airdrew20012001 0 #1 April 25, 2002 Post deleted by airdrew20012001 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChromeBoy 0 #2 April 25, 2002 Over the phone or in person is better.If I wanted to hear from an asshole, I would fart. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #3 April 25, 2002 Bring up the idea in email and then get a number and call her to seal the deal. BTW...it worked for me...I have a date Friday night. I know I know.....now the Stanley cup is going to be held in the HELL ARENA...right? "It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrumpySmurf 0 #4 April 25, 2002 Considering match.com makes a mint off of that very concern, why not? You probably want to strike up an email conversation thread with the individual, then somewhere down the line mention going out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #5 April 25, 2002 I agree with Clay. Bring it up on e-mail then finalize your plans by phone.Keith Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tee 0 #6 April 25, 2002 Quote Bring up the idea in email and then get a number and call her to seal the deal. OMG, I find myself agreeing with Clay on an issue about women. Tee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,426 #7 April 25, 2002 >Is it ok to ask someone out via email?Sure - I did it like three times. It's always odd to ask someone out that you've never seen, but it can work.-bill von Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdrew20012001 0 #8 April 25, 2002 Quote It's always odd to ask someone out that you've never seen, but it can work. This is someone I know. I am getting the "ask me out" vibe from her, want to take the easy way out.Drewfus McDoofus Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChromeBoy 0 #9 April 25, 2002 QuoteSure - I did it like three times. It's always odd to ask someone out that you've never seen, but it can work.Of course I said yes all three times Bill because it was you! But if someone else did it I would say no! If I wanted to hear from an asshole, I would fart. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #10 April 25, 2002 QuoteSure - I did it like three times.Bill...I'm not sure of the exact number but at some point this becomes stalking...."It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #11 April 25, 2002 If you're getting the vibe from her she won't care HOW you ask her as long as you DO!dove Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdrew20012001 0 #12 April 25, 2002 Quote ..I'm not sure of the exact number but at some point this becomes stalking. It becomes stalking when you attach pictures of yourself in a diaper with a pacifier.Drewfus McDoofus Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coconutmonkey 0 #13 April 25, 2002 Yeah, but stalking is only illegal in the US as far as I know. Better watch out world..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 April 25, 2002 QuoteIt becomes stalking when you attach pictures of yourself in a diaper with a pacifier.Hmmm...thats weird......none of them seemed to mind so far..... Ever seen "Scary Movie" The cop says "I'd like you to take a look at some pictures." and hands the chic a bunch of pics of him in a speedo. HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!"It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JDBoston 0 #15 April 25, 2002 If you suck it up and do it over the phone or in person, you'll be a better man for it. It's always a good idea to practice the steps even on girls where you know the outcome (or think you do...). That way, you'll be ready when it comes time to step up and ask out the ones that are less of a sure thing!Joe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #16 April 25, 2002 QuoteThat way, you'll be ready when it comes time to step up and ask out the ones that are less of a sure thing!Huh....just ask her out. The worst thing she could do is say no. Then tell her "Huh? (Look at her strangely) No...I said you look fat in those pants..." "It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Divadiver 0 #17 April 25, 2002 Question for you1) Do you usually see this person during the day (i.e., do you work with her, run into her often)?2) Do you two e-mail one another on a regular basis to chit-chat or is it all business?I tend to agree with JDBoston, about asking her out in person, but if you two e-mail on a regular basis and chit-chat, then I think it would be alright. Asking in person just seems to say that you have self confidence in yourself and are willing to put yourself out there. I like that in a guy. Just me.Diva Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #18 April 25, 2002 Quoteyou have self confidence in yourself and are willing to put yourself out thereWhat a guy hears...."You have self confidence and are willing to put out." "It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Divadiver 0 #19 April 25, 2002 Hmm, yeah that too!!Diva Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith 0 #20 April 25, 2002 QuoteIt becomes stalking when you attach pictures of yourself in a diaper with a pacifier.Bill, I swear I never told a sole about you. It's pure coincidence they guessed. Honest Keith Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheMarshMan1 0 #21 April 25, 2002 QuoteHuh....just ask her out. The worst thing she could do is say no. Then tell her "Huh? (Look at her strangely) No...I said you look fat in those pants..." THAT is hilarious. I think I just might have to try that one, lol. Thanks, Clay!!! "If I could be like that, I would give anything, just to live one day, in those shoes..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #22 April 25, 2002 QuoteI think I just might have to try that oneIt works better when you're in a club and ask a girl "Wanna dance?" Then it does sound sort of alike and she will go home utterly crushed and self concious...... Damn I'm mean...See what women do to you...."It's all about the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #23 April 25, 2002 A guy who makes the extra effort to be a gentleman is always appreciated. Call her.AndreaI'm high as a kiteI just mightStop and check you out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
