kenthediver 0 #26 August 21, 2012 Nataly, I experienced this from your partner's perspective - my ex's ex would not leave her alone - and it continued for months - until I got involved. Maybe get your partner to tell him, in no uncertain terms, that continued interest will result in a blanket party by your partner and a few friends. Of course, if your partner is non violent, there are enough single guys here who would visit him for a date with your twin sister! lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #27 August 21, 2012 Use this as your avatar Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 14 #28 August 21, 2012 Quote I voted the for the "direct but polite" option. That's the way I go. "I'm happily married" has worked really well for a long time. Sometimes they can get stalker-ish and that's when you have to ramp it up a notch. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #29 August 21, 2012 If your stalker friend happens to be shah, all you have to do is gain a few pounds. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 24 #30 August 21, 2012 Quote Quote Quote Quote Well, it just felt good to hear your voice again. Reckon if you ever met me in person, the fantasy would not correspond to reality... Which is why we should NEVER meet!!! I'm Merkun; We *all* go cuckoo over a French accent. I am sorry to inform you that I don't have a French accent. Not even when I speak French!! (Remi can confirm!) It's true, Ryoder. On top of that, all those pics must have been photoshopped, cos she's short, fat, and it's a good thing we dont have smell-o-puters, cos woaw... She may not be really french, but she sure took up the local customs. (Nat: THAT'S how you deal with one way love interests! )Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 6 #31 August 21, 2012 Quote Go to a place where you know this guy will be with your Boyfriend. GIRLFRIEND! Then make out on a spot where the dude will spot you. After that get a room, fire up the gopro and post the video on dz.com ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #32 August 21, 2012 Yes. A fine correction indeed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #33 August 21, 2012 Quote Quote I voted the for the "direct but polite" option. That's the way I go. "I'm happily married" has worked really well for a long time. Sometimes they can get stalker-ish and that's when you have to ramp it up a notch. I agree. I like to treat people the way I like to be treated. Unfortunately, if Plan A doesn't work, Plan B has to be deployed. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 3 #34 August 21, 2012 Quote Plan B has to be deployed. Well, I'm sure if the 'morning after pill' is needed, you're probably sending him the wrong messages. "I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #35 August 21, 2012 Quote Quote Plan B has to be deployed. Well, I'm sure if the 'morning after pill' is needed, you're probably sending him the wrong messages. LOL... I'm Catholic so no Plan B. I meant law enforcement/courts. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #36 August 21, 2012 You described most marriages. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
obelixtim 100 #37 August 21, 2012 QuoteYou described most marriages. Bigamy is having one wife too many..... Monogamy is the same..... (Apologies to Oscar Wilde).My computer beat me at chess, It was no match for me at kickboxing.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #38 August 21, 2012 QuoteQuoteThe best thing is to completely ignore the person and remove all contact +1 It is like getting a phone call indicating you just won a free vacation to the bahamas. Just say two words: "Not interested" and hang up. She tried that. the person called her with a new number. How creepy....My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #39 August 22, 2012 If you are quite certain that you've been perfectly clear and this isn't a person you need to keep in your life (like for a work connection) then I would say you need to ignore him. Store his number in your phone so that you'll know not to answer, don't reply to e-mails, etc. If you answer, he feels encouraged that he'll still have that chance. Hopefully, he'll give up after awhile! And really, it's the best thing for him too; he needs to get you out of his head and move on to someone who will be that match for him.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #40 August 22, 2012 QuoteQuoteYou described most marriages. Bigamy is having one wife too many..... Monogamy is the same..... (Apologies to Oscar Wilde). What's the penalty for bigamy? Two wives."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
