BillyVance 34 #1 June 8, 2018 Dead of suicide at 61 in France. Such a shame. I liked his Parts Unknown series."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jclalor 12 #2 June 8, 2018 His shows were the best that were on TV, he really inspired me to see as much of the world as possible. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DougH 270 #3 June 8, 2018 I attribute much of my love for travel, food, and other cultures to him. He was by far my only true man crush. A very tragic loss. He was not tight lipped about his mental health struggles. All suicides are tragic, but I guess these are an extra reminder that just because someone has filed their lives with amazing experiences, fame & success, doesn't mean that their lives are not filled with difficulties."The restraining order says you're only allowed to touch me in freefall" =P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phillbo 11 #4 June 9, 2018 DougH I attribute much of my love for travel, food, and other cultures to him. He was by far my only true man crush. A very tragic loss. He was not tight lipped about his mental health struggles. All suicides are tragic, but I guess these are an extra reminder that just because someone has filed their lives with amazing experiences, fame & success, doesn't mean that their lives are not filled with difficulties. Well spoken, I agree! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 38 #5 June 9, 2018 BillyVance Dead of suicide at 61 in France.Such a shame. I liked his Parts Unknown series. Shame indeed. The second celebrity hanging in a short time. Is now the right time to point out that suicide is contagious? Unfortunately, it's a real thing. Not just in celebrity circles; it bleeds out into the "real world," too.lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jclalor 12 #6 June 9, 2018 I never realized he was tall, 6”4. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BIGUN 1,122 #7 June 9, 2018 Am I wrong for being angry every time I see another story about suicide? To me; it is a selfish act especially for those who leave children behind to wonder if they are capable of the same "option." I realize they may not be thinking quite right, but.. well, I don't know.. it just pisses me off. EDIT: Love his shows over the years.Nobody has time to listen; because they're desperately chasing the need of being heard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gowlerk 1,960 #8 June 9, 2018 BIGUNAm I wrong for being angry every time I see another story about suicide? To me; it is a selfish act especially for those who leave children behind to wonder if they are capable of the same "option." I realize they may not be thinking quite right, but.. well, I don't know.. it just pisses me off. EDIT: Love his shows over the years. There are many people I know who are hostile toward suicide victims. And they would refuse to call them victims. Personally I am somewhat troubled by the amount of attention that is given when famous people kill themselves. More care should be shown to the everyday lives and deaths of ordinary suicides. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phillbo 11 #9 June 9, 2018 What a gut punch! 'Parts Unknown' was so much more than a 'foodie' show, it was some of the best Journalism available today. Food was just the perfect vehicle with which to tell the story of a culture. What I loved about Bourdain was that he would never shy away from showing and telling the 'bad' side of a story. In the episode on the Mississippi Delta, he didn't hesitate for a second to tell the most important part of the story... racism in the South. I also loved the episode from Sicily where they take him diving for Octopus, when they don't find any, his hosts begin 'seeding' the sea floor with frozen octopus to make for the photo-op. Bourdain would have none of it... it made sure his camera crew photographed this and made sure it was not left out on the cutting room floor. He was pissed! I loved that honesty. Too much 'journalism' is made for TV these days. RIP! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,182 #10 June 9, 2018 I had a friend who felt the same way (we talked about it at some length sharing a ride to an event once). Someone who was on that even shot himself about a week later; he left an incredibly honest and heart-rending letter about his inability to feel happiness (for 30+ years), even though he was aware of the love and support he had in his life, and was by all external standards a success. The pain he was in showed through, to the extent that even my friend understood that the gentleman had tried for years, but had found his end. His comment was “my God what pain he must have been in.” In some ways, it was blessing his girlfriend posted the letter on Facebook — it probably educated more than a couple of people. I’m sure sometimes it’s selfish, but sometimes it’s a statement that someone has reached the end. We hear about people who can’t stand the thought of living as a quadriplegic (for example), while others say that they are better people for it (though I imagine few would choose that path deliberately). Wendy P.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jcd11235 0 #11 June 9, 2018 Through early morning fog I see Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me. I realize, and I can see That suicide is painless. It brings on many changes, And I can take or leave it if I please. I try to find a way to make All our little joys relate Without that ever-present hate, But now I know that it's too late. The game of life is hard to play I'm gonna lose it anyway The losing card I'll someday lay So this is all I have to say: The only way to win is cheat And lay it down before I'm beat, And to another give my seat For that's the only painless feat. The sword of time will pierce our skins It doesn't hurt when it begins But as it works its way on in The pain grows stronger...watch it grin. A brave man once requested me To answer questions that are key. Is it to be or not to be? And I replied, "Oh, why ask me? "'Cause suicide is painless. It brings on many changes, And I can take or leave it if I please. "… and you can do the same thing if you please." Suicide Is Painless (aka the theme song from M*A*S*H) Lyrics by Mike AltmanMath tutoring available. Only $6! per hour! First lesson: Factorials! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BIGUN 1,122 #12 June 9, 2018 idk, Wendy. Guess I just don't get it.Nobody has time to listen; because they're desperately chasing the need of being heard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,413 #13 June 9, 2018 I only vaguely recognized the name, but had never seen him. Then I discovered I really had seen him in "The Big Short": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27HIPU7tUaY"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bob_Church 7 #14 June 9, 2018 BIGUNidk, Wendy. Guess I just don't get it. Here's something I've wondered about that involves the people who study suicide. I know they look into people who have attempted suicide, or people close to those who have successfully killed themselves. But what about the people who by any measure of logic should want to die but will fight tooth and nail to live. Maybe it isn't something in the suicide victim but something missing, whatever that thing is that keeps people from pulling the trigger no matter how much they want to and how hard they try. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BIGUN 1,122 #15 June 9, 2018 Sorry, Bob. I don't subscribe to the notion that for some suicide is an inevitable outcome. It is a false premise that undermines hope. I can't take credit for that perspective as I'm paraphrasing from something I read awhile ago and can't give you a source as much as it has become my opinion. For me; survival is our strongest instinct. There's too many studies done on those who've committed suicide leaving a doubt in those they've left behind as to it being an option for them. And, in many cases, it becomes true. Most famous that comes to mind are the Hemingways.Nobody has time to listen; because they're desperately chasing the need of being heard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bob_Church 7 #16 June 9, 2018 BIGUNSorry, Bob. I don't subscribe to the notion that for some suicide is an inevitable outcome. It is a false premise that undermines hope. I can't take credit for that perspective as I'm paraphrasing from something I read awhile ago and can't give you a source as much as it has become my opinion. For me; survival is our strongest instinct. There's too many studies done on those who've committed suicide leaving a doubt in those they've left behind as to it being an option for them. And, in many cases, it becomes true. Most famous that comes to mind are the Hemingways. But I was thinking about the people who can't commit suicide. What keeps them from it? What keeps someone like Larry Nassar from hanging themselves in their cell? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jcd11235 0 #17 June 10, 2018 Bob_Church***… survival is our strongest instinct. … But I was thinking about the people who can't commit suicide. What keeps them from it? I believe there exists an element of extraordinary courage and willpower within a suicide that enables them to overcome that strongest of instincts. Not everybody has it in them. For some, certain death is the absolute worst option, no matter what. I don't lump all suicides together. Some are tragedies; some are triumphs. Seldom could I reasonably consider any of them acts of selfishness.Math tutoring available. Only $6! per hour! First lesson: Factorials! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jclalor 12 #18 June 10, 2018 jcd11235Through early morning fog I see Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me. I realize, and I can see That suicide is painless. It brings on many changes, And I can take or leave it if I please. I try to find a way to make All our little joys relate Without that ever-present hate, But now I know that it's too late. The game of life is hard to play I'm gonna lose it anyway The losing card I'll someday lay So this is all I have to say: The only way to win is cheat And lay it down before I'm beat, And to another give my seat For that's the only painless feat. The sword of time will pierce our skins It doesn't hurt when it begins But as it works its way on in The pain grows stronger...watch it grin. A brave man once requested me To answer questions that are key. Is it to be or not to be? And I replied, "Oh, why ask me? "'Cause suicide is painless. It brings on many changes, And I can take or leave it if I please. "… and you can do the same thing if you please." Suicide Is Painless (aka the theme song from M*A*S*H) Lyrics by Mike Altman *** Mike Altman wrote the song at the age of 14*** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jclalor 12 #19 June 10, 2018 The one episode I really enjoyed was when he was in Beirut when the war of 2006 started and he ended up being evacuated by the US Marines. I was in Syria and took a day trip to Beirut a couple of months later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyhi 24 #20 June 12, 2018 They ran a bunch of his shows this weekend. Loved the one outlining his first trip to Waffle House. He actually made it sound like a culinary event.Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phil1111 943 #21 June 12, 2018 flyhiThey ran a bunch of his shows this weekend. Loved the one outlining his first trip to Waffle House. He actually made it sound like a culinary event. How about the one where he eats beaver in Canada. I know the best chefs and best local representative eateries are the focus. But I'd be starving before I ate a gamy, greasy beaver. Tony could make a can of Spam taste good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites