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PCBS>:(. What's the reasoning behind "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" being non-PC?



Well... I gotta tell you... when you're in your 40's and you're talking to your boss about your "girlfriend" it does sound a shade adolecent.

I use the term "friend." Lover is too graphic, girlfriend to childish. She is my friend. Let them figure it out.

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I agree. I don't like calling Ali my "girlfriend" because it does sound so childish. I think maybe one reason I proposed to my previous girlfriend is because I wanted to call her my fiancee rather than my girlfriend. This time, I took my cue from the gay/lesbian community and refer to Ali as my partner.

Bottom line, that's really what she is to me.
A One that Isn't Cold is Scarcely a One at All

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:(He just called and said that it was definitely over, that I should have thought about the consequences first. I said it was a mistake but he doesn't want to hear it. He said he was waiting on me while I was out kissing someone else. The kiss was hardly worth this! So much for honesty! Should have stuck with the "what he doesn't kno...."

Thanks for the input,

Tara

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Or stuck with not kissing someone that wasn't your boyfriend. IF you guys had an open relationship this wouldn't be an issue. But as it seems - it wasn't. Your actions are your actions, tell the truth, and face the consequences. Learn from this and don't let it happen again.

If you did lie to him, you would have started to doubt his trust because of your own lies. That would have ended the relationship eventually....

Would I do the same as him? Yup. Has this happened to me in the past? Yup, and I took her back, only to have her do it again. First time shame on her, second time shame on me. I won't make that same mistake again.
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I think you made the right decision. Honesty is always the best policy. You were obviously feeling guilty, so if you didn't say a word, you'd still be feeling guilty thus telling him anyways down the road. I'm sorry, he's taking it this way & not really allowing you a chance to talk. Communication in a relationship is number one for me. If he's not willing to communicate with you, he's not the right one. Cheer up, think positive, maybe he'll get over it!
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Before you give out advice, this thread is a year old. But, I do still believe that Stacy is a booze hag. ;)
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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that's Ms Boozehag #1 to you, Ms Soccer Mom.



I'm sorry, Ms Boozehag #1. I must give credit where credit is due, I'm quite envious of your abilities. ;)
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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Before you give out advice, this thread is a year old. But, I do still believe that Stacy is a booze hag. ;)



WOW! I didn't even look @ the date. I thought Jessicakes was a booze hag????:D:P
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Before you give out advice, this thread is a year old. But, I do still believe that Stacy is a booze hag.



It's always funny to watch people give advice on such old threads. I still believe stacy hook turned into a cow.

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WOW! I didn't even look @ the date. I thought Jessicakes was a booze hag



Jessicakes is a booze hag. But at least she doesn't live in the ghetto anymore.

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