diablopilot 2 #1 November 6, 2007 It's been suggested that maybe, just maybe, I might be lacking in the "tact" department. Has anyone else noticed this? ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #2 November 6, 2007 Quote It's been suggested that maybe, just maybe, I might be lacking in the "tact" department. Has anyone else noticed this? I find that you just have a tendency to tell it like it is - never has bothered me, most of the time I am thinking the same thing.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gato 0 #3 November 6, 2007 I used to think that about our DZO - but now I know he's one of the most truthful and trustworthy people on the planet, who's seen way too many people fuck up and wreck themselves for stupid reasons. I think he cares too much to soften the importance of the message. You're off the hook - the rules of tact don't apply when lives are at stake. Now, if it makes you sociopathic, you might want to have some counseling, or perhaps a bit of blowjob therapy from a caring companion......T.I.N.S. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #4 November 6, 2007 I think I might be in the cubicle right next to you on this one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #5 November 6, 2007 yeah, but sometimes people need brutal honesty to hear what is being said. That is one of the things I appreciate about you two when you post. DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #6 November 6, 2007 You've always been nice to ME, and that's all that really matters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #7 November 6, 2007 Aw, shucks. ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BIGUN 1,100 #8 November 6, 2007 Since about 1975?Nobody has time to listen; because they're desperately chasing the need of being heard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McBeth 0 #9 November 6, 2007 Well I like you... and hope to actually get to see you soon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,407 #10 November 6, 2007 "YOU CAN"T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!" "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CanuckInUSA 0 #11 November 6, 2007 Quote "YOU CAN"T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!" For a second I thought this was some religious thread destined for the SC. Try not to worry about the things you have no control over Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifall 0 #12 November 6, 2007 And the problem is??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnRich 4 #13 November 6, 2007 Quotethe rules of tact don't apply when lives are at stake. Exception: when people are grieving, tact is important. You can say the same thing, without twisting the knife and making the grief worse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #14 November 6, 2007 Who gives a shit. You tell it like it is, and personally, I like it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #15 November 6, 2007 Good point.---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gato 0 #16 November 6, 2007 Quote the rules of tact don't apply when lives are at stake. QuoteException: when people are grieving, tact is important. You can say the same thing, without twisting the knife and making the grief worse. Right, you are - sorry if my statement was too all-inclusive. I was referring mainly pre-mortem individuals like myself, who sometimes need an occasional wake up call or kick in the ass from someone with more experience. Then again, sometimes (or all the time) threads get started here that are direct references to OTHER threads, and I don't always take the time to research whether or not this is the case. Hope I'm not being a Butt-insky.T.I.N.S. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #17 November 6, 2007 I wouldn't know, since I don't have much of a filter, either, at least not when it comes to dumbasses."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andrewwhyte 1 #18 November 6, 2007 Quote It's been suggested that maybe, just maybe, I might be lacking in the "tact" department. The person suggesting that, on the other hand, was being very tactful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #19 November 6, 2007 hmmm you've never offended me! You've made me laugh quite a bit - so you're golden in my book!!!! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #20 November 7, 2007 You're a dick...not a pa...just tellin it like it is... _____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karenmeal 0 #21 November 7, 2007 Well... I will say that your lack of sugar-coating things didn't sit well with me when I first met you. "What kind of dumbass lands in the fucking gun club?" "Me." But then... that was a pretty fucking dumb thing to do!And you let me stay in your trailer which was waaaaaay cool.-Karen p.s. When I was briefed that it was a gun club I didn't equate that to shooting range, I thought it was just a place where people went to go talk about guns.p.s.s. And no.. I did not notice the shooting.. I tune out sounds really easily. "Life is a temporary victory over the causes which induce death." - Sylvester Graham Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #22 November 7, 2007 And I did seriously regret my lack of tact in that moment. I could have handled that better, but I learned from it. ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #23 November 7, 2007 Tact? I've been gettign worse in that department. I got a call from a telemarketer yesterday offering me advice on stocks. He said, "How much did your stocks make for you in the last year." My response lacked a certain "tact." Nothign wrong with lack of tact. You are "keeping it real." My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #24 November 7, 2007 Quote You're a dick...not a pa...just tellin it like it is... I'm glad someone gets it!---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 3 #25 November 7, 2007 Quote It's been suggested that maybe, just maybe, I might be lacking in the "tact" department. Has anyone else noticed this? All I've noticed is your charm, so either I'm not terribly observant, or the person(s) who has(ve) accused you of being tactless is(are) overly sensitive to constructive criticism and unadulterated truth. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites