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If I am casually dating more than one person, I'm not having sex with any of them. If I'm having sex with someone, I won't be casually dating anyone else, and I would expect the same from him. Maybe I'm just too old for the whole casual sex thing!:S



Bingo! Thats the right way to do it.



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If you only have sex when you are in love, then this is rarely an issue. Sex without love seems to always be regretted.



That's one way to look at it! I just think that true "casual sex" is pretty rare. It might be casual on one side and not so casual on the other. Someone ends up getting hurt more often than not.

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That's one way to look at it! I just think that true "casual sex" is pretty rare. It might be casual on one side and not so casual on the other. Someone ends up getting hurt more often than not.



"Casual sex" for both parties is usually pretty rare. I think that over time if you continue to have "casual sex" with someone, feelings are going to develop and yes, more often than not, one person usually ends up having feelings develop more than the other. I guess that's why for me, if feelings start developing on my part, it's time for me to let my feelings be known or cutaway.


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If I am casually dating more than one person, I'm not having sex with any of them. If I'm having sex with someone, I won't be casually dating anyone else, and I would expect the same from him. Maybe I'm just too old for the whole casual sex thing!


Bingo! Thats the right way to do it.



I agree. Personally if I am dating several and make the decision to sleep with one of them I don't think it is fair to keep seeing the others. Not only that, casual sex with one person doesn't stay that way for long. If I am being that intimate with someone I begin to develop feelings...so the whole casual sex thing doesn't really work for me.
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Sex is good either way, but when both of you are in love and you look into each other's eyes, there's just something that makes it incredible.

I know that after I have sex with someone that I am in love with, I cry. It's a very emotional experience as well as physical at that time.


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sex should go hand and hand....


Uh... That's foreplay, LM. We're talking about real sex in this thread. I think.:|

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Just put out with all of them.. The one that gives you the best time stick with:D:D:D Its like test driving for a new car
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If you only have sex when you are in love, then this is rarely an issue. Sex without love seems to always be regretted.



Sex without love is merely an empty experience ...but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best! B|
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All this talk of sex is making me horny.
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Ditto that!;)

This thread is quite entertaining! I for one am not in a serious relationship - that being said - I'm dating. I honestly can't see myself having sex with more than one partner - yet....I'm not ready to be in a serious relationship. I'd say it's fair if the communication is there and both parties agree!
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"Casual sex" for both parties is usually pretty rare. I think that over time if you continue to have "casual sex" with someone, feelings are going to develop and yes, more often than not, one person usually ends up having feelings develop more than the other. I guess that's why for me, if feelings start developing on my part, it's time for me to let my feelings be known or cutaway.



Bingo! You and Tigra have it right. I learned this lesson. Casual sex won't stay casual for a sustained period.

CK, i agree with your opinion on this subject. If you want exclusivity, then you must also be exclusive, that means dating and sex.

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I am kind of old school so maybe that’s why I don’t get this.

If you decide to fuck someone but want to date others it means basically your only interest is sex.
So why not have sex with others. If you are not interested in having a serious relationship why only fuck/sorry make love to one person why the restriction?



DITTO!

On that note, I personally would expect myself to only have sex one person and only that person... and not on a casual level... Casual sex in my mind makes... :S (insert NO!) sense...

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Scenario:

You are single and out and about in the dating scene. You are dating 2 or 3 or however many people.. but its all good because youre casually dating all of them.

Your personality/morals preclude you from having sex with more than one of these people you are dating.




....You just lost me.......:|








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