sunshine 2 #1 February 15, 2007 Ok so if someone asks you why you don't talk to them anymore and you simply tell them you just don't like them and no longer what to be their friend. Well is that mean? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #2 February 15, 2007 I'd find it refreshingly honest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
azdav 0 #3 February 15, 2007 No more booty calls Noooobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!!! M.P.F.C. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy_Copland 0 #4 February 15, 2007 Just kick Stitch in his nutsack.1338 People aint made of nothin' but water and shit. Until morale improves, the beatings will continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seejanefall 0 #5 February 15, 2007 Same chick as in the womens forum? I think it'll be ok to say that to her. _____________ PMS #394 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #6 February 15, 2007 QuoteNo more booty calls I still have my booty call buddy. No worries there. There is a certain someone i told that i just didn't care for him, so now he's telling people i'm bi-polar instead of accepting i just don't want him as a friend. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindercles 0 #7 February 15, 2007 Is this thread about me? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #8 February 15, 2007 He sounds delightful. I can't imagine why you wouldn't want to be friends with him."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #9 February 15, 2007 I guess that they'll find new friends when they leave kindergarten and go to big school (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gontleman 0 #10 February 15, 2007 QuoteQuoteNo more booty calls I still have my booty call buddy. No worries there. There is a certain someone i told that i just didn't care for him, so now he's telling people i'm bi-polar instead of accepting i just don't want him as a friend.Well... to be honest, if you at least didn't give him an explanation of why you didn't care for him (assuming you previously did to whatever degree) then he has nothing to go off of. And as far as he is concerned, then you ARE bi-polar. (Many people who are actually bi-polar have issues with sudden loss of interest in people/activities that is relatively unexplainable to other people). Not that his actions are justified... but basically I can see where he's coming from. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #11 February 15, 2007 Well, yes, I would say it's mean. Who wants to have someone tell them flat-out that they aren't liked? I know you're trying to be honest and I don't suggest that you should come up with lies to cover reality, but if there's a gentle way of presenting it I would try to find it. I don't know the situation, but maybe you could find a way of saying something like, "we just don't see eye-to-eye on _________," or "it seems that we often end up disagreeing, and I would like to avoid that because it isn't necessary." Those examples are obviously random and I'm not claiming to be the best at coming up with the wording, but you get the idea. I'd receive the overall message a lot better if it was presented from that angle than just being told "I don't like you." "I don't like you" seems much more of a personal attack and I don't know that it's a necessary one because there are usually other ways to get the point across without lying about it. Having said that, there are some people who miss all of the other messages and eventually just need to be presented with it bluntly. TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 633 #12 February 15, 2007 Friends are like customers and teeth. ignore them and they will go away. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #13 February 15, 2007 Quoteto be honest, if you at least didn't give him an explanation of why you didn't care for him (assuming you previously did to whatever degree) then he has nothing to go off of. Did tell him why i didn't care for him. He told everyone i had been in an accident as a joke. I didn't know anything about his "joke" til i started getting calls at work from peeps asking me if i was ok. So, yes i did tell him i didn't care for him after that. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #14 February 15, 2007 QuoteHe told everyone i had been in an accident as a joke. I didn't know anything about his "joke" til i started getting calls at work from peeps asking me if i was ok. So, yes i did tell him i didn't care for him after that. Nice. Sounds like a classy guy. After that, he shouldn't have had to ask!!TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gontleman 0 #15 February 15, 2007 QuoteQuoteto be honest, if you at least didn't give him an explanation of why you didn't care for him (assuming you previously did to whatever degree) then he has nothing to go off of. Did tell him why i didn't care for him. He told everyone i had been in an accident as a joke. I didn't know anything about his "joke" til i started getting calls at work from peeps asking me if i was ok. So, yes i did tell him i didn't care for him after that.Well then in that case... I wouldn't be too concerned with whether or not you were being mean Him telling people you are bi-polar seems like par for the course for this guy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #16 February 15, 2007 QuoteQuoteto be honest, if you at least didn't give him an explanation of why you didn't care for him (assuming you previously did to whatever degree) then he has nothing to go off of. Did tell him why i didn't care for him. He told everyone i had been in an accident as a joke. I didn't know anything about his "joke" til i started getting calls at work from peeps asking me if i was ok. So, yes i did tell him i didn't care for him after that. Sounds like a winner. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone after that either. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pds 0 #17 February 15, 2007 QuoteOk so if someone asks you why you don't talk to them anymore and you simply tell them you just don't like them and no longer what to be their friend. Well is that mean? don't EVER tell me. i just won't listen. the food hospital would lose all charm for me. just don't.namaste, motherfucker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #18 February 15, 2007 Quotedon't EVER tell me. i just won't listen. the food hospital would lose all charm for me. just don't. I'll always luv you sky!! One day we will see the food hospital again. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zeppo 0 #19 February 15, 2007 QuoteOk so if someone asks you why you don't talk to them anymore and you simply tell them you just don't like them and no longer what to be their friend. Well is that mean? I can be mean, but it really depends on the situation. I told that to this girl I've been seeing these last few months, and she just got on my nerves so much I just told her to stop talking to me. Now she was really a flake and deserved it. Although I didn't exactly tell her directly that I didn't like her, but "don't talk to me again" is pretty much an indicator, and lucky me, she hasn't spoken to me since...here's hoping my luck holds. Overall, be honest, makes things easier for you, and they'll get over it (and hopefully learn from it). No friendship is better than a fake friendship.What goes up, must come DOWN!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #20 February 16, 2007 Quote(Many people who are actually bi-polar have issues with sudden loss of interest in people/activities that is relatively unexplainable to other people). I think I might be bi-polar. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #21 February 16, 2007 Quoteso now he's telling people i'm bi-polar instead of accepting i just don't want him as a friend. Because crazy people don't know they are crazy so if you don't like them then there MUST be something wrong with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gontleman 0 #22 February 16, 2007 QuoteQuote(Many people who are actually bi-polar have issues with sudden loss of interest in people/activities that is relatively unexplainable to other people). I think I might be bi-polar. ChrisYou can take do a line of my zyprexa, see if that fixes things. $10 per hit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
llkenziell 0 #23 February 16, 2007 don't act like a douche and blow them off. Just say it if you mean it. "Living like fallen angels who lost their halos" - Unknown Prophets -Love Life- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #24 February 16, 2007 Quote(Many people who are actually bi-polar have issues with sudden loss of interest in people/activities that is relatively unexplainable to other people). I think you are being a bit narrow-minded to bi-polar people. What is wrong with being attracted to both sexes of polar bears? Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #25 February 17, 2007 Just tell him you like to shower with women at boogies............... Then tell him that I'll kick his ass if he's got any problems with youMay your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
