Nataly

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Again... Not terribly desperate to find someone... Yes, it would be nice... But I feel like I already do a lot of things I enjoy (including road trips on the bike!) and this in itself sort-of naturally increases the odds of meeting someone with similar interests. That said, I do enjoy a pretty naughty life-style so I am bound to ALSO meet/attract a lot of douche-bags!! I just need to stop falling for the wrong ones!! Lol! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Meh. Not a huge fan of Perris. Also not desperate to "find a man." There is no shortage of men here who would LOVE to be with me... It's not like I am fussy or have some weird set of impossible criteria/expectations... But I *do* want to find someone that *I* like... And it would be nice if he liked me back!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Yeah well pretty broke right now... Even considering selling my gear... At the rate I have been jumping in the past ten years or so it would make sense!! Doing sports helps. Gonna do that as soon as I get over this annoying cold. ETA - Well, aren't I just a ball of sunshine??!! Meh. I will be ok. Everything will be just fine... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

When you start seeing someone you really like and they suddenly announce that they really like someone else... Do you: A - feel encouraged that likeable people still exist or B - start drinking?? Can't actually say I am *devastated*... But I am a bit disheartened... Seems like lately I am the fun girl men want to have fun with... Until they ditch me to settle down with someone else... I *do* realise it's partly to do with my selection process... I'm not saying I am some kind of victim here... Just a bit down from a recent rejection. But I will be fine... Maybe after a beer or fifty!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

I think this is from a movie, but can't remember. "She's French-Canadian. Sometimes she's Canadian. Today she's French." Apparently, it was in Vertical Limit (2000) Skip: "Don't mind her. She's French-Canadian. Some days she's Canadian. Can be quite pleasant. Today she's obviously French." "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Awwww - some lovely stories!!

Lol - not bad!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

My dad fell instantly for my mom the moment he saw her - even told his friend "see that girl? I'm gonna marry that girl!" (And this year they will be celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary!!!) Anyone else have a story like that?? Pretty incredible when I think about it! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Maybe. I guess the only way for us to confirm this is to see some photos. I've never been to one. But I'm guessing there is a very strong taboo against taking pictures there. I think a series of selfies by her would suffice. j/k -- don't do that. Well, you are all free to *go* to a nudist beach/colony and see for yourselves "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Try to find "Blackfish" if you can. A disturbing documentary about captive Orcas and in particular the death of Dawn Brancheau (by Tillikum). Here is a link to the trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G93beiYiE74 "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Having been to many nudist beaches/colonies, I can tell you that once you are used to people not wearing clothes, it is no more "psychologically traumatising" to see all shapes and sizes naked as it is to see them with clothes. In fact, in my opinion, there is a beauty to walking around care-free and not being subjected to constant branding and advertising and displays of wealth and/or other fashion "musts"... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Meet the in-laws for the first time... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

I took Vskydiver to her HS reunion a few years back. Not 10 feet from the rental car before I met the first of many guys who had a "thing" for her. She even had a former stalker come up and confess to following her through all of her classes.. . She pretended to remember him. Why am I not surprised that she had a string of admirers??!!!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Oh my gosh... A beautiful thing but hard/upsetting to read. Thank you for posting - real or not. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

What is really embarrassing is to be hitting on a cute chick in a nightclub, when she gets a funny look on her face: "You don't remember me?" Well, in my defense, it had been about 7 years, she had put on some weight (but was still cute), and it had been a brief fling because she promptly dumped me. Oh nooooo!! Oopsie!!! Ahhh... I had one guy say to me "well hello!! Nice to meet you again". And I thought fuck... He does seem vaguely familiar but??? Turns out about 2 years ago we had exchanged a few messages on another dating site... Literally about 3 sentences... But he had left the site because he met someone. I believe him because he knew I was Canadian, and that I was ex military and that's about it... Fuck me... Some people have a freakishly good memory!!! I am not one of those people!!! But if we had actually met I'd like to think I would have remembered!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

And now you're just used to it? You're right, that's a little ambiguous. NOW I'm married. Don't get those kind of phone calls anymore. Sorry John, but it's hard to imagine you were ever "that guy"!!! ETA - and by "that guy", I don't mean that I can't imagine you being quite the ladies' man... Just that you would be so "irresponsible" that you might get those kinds of calls!! Lol!!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

My God, I don't think she could handle that many guys wanting to make a date with her. . . Having some pictures where I am *not* semi-naked and/or doing my best duck-face at least weeds out some of the bigger boneheads... (And sometimes it just attracts a different kind of freak!!) Meh. It is what it is... You get a mix - but overall, I personally find it hard to take the whole thing too seriously. So many things *wrong* with Tinder/people these days... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

If he's quite a ladies' man, just call him up and yell, "I'm pregnant, you asshole!" and hang up. Let him stew on that for a while and his anxiety level could go up. Friend of mine pulled that crap on a mutual friend. It was hilarious, but yeah we had to call it off after a couple hours. LOVE IT!!! See?? I *knew* some entertaining ideas would pop up on here

Last profile pic... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Meh - just interesting to hear different points of view. Sometimes imagining a scenario is more fun than actually going ahead with it. Things rarely happen like you think they will anyway. We're still waiting for your tinder pics. . . I change them up a bit once in a while but these are the current ones. They are all recent except the helicopter pic which was from 2012 (?). Anyhoo - I try to show a range and like to make sure they are representative. There is one last picture of my bike but seems to have exceeded attachment size... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Meh - just interesting to hear different points of view. Sometimes imagining a scenario is more fun than actually going ahead with it. Things rarely happen like you think they will anyway. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

So here is a plan: Arrange to meet him at a coffee shop; Then, call a meeting of your chicks-in-white club, (seen on your FB page). The whole group walks in, goes up to his table, looks at him, then says: "Sorry, it's not a match." Then you all march out together. Being rejected by that entire group would be a real ego blow. Yeah. Sounds funny on paper but even if it worked out perfectly like that the best case scenario is that *I* would end up feeling like a douche. I just messaged him that I wouldn't be meeting up with him - not feeling it. Could have had him guessing and said I wasn't going to meet up with him *again* but I really get the feeling he would not put two and tow together and even if he did, he would not give a shit. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Nope. I just think he actually does not remember rejecting me the first time. Kinda tempting to do the same thing back to him, but he is unlikely to give a shit. So it wouldn't feel satisfying. And even if it were mildly satisfying, the most likely outcome is that *I* would feel like a douche. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss

Pretty much my thoughts exactly. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss