Bigwallmaster 0 #1 January 29, 2004 I was recently cheated on by a girl I loved. I'm 27 and this is the first time I have gone through this. Needless to say I am just crushed. any suggestions for "curing blues"? Bigwall Ps. I don't want to hear "banging a whole bunch of chicks and drinking like a fish". I've tried that already. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #2 January 29, 2004 SKYDIVE!!! That cures everything. __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #3 January 29, 2004 Time, it's as simple and as hard, as that.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jb092 0 #4 January 29, 2004 Ivan said it best!! What could possibly go wrong? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #5 January 29, 2004 It will only get better. Remeber 99% of all of your relationships will not last. Welcome to the club. Now you can call her your "puss filled mutated bitch" Standard name for any women that breaks your heart by cheating on you. I have two of em.Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #6 January 29, 2004 break-ups suck. that's about all there is to it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Douva 0 #7 January 29, 2004 QuotePs. I don't want to hear "banging a whole bunch of chicks and drinking like a fish". I've tried that already. Have you tried banging a whole bunch of fish and drinking like a chick?I don't have an M.D. or a law degree. I have bachelor's in kicking ass and taking names. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #8 January 29, 2004 QuoteHave you tried banging a whole bunch of fish and drinking like a chick? ROFLMAO!!! Classic!!"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #9 January 29, 2004 LMAO. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blahr 0 #10 January 29, 2004 Betrayal. Nothing hurts worse than that. I'm sorry to welcome you to the club You are in good company if that makes any difference. I know it doesnt. There isnt anything that will make it better except time. Do yourself a favor. Dont knock yourself about it. Even if you were not the perfect man there is no excuse for what she did to you. Its her fault, not yours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bigwallmaster 0 #11 January 29, 2004 ha ha ha!! I'll take that into consideration. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #12 January 29, 2004 Just give it some time. That's all you can do."It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bigwallmaster 0 #13 January 29, 2004 Yeah. True that. And to be honest with you the more time that goes by the more I do realize that this chick has issues. Nevertheless, is it too much to ask to simply speak openly and break up prior to the act of moving on to other sex? It wouldn't have been nearly as bad if she had not been sexin' me and others at the same time. . . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #14 January 29, 2004 27 and your first time? Heck, consider yourself fortunate. I'll tell you this - do everything the right way. I had it happen to me (he was a friend) and apparently she'd lied to him, said some nasty stuff about me, and he bought it. I didn't say a bad thing about her, and just kept my silence. I knew she'd already done the same thing to him as to me (yeah, I'll wear it) and I couldn't convince him of her ways. So, I wished them the best. A few weeks later, he told a friend of mine that he sure respected me for never saying a bad thing about a bad situation. Heck, I figured "he deserves her and he'll find out." Think about it that way. It worked for me, and it may help. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gmanpilot 0 #15 January 29, 2004 Quoteany suggestions for "curing blues"? Get drunk, and howl at the moon. When one of my friends would need "the treatment", we would pack up the Jeeps and trucks with camping gear and copious amounts of alcohol, then head out where there's no chicks, no electricity, and no pavement. I'm serious dude, get away and howl at the moon....it's good for what ails you._________________________________________ -There's always free cheese in a mouse trap. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #16 January 29, 2004 You must be a really good guy if you made it to 27 and just got your first heartbreak. Time will take care of it. Don't do anything you'll regret like banging a lot of fish and drinking like a chick. And I hate to bring it up, but since she's a cheater, you may want to go to the doc and test for everything to make sure she didn't leave you with any nasty little parting gifts.~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #17 January 29, 2004 Personally, I think I'm going to head over to a good friend's place sometime soon, shoot pool, and drink a lot of booze. There's just something about doing something stupid after a breakup that makes you feel better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unstable 8 #18 January 29, 2004 I'm sorry to hear this has happened. We've all been through this - Each time you hope & pray that you are with the one, then a few months down the road you are back at square one again. You should be very gratefull now that the two of you parted now rather than 5 years down the road when you have children/marriage in the mess. Just give it time, brother.... Blue Ones,=========Shaun ========== Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bigwallmaster 0 #19 January 29, 2004 Yeah thanks for the advice April; I've been to the Doc. . . .everything is cool. The truth is that I am normally not one to go out and bang everything. . . . . .okay that's a lie!! ha ha! But I am rather selective and I would prefer to be loyal to a girlfriend. Promiscuity is . . . wasted energy. It would be so much nicer to just meet someone that I click with ya know? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
colintri 0 #20 January 29, 2004 Yup, that's true. It's hard to believe that right now but time does heal. Be grateful for what you had and learn from your past relationship. If she cheated on you, it's time to make a fresh start in your life. No sense in wasting your time with her and hoping things will work out with her. Skydive as much as you can right now and make some new friends! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bigwallmaster 0 #21 January 29, 2004 Have you been thru this lately as well? . . . . Pool, booze, and especially close friends have been my saving grace thus far. I will say that it's funny how something like this can really bring to light those friends of yours that truly care about you. If anything good has come out of this, it's made me alot tighter with certain friends. J.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #22 January 29, 2004 Time heals all wounds. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Lee03 0 #23 January 29, 2004 Unfortunately, there is no cure for a broken heart! Regardless of how you got it, i.e., cheated on, broke up with you, whatever the reason, there is no cure. Sorry it happened to you.-------- To put your life in danger from time to time ... breeds a saneness in dealing with day-to-day trivialities. --Nevil Shute, Slide Rule Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites towjumpr 0 #24 January 29, 2004 What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. hope that helps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Rdutch 0 #25 January 29, 2004 QuoteI was recently cheated on by a girl I loved. I'm 27 and this is the first time I have gone through this. Needless to say I am just crushed. any suggestions for "curing blues"? Bigwall Ps. I don't want to hear "banging a whole bunch of chicks and drinking like a fish". I've tried that already. Best answer hook up with her friends, or someone better looking and twice as cool, other than that, "Jack Daniels if you please"? Ray Small and fast what every girl dreams of! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
Lee03 0 #23 January 29, 2004 Unfortunately, there is no cure for a broken heart! Regardless of how you got it, i.e., cheated on, broke up with you, whatever the reason, there is no cure. Sorry it happened to you.-------- To put your life in danger from time to time ... breeds a saneness in dealing with day-to-day trivialities. --Nevil Shute, Slide Rule Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
towjumpr 0 #24 January 29, 2004 What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. hope that helps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Rdutch 0 #25 January 29, 2004 QuoteI was recently cheated on by a girl I loved. I'm 27 and this is the first time I have gone through this. Needless to say I am just crushed. any suggestions for "curing blues"? Bigwall Ps. I don't want to hear "banging a whole bunch of chicks and drinking like a fish". I've tried that already. Best answer hook up with her friends, or someone better looking and twice as cool, other than that, "Jack Daniels if you please"? Ray Small and fast what every girl dreams of! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
Rdutch 0 #25 January 29, 2004 QuoteI was recently cheated on by a girl I loved. I'm 27 and this is the first time I have gone through this. Needless to say I am just crushed. any suggestions for "curing blues"? Bigwall Ps. I don't want to hear "banging a whole bunch of chicks and drinking like a fish". I've tried that already. Best answer hook up with her friends, or someone better looking and twice as cool, other than that, "Jack Daniels if you please"? Ray Small and fast what every girl dreams of! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
