npgraphicdesign 2 #1 November 28, 2008 ...that you clicked with on every level, and for some reason weren't able to be with them due to various issues, whether it's long distance, family issues, etc? Fast forward 8 years. Both those people still haven't found anyone they clicked with that well, and all of a sudden long distance & family might not be an issue anymore. Would you propose to them, knowing they feel the same way, and knowing they'd say yes 100%? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #2 November 28, 2008 You said 8 years have past. That is a long time and even if the two think they feel the same about one another. They should take time to make sure and not rush into anything.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuFantasma 0 #3 November 28, 2008 Quote...that you clicked with on every level, and for some reason weren't able to be with them due to various issues, whether it's long distance, family issues, etc? Fast forward 8 years. Both those people still haven't found anyone they clicked with that well, and all of a sudden long distance & family might not be an issue anymore. Would you propose to them, knowing they feel the same way, and knowing they'd say yes 100%? Yes, my Mother ... what a saint ! I wish I could be like her ! After all these years, she still smiles when I call her .... P.S. Southerners ... don't even go there !Y yo, pa' vivir con miedo, prefiero morir sonriendo, con el recuerdo vivo". - Ruben Blades, "Adan Garcia" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 14 #4 November 28, 2008 Quote You said 8 years have passed. They should take time to make sure and not rush into anything. Eight years! That's too long! They need to hurry up and make up for lost time.Sometimes ya just gotta say "What the hell . . ." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohanW 0 #5 November 28, 2008 Quote ...that you clicked with on every level, and for some reason weren't able to be with them due to various issues, whether it's long distance, family issues, etc? Yes. Quote Fast forward 8 years. Both those people still haven't found anyone they clicked with that well, and all of a sudden long distance & family might not be an issue anymore. Would you propose to them, knowing they feel the same way, and knowing they'd say yes 100%? There's no rush then, is there? Happy for you. Johan. I am. I think. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NtheSeaOrSky 0 #6 November 28, 2008 Propose? Only you can decide if that is a 'good' idea or not. You are lucky to have a 'second chance' - life is short and we are not guaranteed any tomorrows. Enjoy every secondLife is not fair and there are no guarantees... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 3 #7 November 29, 2008 Quote...that you clicked with on every level, and for some reason weren't able to be with them due to various issues, whether it's long distance, family issues, etc? I would say that "the one that got away" is almost universal. If it hasn't happened to a person yet, then they just haven't lived long enough.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #8 November 29, 2008 Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #9 November 29, 2008 Quote Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Jan 7th...right in the airport. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #10 November 29, 2008 Quote Quote Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Jan 7th...right in the airport. Whoohoo!! How exciting!! Congratulations!Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #11 November 29, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Jan 7th...right in the airport. Whoohoo!! How exciting!! Congratulations! Are you sure you're ready for this? I mean..it's a big step... (that went right over your head ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #12 November 29, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Quote Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Jan 7th...right in the airport. Whoohoo!! How exciting!! Congratulations! Are you sure you're ready for this? I mean..it's a big step... (that went right over your head ) You ass. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 622 #13 November 29, 2008 I'd love to have that chance again.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #14 November 29, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote Get on your knee already.. sheesh. Jan 7th...right in the airport. Whoohoo!! How exciting!! Congratulations! Are you sure you're ready for this? I mean..it's a big step... (that went right over your head ) You ass. Jeez...I hope you're more alert & attentive under canopy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #15 November 29, 2008 Quote I'd love to have that chance again.... What happened if you don't mind my asking? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 622 #16 November 29, 2008 I had to help my kids and had to move farther than she could to keep a decent job. I let it fall apart due to distance difficulties. Shit happens I suppose. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #17 November 29, 2008 Long distance relationships suck! Big time.Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #18 November 29, 2008 QuoteLong distance relationships suck! Big time. Yes they do but are worth it when its realBreathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #19 November 30, 2008 No... but good luck, personally clicking on every level is never known until the relationship, the living together, the marriage...and the clicking is never on all levels (no two people are ever meant to be enough to not have differences) once they start being who they really are and not what they portray. No ones perfect, maybe shes perfect for you though so best of luck.Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #20 November 30, 2008 Quote Quote ...that you clicked with on every level, and for some reason weren't able to be with them due to various issues, whether it's long distance, family issues, etc? I would say that "the one that got away" is almost universal. If it hasn't happened to a person yet, then they just haven't lived long enough. Geez you post some crap sometimes PaulYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #21 November 30, 2008 You should buy a dog and take it for walks in public places. - The dog will provide company when home. - In a public place, women will stop to pet the dog and will talk to you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #23 November 30, 2008 Quote You should buy a dog and take it for walks in public places. - The dog will provide company when home. - In a public place, women will stop to pet the dog and will talk to you. Not if it's a big mean looking one. Get one that looks like it's a fashion accessory then not only will the girls stop and talk so will some of the boys, Keep your options openYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 2 #24 December 1, 2008 So let's say one person is Jewish and another is Muslim. Does anyone see that as a potential problem, especially this day & age? What about bringing up children in a family where each parent is of a different religion? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlm 0 #25 December 1, 2008 I would say walk away much like you did 8 years ago, if it did not work then it will never work now, those issues you speak of and the resentment etc will only be a cancer in any future relationship. Be thankful for the time that person spent in your life and the lessons you were taught by loving them. There is no "perfect person" only a person perfect for that time in your life. I've been there and have the scars to prove it ... walk away, it hurts only so often but not enough to stop you from being happy. Besides if you need to ask here, you already know the answer. Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
