on a guys back.
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But as Lambert said, Vectors have a 500 lb limit. Just a thought.

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If you can't work something out for him then it's probably best to just tell him. Maybe you could just say something like...the DZ has a couple of safety rules so you don't have a heart condition, right? No. You don't have epilepsy, right? No. You weigh less than 230, right? ummm...no? That might be a good way to start a weight discussion.

I went with a group of friends for our first tandem experience and one guy who is big, big, big and muscular weighed too much and manifest told him it was a no go. It sucked for him because he had to wait while all 13 of us did our jumps and had to endure a 4 hour roundtrip for, essentially, nothing. It's gotta be easier to tell a friend that he weighs too much then watch him sitting all bored and depressed at the DZ.
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