diablopilot 2 #26 September 15, 2004 QuoteWhy not just have contact with loving friends anyway? If I had loving friends, I wouldn't feel lonely. I guess our definitions of lonely are different. I guess I equate it to would I rather eat boring food day after day, or would I be willing to have a amazing gormet meal once and a while, and just have to suck it up and go hungry the next day. Without bad experiences the good ones are not so good. Peaks and Valleys. Of course I try to climb out of the valleys pretty quick-like. That said, I've been there done that. The denial. The "this isn't as bad as it feels", "it's gonna be ok", "it can't be happening behind my back so I'll ignore it" thoughts. The guessing what someone else is thinking. The non communication. Yeha I've done it all. Fuck the t-shirt, I got the jacket. If I could go back, would I give up the good times just to erase the bad? Nope. All those experiences make me who I am. I guess I still believe that one day I'll find someone that my total sum of experiences meshes with, and go from there. Call me a "realistic romantic". ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #27 September 16, 2004 Quote***If I could go back, would I give up the good times just to erase the bad? Nope... I usually feel this way too. Note: I said usually. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Morcyk 0 #28 September 16, 2004 Quote(trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Is that possible? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #29 September 16, 2004 you cant make a really really good life altering omlet unless you've broken a few eggs on the way.. oh well i figured on cliche' deserves another... but there is never any reason to be lonely except that you chose to be......____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #30 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteBut a lonely heart can be unlonely eventually and a broken heart is just broken. Unless it gets mended... Hell, I don't know but the answer is yes. Exactly. A broken heart just fucks with you forever and ever and....it makes you kind of jaded. At least with a lonely heart you're still hopeful. You need to get over it and move on Girl I'll take a broken heart over a lonely one any day. A life lived without love is no life at all Love is not suposed to be easy if it was it would be boring and pointless, breaking your heart once and awhile is part of how we grow as individualsYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacefuljeffrey 0 #31 September 16, 2004 Quotetis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. (trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Did staying a virgin that long make him weird, or is he a virgin because he's weird? Blue skies, -Jeffrey --Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #32 September 16, 2004 QuoteI'll take a broken heart over a lonely one any day. A life lived without love is no life at all Love is not suposed to be easy if it was it would be boring and pointless, breaking your heart once and awhile is part of how we grow as individuals I want you....NOW!!!"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lynxie 0 #33 September 16, 2004 A lonely heart is just a lonely heart that haven't found love yet. A broken heart is a lonely heart that was fooled to believe it wasn't lonely for a while. They are both painful, just a matter of degree- a broken heart is more painful. So I'd prefer a lonely heart if I had to choose between those two. But I don't want any of them. I can choose to risk getting a broken heart (more pain) for the chance of getting love (less pain). I think it depends on how much I want love and how much I'm willing to risk at the moment. -- "If you can dream it, you can DO IT!" -- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FreeflyChile 0 #34 September 16, 2004 you know a broken heart will heal, but you don't know that a lonely heart will ever find what it's looking for. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linny 0 #35 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteWhy not just have contact with loving friends anyway? If I had loving friends, I wouldn't feel lonely. I guess our definitions of lonely are different. I guess I equate it to would I rather eat boring food day after day, or would I be willing to have a amazing gormet meal once and a while, and just have to suck it up and go hungry the next day. Without bad experiences the good ones are not so good. Peaks and Valleys. Of course I try to climb out of the valleys pretty quick-like. That said, I've been there done that. The denial. The "this isn't as bad as it feels", "it's gonna be ok", "it can't be happening behind my back so I'll ignore it" thoughts. The guessing what someone else is thinking. The non communication. Yeha I've done it all. Fuck the t-shirt, I got the jacket. If I could go back, would I give up the good times just to erase the bad? Nope. All those experiences make me who I am. I guess I still believe that one day I'll find someone that my total sum of experiences meshes with, and go from there. Call me a "realistic romantic". Quote wow. *Lindsay necessity is the mother of invention p.s. my response is one of awe, not sarcasm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites jtval 0 #36 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuotetis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. (trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Did staying a virgin that long make him weird, or is he a virgin because he's weird? Blue skies, -Jeffrey - lol probably a little of both. I think he was wierd and never got laid but that only heightend his wierdness.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Judit 0 #37 September 16, 2004 I've had them both and they're both very painful. Quotethats kinda like "better to have loved and lost" isnt it. I would rather be broken over and over than stay lonely. It's certainly better to have been loved than not knowing at all but when you get broken hearted you can lose trust as well. If you don't know what you're missing you feel empty but the pain is not comparable. Having a broken heart can lead to being lonely and being lonely for a long time can lead to depression. Take risks not to escape life but to prevent life from escaping Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites piisfish 135 #38 September 16, 2004 do you need love ?? can send you some. scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #39 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuote(trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Is that possible? And what makes it impossible?.. yes... it is...Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flygirl03 0 #40 September 16, 2004 QuoteIs the owner of a lonely heart really much better than the owner of a broken heart? Inquiring minds want to know... I say yes. (I've got to get another radio station) Yes. And the owner of Either is better than the owner of both. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ earthbound misfit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites flygirl03 0 #41 September 16, 2004 BTW, Hope you hear a new song today and post about it... so I can get THIS one out of my head ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ earthbound misfit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #42 September 16, 2004 This essential problem is the song. If you change the song, problem solved. I recommend "Ding-a-ling" by Chuck Berry. Others should follow with their recommendations and you can select one that fits you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #43 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuote I work with a 33 years old virgin Just say "Trekkie", it's shorter. BINGO!!! WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!! for his last b-day he didnt know what to do so we all went out with him to a place of his choosing. we live in las vegas. so he decided to go to quarks bar and do the star trek experience. hey there's nothihng wrong with liking sci fi stuff but theres MORE to life then capt kirk I bet he is ugly and his mother dresses him funny. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 2 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
jtval 0 #36 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuotetis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. (trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Did staying a virgin that long make him weird, or is he a virgin because he's weird? Blue skies, -Jeffrey - lol probably a little of both. I think he was wierd and never got laid but that only heightend his wierdness.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Judit 0 #37 September 16, 2004 I've had them both and they're both very painful. Quotethats kinda like "better to have loved and lost" isnt it. I would rather be broken over and over than stay lonely. It's certainly better to have been loved than not knowing at all but when you get broken hearted you can lose trust as well. If you don't know what you're missing you feel empty but the pain is not comparable. Having a broken heart can lead to being lonely and being lonely for a long time can lead to depression. Take risks not to escape life but to prevent life from escaping Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 135 #38 September 16, 2004 do you need love ?? can send you some. scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #39 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuote(trust me, I work with a 33 years old virgin, the guy is weird) Is that possible? And what makes it impossible?.. yes... it is...Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flygirl03 0 #40 September 16, 2004 QuoteIs the owner of a lonely heart really much better than the owner of a broken heart? Inquiring minds want to know... I say yes. (I've got to get another radio station) Yes. And the owner of Either is better than the owner of both. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ earthbound misfit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flygirl03 0 #41 September 16, 2004 BTW, Hope you hear a new song today and post about it... so I can get THIS one out of my head ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ earthbound misfit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #42 September 16, 2004 This essential problem is the song. If you change the song, problem solved. I recommend "Ding-a-ling" by Chuck Berry. Others should follow with their recommendations and you can select one that fits you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #43 September 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuote I work with a 33 years old virgin Just say "Trekkie", it's shorter. BINGO!!! WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!! for his last b-day he didnt know what to do so we all went out with him to a place of his choosing. we live in las vegas. so he decided to go to quarks bar and do the star trek experience. hey there's nothihng wrong with liking sci fi stuff but theres MORE to life then capt kirk I bet he is ugly and his mother dresses him funny. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
