steve1 5
QuoteSo, did he amount to something? Or is being gay enough to make him the black sheep? Is she no longer proud of her good son?
No, he's still their favorite. I've since said the hell with both my step-mother and Dad. There's plenty more I could say about them, but I'll leave it at that.
But, getting back to my Gay step brother....I'm actually not as narrow minded as you might think. I tollerate him even though I have great difficulty understanding where he is coming from. I'm courteous and have never put him down for his being a homo-sexual. He's good to my daughters and even sends them money. So, I don't dislike him.
He doesn't have much to do with me now, because I think his Mom is an old witch and I've been open about how I feel about her....So, that's my life's story.....Steve1(the biggot)
Rebecca 0
QuoteI'm actually not as narrow minded as you might think.
That's why I was careful with my wording. It's OK by me if you don't understand where your gay step-brother is coming from. That's not bigotry. He could be straight and you still might not relate. And though there are definite negative tones regarding homosexuality in some of your posts, I'm not getting any "I hate all gays" vibes from you...
No worries - you're not being judged a bigot (at least not by me)
I was just curious if being gay was enough of a "sin" in your family to negate all other good accomplishments or qualities. It is in some families, unfortunately.
you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk?
I really appreciate that response. I'm glad to see that you are recognizing your slight prejudices and are honest about it rather than getting defensive and getting scrappy. You have a good point. We all have prejudices in one way or another and to tell you the truth, i'm not sure what mine are right now, which means I haven't been thinking about it enough. Thanks for being respectful. I'm glad to know that your brother came out and was able to rise up above all the shit he and you have gone through in life with your step-mother.
Cheers,
Travis
Cheers,
Travis
you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk?
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