Zennie 0 #1 August 15, 2002 That's the sound of me pulling the cutaway handle on my marriage. I've decided to file for divorce. Contacted the attorney today & I meet with him tomorrow morning. Never in my wildest nightmares would I have thought that our marriage would come to this. But she wants to keep her boytoy (as a "friend") and I just can't have that. I've already had enough of a spine-ectomy as it is. No mas. So it looks like yours truly will soon be returning to the single's club. Not sure how I feel about that. I'm so used to having constant companionship it's going to take a while to get over the loneliness/emptiness. On the other hand, now I'm free to do whatever the Hell I want whenever the Hell I want. Think I'll finally take up BASE jumping. Hey Liz.... 3-2-1-C'Ya! - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #2 August 15, 2002 Good luck Zennie! We are here for ya if you need anything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #3 August 15, 2002 Sorry to hear that man.. I hope everything works out for the better.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shark 0 #4 August 15, 2002 Bummer dude. Looks like you need a Reserve re-pack. Hope all works out. BTW, don't forget the Chicks Rock Boogie at Elsinore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #5 August 15, 2002 That's the other thing that pisses me off. She's got a reserve ride. I don't. - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 259 #6 August 15, 2002 QuoteShe's got a reserve ride. I don't. Don't stress that Zennie. I'm sure you'll have no problem picking up a new reserve for yourself soon. Don't be in a big hurry though... you know how important it is to pick the right one... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #7 August 15, 2002 Right there with ya its going to be a rocky road for you but in the long run you'll be better once things settle down. I'll keep you in my thoughts Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #8 August 15, 2002 QuoteShe's got a reserve ride. I don't. Well reserves are often times ugly, and they're not designed for everyday use. Tis better to try out a few mains til you find one you like. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sebazz1 2 #9 August 15, 2002 Fubar If you ever need to get super hammered and have someone make sure you make it home ok ~ I got your back. There are cool ones out there I hear. Take your time to take care of yourself though. Peace. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #10 August 15, 2002 You don't have any kids do you. ???? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #11 August 15, 2002 QuoteYou don't have any kids do you. ???? No thank God. That would be an even worse nightmare (having them go through this that is). - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #12 August 15, 2002 Thank GOD man.. I am almost happy for you.. Not about the divorce just about not having a kid in the middle.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hobbes4star 0 #13 August 15, 2002 hey zen sorry to hear about that. on the other hand once the dust settles let me know i have two extremly large "friends" that would love to meet your ex's "boytoy"if fun were easy it wouldn't be worth having, right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 August 15, 2002 Well...I won't lie...it's going to be shitty for a while. But it gives you a great excuse to be a man-slut and party like crazy for about 6 months. Things will return to more normal after that. It's just a break in period. Oh...and don't say no to break up sex. Just treat her like the dirty slut she is......just don't get emotionally involved!!! Don't let the lawyer pull any punches either. If she has a boyfriend you can get anything you want. Just remember to get proof you can take to court. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #15 August 15, 2002 You don't have reserve ride because you have fully deployed functional main. And you're flying a Birdman suit baby! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites miked10270 0 #16 August 15, 2002 Hi Zennie, You've got my deepest sympathy mate - I've been exactly there & I think I know how you're feeling (strtange mixture of emotions, isn't it). Still, as the saying goes; "Life's a bitch and then you marry one". Of course, when a marriage breaks up the faults are never one-sided... In this case the faults obviously lie with BOTH your wife and... her "friend" . Best wishes for the future (THERE IS ONE!!!), Mike D10270. Taking the piss out of the FrenchAmericans since before it was fashionable. Prenait la pisse hors du FrançaisCanadiens méridionaux puisqu'avant lui à la mode. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites cliffharris 0 #17 August 15, 2002 Exactly. Get a PI to follow her around and collect some dirt before you have the paper work drawn up. no need for you to pay for her mistake. good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #18 August 15, 2002 Quoteon the other hand once the dust settles let me know i have two extremly large "friends" that would love to meet your ex's "boytoy" Yeah.....use contractors....I had offers but wanted to do that job myself. Unfortunately, I did. However, I did get to stand up in court and say "Your Honor, where I come from fucking another man's wife will pretty much get you an ass whoopin. So, thats exactly what I did." It was really hard to say with a straight face.....especially since the judge was from Texas and was also having a hard time trying to keep a straight face. Everyone seemed to think it was really funny...except the prosecutors and the ex-wife's camp.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Dumpster 0 #19 August 15, 2002 Been there done that, bro! It'll be rough, but as has been mentioned before- You have a great excuse to be a total man-slut for at least six months- You can party and jump whenever you want, leave the seat up, watch TV all weekend if it's raining, etc, etc-- Hey- That doesn't sound so bad---- Oh Hell- It's starting to sound like FUN! Now where's MY cutaway handle-----? Seriously - We're all here - You've got one hell of a support group! Hang tough! C-Ya!!! Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites f1freak 0 #20 August 15, 2002 I was just served my divorce papers friday and i did my happy dance..... I was feelin like crap for long time, now im just so happy that i dont have to waste any more time on that psycho i called a wife... Life is 2 short...HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites blondeflyer7 0 #21 August 15, 2002 Ohhhhhhhhhh.....do I want that dance!!!!!!!! Wish it was today! @$%%#%$^appeals. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites f1freak 0 #22 August 15, 2002 Best dance around....HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #23 August 15, 2002 Quotedo I want that dance!!!!!!!! Call me....we'll celebrate at the DZ!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DENGOPHER 0 #24 August 15, 2002 sorry to here about that zennie. i'v been there and it sucks... but it dose get better.. hope things work out for you.... just jump!!!! gopher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites blondeflyer7 0 #25 August 15, 2002 Mr. Clay you are full of lines for me today, I'm the picker oner huh Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
miked10270 0 #16 August 15, 2002 Hi Zennie, You've got my deepest sympathy mate - I've been exactly there & I think I know how you're feeling (strtange mixture of emotions, isn't it). Still, as the saying goes; "Life's a bitch and then you marry one". Of course, when a marriage breaks up the faults are never one-sided... In this case the faults obviously lie with BOTH your wife and... her "friend" . Best wishes for the future (THERE IS ONE!!!), Mike D10270. Taking the piss out of the FrenchAmericans since before it was fashionable. Prenait la pisse hors du FrançaisCanadiens méridionaux puisqu'avant lui à la mode. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cliffharris 0 #17 August 15, 2002 Exactly. Get a PI to follow her around and collect some dirt before you have the paper work drawn up. no need for you to pay for her mistake. good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #18 August 15, 2002 Quoteon the other hand once the dust settles let me know i have two extremly large "friends" that would love to meet your ex's "boytoy" Yeah.....use contractors....I had offers but wanted to do that job myself. Unfortunately, I did. However, I did get to stand up in court and say "Your Honor, where I come from fucking another man's wife will pretty much get you an ass whoopin. So, thats exactly what I did." It was really hard to say with a straight face.....especially since the judge was from Texas and was also having a hard time trying to keep a straight face. Everyone seemed to think it was really funny...except the prosecutors and the ex-wife's camp.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dumpster 0 #19 August 15, 2002 Been there done that, bro! It'll be rough, but as has been mentioned before- You have a great excuse to be a total man-slut for at least six months- You can party and jump whenever you want, leave the seat up, watch TV all weekend if it's raining, etc, etc-- Hey- That doesn't sound so bad---- Oh Hell- It's starting to sound like FUN! Now where's MY cutaway handle-----? Seriously - We're all here - You've got one hell of a support group! Hang tough! C-Ya!!! Easy Does It Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #20 August 15, 2002 I was just served my divorce papers friday and i did my happy dance..... I was feelin like crap for long time, now im just so happy that i dont have to waste any more time on that psycho i called a wife... Life is 2 short...HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #21 August 15, 2002 Ohhhhhhhhhh.....do I want that dance!!!!!!!! Wish it was today! @$%%#%$^appeals. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #22 August 15, 2002 Best dance around....HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #23 August 15, 2002 Quotedo I want that dance!!!!!!!! Call me....we'll celebrate at the DZ!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DENGOPHER 0 #24 August 15, 2002 sorry to here about that zennie. i'v been there and it sucks... but it dose get better.. hope things work out for you.... just jump!!!! gopher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #25 August 15, 2002 Mr. Clay you are full of lines for me today, I'm the picker oner huh Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
