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Which part are you asking me "why" about?



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And I think that what I would do would depend a lot on the actual situation and people involved.


I don't believe it is situational - both parties should know what they are getting nto.

One party may be more trusting, or shy, or uninformed. I tend to try to protect my friends.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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both parties should know what they are getting nto.



Yes, they should. And some people (who I know anyway) can be trusted to do the right thing without my interference. Others, not so much, in which case I would say something.

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"So, Bill, does Betty know you've got the running goo crotch-rot? You know you really need to tell her before things go that far."
"Nah, man, I always wrap these day. It's not an issue"
"Sorry, bro. It is and issue and what I was really asking is are you telling her or am I?"
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"So, Bill, does Betty know you've got the running goo crotch-rot? You know you really need to tell her before things go that far."
"Nah, man, I always wrap these day. It's not an issue"
"Sorry, bro. It is and issue and what I was really asking is are you telling her or am I?"



That works too!

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"So, Bill, does Betty know you've got the running goo crotch-rot? You know you really need to tell her before things go that far."
"Nah, man, I always wrap these day. It's not an issue"
"Sorry, bro. It is and issue and what I was really asking is are you telling her or am I?"



That works too!



Question to friend: "So - how did you react when Freind #2 told you about that issues they have? I mean who would have thought they had it?"
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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Question to friend: "So - how did you react when Freind #2 told you about that issues they have? I mean who would have thought they had it?"



What if the "acquaintance/friend" (as written in the OP) is someone you see maybe once or twice a year, you don't know her last name, and you have no phone# for her? Do you ask Friend #2 for the person's phone# so that you can call her up and ask her this question about Friend #2's herpes? Oh, and add in there that Friend #2 is a close friend who has told you that he always informs women of the herpes before going to bed with them.

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Good gracious, if people aren't willing to ask their partner whether they have any STDs before they start sleeping w/ them then they really shouldn't be having sex at all. I cannot for the life of me understand why anybody people wouldn't talk about this before being intimate.
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Question to friend: "So - how did you react when Freind #2 told you about that issues they have? I mean who would have thought they had it?"



What if the "acquaintance/friend" (as written in the OP) is someone you see maybe once or twice a year, you don't know her last name, and you have no phone# for her? Do you ask Friend #2 for the person's phone# so that you can call her up and ask her this question about Friend #2's herpes? Oh, and add in there that Friend #2 is a close friend who has told you that he always informs women of the herpes before going to bed with them.



Friends, in my book, are more important than an aquaintance.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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Question to friend: "So - how did you react when Freind #2 told you about that issues they have? I mean who would have thought they had it?"



What if the "acquaintance/friend" (as written in the OP) is someone you see maybe once or twice a year, you don't know her last name, and you have no phone# for her? Do you ask Friend #2 for the person's phone# so that you can call her up and ask her this question about Friend #2's herpes? Oh, and add in there that Friend #2 is a close friend who has told you that he always informs women of the herpes before going to bed with them.



Friends, in my book, are more important than an aquaintance.



So you wouldn't tell the acquaintance about the friend's herpes? (Which is what the original question may have been asking, though the details are way too vague for a simple yes or no answer, which is why I think it depends on the actual situation.)

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Question to friend: "So - how did you react when Freind #2 told you about that issues they have? I mean who would have thought they had it?"



What if the "acquaintance/friend" (as written in the OP) is someone you see maybe once or twice a year, you don't know her last name, and you have no phone# for her? Do you ask Friend #2 for the person's phone# so that you can call her up and ask her this question about Friend #2's herpes? Oh, and add in there that Friend #2 is a close friend who has told you that he always informs women of the herpes before going to bed with them.



Friends, in my book, are more important than an aquaintance.



So you wouldn't tell the acquaintance about the friend's herpes? (Which is what the original question may have been asking, though the details are way too vague for a simple yes or no answer, which is why I think it depends on the actual situation.)



Ok - Fine! I'll agree with you on this one.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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Good gracious, if people aren't willint to ask their partner whether they have any STDs before they start sleeping w/ them then they really shouldn't be having sex at all. I cannot for the life of me understand why anybody would be reluctant about asking.



I think the point is that asking does not always mean you'll get the truth. But it's also not fair to assume that anyone with an STD is going to lie about it (and personally, if I felt that way about someone, I probably wouldn't be referring to them as a "friend" - I'd likely be referring to them as "this asshole that I know").

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Ok - Fine! I'll agree with you on this one.



Good turtle. I won't have to get the whip out now. :P


Can I take that back?
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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do you tell friend #2 that you prefer mustard or ketchup on hot dogs?

YOU FREAKS, IF I WAS FRIEND #2, I'D TELL YOU IT'S NONE OF THE DAMN BUSINESS AND TO MIND YOURSELF BEFORE GETTING KICKED IN THE GROIN


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Ok - Fine! I'll agree with you on this one.



glad that's settled

so,,,,does anyone else want to cook up some very specific instances or exceptions to try and use as refutation to anyone else's very general response to the scenario?



Sorry, but I rescinded my agreement and chose to accept the consequenses, whipever they will be.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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do you tell friend #2 that you prefer mustard or ketchup on hot dogs?



Depends on what type of mustard or ketchup, as well as Friend #2's political leanings and shoe size.

And what is the best way to whip a turtle? Seeing as they have that protective shell and all.

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And what is the best way to whip a turtle? Seeing as they have that protective shell and all.



SOMEONE come up with a freakin answer already!>:(
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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And what is the best way to whip a turtle? Seeing as they have that protective shell and all.



SOMEONE come up with a freakin answer already!>:(


I tried doing a search, but all I got was a recipe for Cool Whip Turtle Pumpkin Pie. Looks kinda tasty though.

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do you tell friend #2 that you prefer mustard or ketchup on hot dogs?



Depends on what type of mustard or ketchup, as well as Friend #2's political leanings and shoe size.

And what is the best way to whip a turtle? Seeing as they have that protective shell and all.



I had this great random example involving friend 1 being some evil scientist with a herpes based super plague and friend 2 being an innocent that was only attracted to fish and well, you know the rest.....

, and went to reply to it with this answer, and hit "edit' instead of reply and totally erased the whole example

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do you tell friend #2 that you prefer mustard or ketchup on hot dogs?



Depends on what type of mustard or ketchup, as well as Friend #2's political leanings and shoe size.

And what is the best way to whip a turtle? Seeing as they have that protective shell and all.


I had this great random example involving friend 1 being some evil scientist with a herpes based super plague and friend 2 being an innocent that was only attracted to fish and well, you know the rest.....

, and went to reply to it with this answer, and hit "edit' instead of reply and totally erased the whole example


Then you admitted it!:ph34r:

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Which part are you asking me "why" about?



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And I think that what I would do would depend a lot on the actual situation and people involved.


I don't believe it is situational - both parties should know what they are getting nto.

One party may be more trusting, or shy, or uninformed. I tend to try to protect interfere uninvited with my friends.

fixed it for ya.


I trust my friends to be honest and adult in their sexual relationships.
They all made it to being fully grown and generally mature adult without, interference from me.
I may just have a different calibre of friends to you.
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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How's yours doing?

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I may just have a different calibre of friends to you.



Or...you may not be the friend your friends can count on

you're absolutely right i am not the friend they can count on to interfere in their private lives.
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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I may just have a different calibre of friends to you.



Or...you may not be the friend your friends can count on

you're absolutely right i am not the friend they can count on to interfere in their private lives.



But we CAN count on you to show us the lofty altitudes your ego flies at.
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