shermanator 3 #1 June 7, 2007 ok, i know some have done it, and successfully. How does one just leave, move out of state, find a place to live, and job, and be happy? that is what I want to do, but i am scared, and don't know where to start, let alone have any financial backing to help me do it. ..CLICK HERE! new blog posted 9/21/08 CSA #720 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #2 June 7, 2007 it's just like your first skydive. You're supposed to be scared. But even when you jumped out of the plane SOMEONE had a plan,right? Make a plan, and take some steps to make it happen, successfully. sure you can give a guy a rig and let him jump and he MAY survive but ,probably not. You have to learn where you are going to land, how to land, how to fall properly so that if you do land hard you can get up and try again. I can pretty much say with certainty, those who moved and did so successfully didn't do it on a whim.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindercles 0 #3 June 7, 2007 When you figure it out, let me know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PeteW 0 #4 June 7, 2007 Three years ago I was sitting at work and all of a sudden called a buddy 3 hours away and said hey dude wanna buy a house? Lived together for 2 years then sold and moved back. Same thing actually happened today. This time 5 hours away and a differnt province. Ran it past my GF she is now stoked!! So tomorrow I put the house up for sale!!!! Fuck it just do it!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #5 June 7, 2007 You start with tying your 3 rings together with a pull up cord - this keeps the risers nice and even.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumper03 0 #6 June 7, 2007 QuoteI can pretty much say with certainty, those who moved and did so successfully didn't do it on a whim. I know a few people who did - got fed up with work, fed up with life, said fuck it, sold most of their stuff, hitchhiked for awhile and then ended up where ever the wind blew. And they had some of the best stories. One in particular recently moved - with a plan this time - and said he was more scared and nervous than any of the previous unplanned moves. Donate all your stuff to good will - then put one foot in front of the other.Scars remind us that the past is real Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
micduran 0 #7 June 7, 2007 I had the makings of a plan. Once the ball got rolling I just followed. Best thing I ever did. Be patient with the faults of others; they have to be patient with yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,170 #8 June 7, 2007 Quote I had the makings of a plan. Once the ball got rolling I just followed. ... Best thing I ever didYeah, me too. Maybe not THE best, but definitely among them. Bring a tent so you can camp at a DZ until you have a place to live that you can afford. You'll find resources in yourself that you didn't know you had. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaM 0 #9 June 7, 2007 When I did it, the first step was finding somewhere to stay. I moved to a state/city I had previously lived in therefore I still had contacts. My friend was gone, but her Mom was here and so I stayed with her for a couple of months while I got a job and my own place. I did not have any finanical backing; in fact I had some debt at the time. Some school debt as well as a car payment. I still am not sure how I pulled that part off. It's scary, but so worth it. That was 8 years ago and I am soooo glad I did it. ~ Lisa ~ Do you Rigminder? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaM 0 #10 June 7, 2007 QuoteQuoteI can pretty much say with certainty, those who moved and did so successfully didn't do it on a whim. I know a few people who did - got fed up with work, fed up with life, said fuck it, sold most of their stuff, hitchhiked for awhile and then ended up where ever the wind blew. And they had some of the best stories. One in particular recently moved - with a plan this time - and said he was more scared and nervous than any of the previous unplanned moves. Donate all your stuff to good will - then put one foot in front of the other. I decided in February and left in May. Maybe not a whim by some standards, but it certainly was for me. I was 25 and ready for a change. ~ Lisa ~ Do you Rigminder? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #11 June 7, 2007 that's how i got to dc. just stay flexible. contact some local jumpers, they are great help for finding out the best place to live, job leads, etc. craigslist helps a lot for finding housing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tetra316 0 #12 June 7, 2007 Did it a couple years ago, granted the move was only a couple hours away though. Got a transfer through work and found a roommate through roommates.com. Going another couple hours north this summer but I already have a job up there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #13 June 7, 2007 Quote You start with tying your 3 rings together with a pull up cord - this keeps the risers nice and even. You sure know how to skew a thread. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jkong 0 #14 June 7, 2007 this is what im sort of dealing with right now - im so tired of my job, i've lived in this city my whole entire life, and i'm afraid if i dont leave now I never will! so once I finish school in December, Im hoping to be able to start the real search for a new place to call home. I just have so much debt from skydiving.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lilDevil 2 #15 June 7, 2007 Its the packing bit thats hard I should know im in the middle of it ``````````````````````````````````` " Cant keep a good woman down " Angels have wings, but devils can fly ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites