fossg 0 #126 October 16, 2009 Puerto Rico... rum drinks..warm weather.. (its snowing here and starting to stick) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #127 October 16, 2009 Quote Puerto Rico... rum drinks..warm weather.. (its snowing here and starting to stick) Skydiving, beach house, SCUBA when we get to Vieques, partying in San Juan, nekkid beach, OMG it can't get here soon enough!! Our little group that's going is so freaking stoked already!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #128 October 16, 2009 Quote Quote Now which guy here wouldn't wish to be harpooned by Nat? That would be sweet, wouldn't it? Mwaa ha haaa!!! You bunch of numpties!! Love the fishing analogies BTW!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerdgirl 0 #129 October 19, 2009 Have you tried a UK version of “Great Expectations”? Imagine that there is such. Great expectations is a high-end dating service. Over the weekend, I attended a dinner party hosted by a married couple who had met through Great Expectations. I’d never heard of it before. It’s not cheap but a lot more specific to you and what you state are your priorities/preferences. Just tossing out another option. Take it, leave it, or toss it out the metaphorical window. /Marg Act as if everything you do matters, while laughing at yourself for thinking anything you do matters. Tibetan Buddhist saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 26 #130 October 19, 2009 Marg: i don't think that's what nataly is really looking for. From post 3: Maybe the real problem is that I'm not really looking for a relationship.. That probably came off in her profile, and thats probably why she is getting so much noise: most men will see that (or a hint of that) and think hookup.Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #131 October 19, 2009 >Imagine that there is such. Great expectations is a high-end dating service. that reminds me-ever seen that Mad TV skit called "Lowered Expectations" comedy based on line dating for the real world.....good stuff Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #132 October 19, 2009 You need to be able to compete with gems like the one in this thread:http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=1695725 Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #133 October 19, 2009 The great social experiment! Online dating. Every guy wants the Brazilian underwear model regardless of how they look or how much the make and every woman wants that picture perfect guy who doesn't fart or have wondering eyes regardless of how they look.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 644 #134 October 19, 2009 You could not be more wrong. Your twisted perspective of what guys want could not be more offending to us, much less to the ladies. I am truly concerned for the women you cross paths with in your journey through this life. I look forward to one less dizziedotcom user in the near future. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #135 October 19, 2009 QuoteYou could not be more wrong. Your twisted perspective of what guys want could not be more offending to us, much less to the ladies. I am truly concerned for the women you cross paths with in your journey through this life. So a guy would go on line to look for an out of shape under achiever? Most women who know me actually think I'm kind of cool. They find my honesty refreshing.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #136 October 19, 2009 >Your twisted perspective of what guys want could not be more offending to us, much less to the ladies. no worries, his girls gone wild perspective will diminish just like ours did when he reaches the age of enlightenment.It's gonna be Buckle up Dorothy...cuz Kansas is going bye bye! Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerdgirl 0 #137 October 19, 2009 Aaah, looks like you're right, Guess the idea falls into the 'toss out the metaphorical window' category then. /Marg Act as if everything you do matters, while laughing at yourself for thinking anything you do matters. Tibetan Buddhist saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #138 October 19, 2009 Quote >Your twisted perspective of what guys want could not be more offending to us, much less to the ladies. no worries, his girls gone wild perspective will diminish just like ours did when he reaches the age of enlightenment. http://blogs.sfweekly.com/thesnitch/2009/08/hello_ladies_fur_flies_at_bay.php?page=1 Hey some of the older more mature ladies are looking to have fun to you know! So you are going to take the time to go online so as to find the same caliber of girl you would find at your local bar? I'm not tracking you? Wouldn't you try and maybe push a little? After all less risk is involved with online dating than walking up to a very attractive well educated girl at local bar.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #139 October 19, 2009 exactly- enjoy this line of thinking while you can, because I am telling you, you're headed for the midlife crisis of all time if you continue down that road.Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #140 October 19, 2009 Quote exactly- enjoy this line of thinking while you can, because I am telling you, you're headed for the midlife crisis of all time if you continue down that road. I'm 32, I ride a motorcycle and I'm leaning how to skydive....me midlife crisis...NO! And what line of thinking? That a guy shouldn't maybe push for the best possible mate he can get via the utilization of online tools? You lost me a little. I mean that's like a woman going online looking for an out of work pudgy guy who is way too into porn. Why go online? Go down to the local bar!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #141 October 19, 2009 Quote Marg: i don't think that's what nataly is really looking for. From post 3: Maybe the real problem is that I'm not really looking for a relationship.. That probably came off in her profile, and thats probably why she is getting so much noise: most men will see that (or a hint of that) and think hookup. Hmm.. I think maybe that didn't come out right.. What I meant was that I would really like a very good friend/companion.. I would like something to develop out of a caring friendship.. It's not that I don't want to be romanced.. I just don't want a rebound relationship.. You know the kind.. Where you're so used to being in a long-term relationship that you try and find that kind of feeling too fast with someone new. So maybe I'm kind of not really ready yet.. That being said.. A friend of mine surprised me over the weekend with a confession of having feelings for me "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 26 #142 October 19, 2009 Quote Quote Marg: i don't think that's what nataly is really looking for. From post 3: Maybe the real problem is that I'm not really looking for a relationship.. That probably came off in her profile, and thats probably why she is getting so much noise: most men will see that (or a hint of that) and think hookup. Hmm.. I think maybe that didn't come out right.. What I meant was that I would really like a very good friend/companion.. I would like something to develop out of a caring friendship.. It's not that I don't want to be romanced.. I just don't want a rebound relationship.. You know the kind.. Where you're so used to being in a long-term relationship that you try and find that kind of feeling too fast with someone new. So maybe I'm kind of not really ready yet.. See what I mean about men getting a hint of something and interpreting it their way? Quote That being said.. A friend of mine surprised me over the weekend with a confession of having feelings for me Cool! Have fun! Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #143 October 19, 2009 Hey Nat, what was the lamest pick up line one of these online Romeos laid on you? Can you please share! *edited due to forgetting to put the O in Romeo.... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #144 October 19, 2009 Glad you are giving your friend a chance. I hope he treats you well. What do you think about a 30 day sexual waiting period to prevent you both from making hasty decisions during this time of bonding? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 644 #145 October 19, 2009 the hell is a Rome? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #146 October 20, 2009 Quote Glad you are giving your friend a chance. I hope he treats you well. What do you think about a 30 day sexual waiting period to prevent you both from making hasty decisions during this time of bonding? 30 days?? Holy mother of god.. Is that considered "waiting" these days?? I mean.. I've known the guy somewhat for a couple of years, but I don't know him *that* well.. So 30 days to me seems like a pretty quick hop in the sack! I mean, fuck.. I've had 1 or 2 flings in my life but that was ill-considered and on vacation - which everyone knows doesn't count!!! Yeah.. Like I said.. I'm taking things s-l-o-w."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #147 October 20, 2009 Quote yeah.. Like I said.. I'm taking things s-l-o-w. True love waits. Isn't that the saying that was shoved down the throats of kids of a few years ago??Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #148 October 20, 2009 Quote True love waits. Isn't that the saying that was shoved down the throats of kids of a few years ago?? Oh yes, that most certainly was the phrase shoved down our throats. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #149 October 20, 2009 Quote Quote True love waits. Isn't that the saying that was shoved down the throats of kids of a few years ago?? Oh yes, that most certainly was the phrase shoved down our throats. http://www.lifeway.com/tlw/Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #150 October 20, 2009 Yeah, it seems they dont make the ring that my parents bought me for my 13th bday.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
