skymama 35 #51 February 13, 2004 Well, I don't know if this is the case for PhillyKev or not, but if you are attracted to a girl because she's a little wild and crazy and that's exciting for you, you gotta know that's going to transcend into all aspects of her personality. Stick to the nice girls. We're only wild and crazy when it really matters. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #52 February 13, 2004 You hit that nail on the head....I tend to pick out the crazy ones....just never one this crazy before. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
juanesky 0 #53 February 13, 2004 You are right, but still, way too many, use the law to get even, when things just don't go the way they planned..., not because they actually need to "protect" themselves. I think this is the point of concern. It is fairly easy and more common than you can imagine, that in Massachusetts when a woman no longer wants her hubby, she only has to go to court and request such an order to get him completely out of her life. And I mean they send him out wihtout even packing his things..... If Kev is right, and prooves that he is so, they still will give her the benefit of the doubt. THat is crap, and one more reason to find a bride in Russia...."According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #54 February 13, 2004 Ughhh....just had to call my boss and tell her would be out and why. That was humiliating. I could have just said I was sick, but I didn't want her hearing anything from someone else before me. I learned my lesson of not going to the police first. Not going to let this screw up my job by making the same mistake again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #55 February 13, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuoteSuch is life in a society that doesnt want its people to be able to own guns. I think it's more life in a society that believes all men are abusive assholes and deprives them of due process So, you feel that this would've been different if he claimed that she came after him with a gun? Yes, I do. I have been there, wasn't a gun, but it was just as bad. It was a shitpot full of lies! And I was "escorted" out. Bitterness has lasted to the present day.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #56 February 13, 2004 Ok...so I have appointments with 2 different attorneys today. This is also a cross topic with "What will you spend your tax refund on" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
juanesky 0 #57 February 13, 2004 Get the recordings transcribed and copied...IMHO."According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kevin922 0 #58 February 13, 2004 Wow, I didn't know you dated my ex too. Crazy! She must have a thing for guys named kevin. How much shit did you loose in the R'ship? I lost a sony digital camera (to the wall - when she threw it against it) and then a newer better sony digital camer I bought to replace the one she broke (it disappeared when I broke up with her). She threatened to call the police and file a report for domestic violence.. when that came out of her mouth I said see-ya! God is your ex's name jessie? :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kallend 1,648 #59 February 13, 2004 QuoteWow, I didn't know you dated my ex too. Crazy! She must have a thing for guys named kevin. How much shit did you loose in the R'ship? I lost a sony digital camera (to the wall - when she threw it against it) and then a newer better sony digital camer I bought to replace the one she broke (it disappeared when I broke up with her). She threatened to call the police and file a report for domestic violence.. when that came out of her mouth I said see-ya! God is your ex's name jessie? :) My ex-wife was a thrower. Mostly of kitchen stuff, though, at me. (The tea-pot full of boiling water was the worst).... The only sure way to survive a canopy collision is not to have one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #60 February 13, 2004 Fortunately not too much....some luggage and a cell phone. The luggage was dropped off by someone a couple hours before I got served with the PFA. She also owes me several hundred dollars for phone calls to her family that I let her make from my house that she said she'd pay for. And then there's the cost of the lawyer....oh yeah, and my guns......and my trust....and my desire to ever have a relationship again...and my dignity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #61 February 13, 2004 Oh yeah...i didn't count the shit she broke....a cd player, glasses, and a singing and dancing Mr. Burns. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #62 February 13, 2004 Quoteand a singing and dancing Mr. Burns. That's it, now I'm pissed at her too. ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiverRick 0 #63 February 13, 2004 QuoteOh yeah...i didn't count the shit she broke....a cd player, glasses, and a singing and dancing Mr. Burns. Estrogen must be a wild ride. never pull low......unless you are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sneaky 0 #64 February 13, 2004 Interesting read this.... All on the sayso of one stupid women eh..I hope it works out for you what a great country America is... TK ....take note !! This is exactly what happened and you suckered up for it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kevin922 0 #65 February 13, 2004 QuoteFortunately not too much....some luggage and a cell phone. The luggage was dropped off by someone a couple hours before I got served with the PFA. She also owes me several hundred dollars for phone calls to her family that I let her make from my house that she said she'd pay for. And then there's the cost of the lawyer....oh yeah, and my guns......and my trust....and my desire to ever have a relationship again...and my dignity. Oh yeah I had to take out a loan in my name to get her re-poed car back, i never saw that money again. Actually was still paying on the loan after we broke up. Argh! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #66 February 13, 2004 If it was me, I would seek a counter suit against her for false accusations. When they come to get your guns have them photograph them exactly where they are. Perhaps you would be advised to have them document thier status - like is there alot of dust on them, is there alot of dust everywhere else - have the guns been obviously moved in the recent past. (I know I watch too much CSI) Ask your lawyer if all this would make a difference - Ask him if there is any way to get her charged with filing a false report, lying to authorities, malicious (something or other), and if he can - get her to pay the lawyer bills, pain and suffering, lost wages, and then get a restraining order on her. It would only be fair - not vengeful - Fair. I would have done the same in my case, but the lawyer was expensive and I had to find a new place to live, pronto, as well as new furniture to sleep on and eat on and so forth.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kevin922 0 #67 February 13, 2004 Quote TK Hayes....take note !! Is that your signature or some other reference to something? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #69 February 13, 2004 Well, the guns are already turned in. The order said "immediately" and I didn't want to screw around and have them break down my door coming after them. I'm definitely going to file a PFA against her, but waiting to talk to the lawyer first. Not going to bother suing her...she works under the table for cash and doesn't have a bank account or any assets, so that's just a waste of time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riggerrob 558 #70 February 13, 2004 PhillyKev, Sounds like you are doing all the right things, but I would still request a restraining order against her. Oh and you should have told the cops that you would only turn in your guns AFTER she turned in hers. Good luck man Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #71 February 13, 2004 QuoteOh and you should have told the cops that you would only turn in your guns AFTER she turned in hers. Probably would have been a good idea. But...she doesn't have any, yeah, I know what you're saying, tell them that anyway. But considering she's a convicted felon, she wouldn't have been able to get one "legally" anyway. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiverRick 0 #72 February 13, 2004 QuotePhillyKev, Sounds like you are doing all the right things, but I would still request a restraining order against her. Oh and you should have told the cops that you would only turn in your guns AFTER she turned in hers. Good luck man Maintain the high road and obey the law. She'll eventually expose herself for the whacko that she is. The legal system is anything but fair, but you have to play the game by their rules. Time wounds all heels. never pull low......unless you are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #73 February 13, 2004 Take all the evidence you can to make her look like the true psycho she has turned out to be. Take the high road, it will make you look like a better person to the judge and you will feel better about things in the long run. Best of luck, I'll keep you in my thoughts and I hope the bitch doesn't harass you anymore. Just ignore her and let the court deal with it.Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #74 February 13, 2004 QuoteWell, I don't know if this is the case for PhillyKev or not, but if you are attracted to a girl because she's a little wild and crazy and that's exciting for you, you gotta know that's going to transcend into all aspects of her personality. Stick to the nice girls. We're only wild and crazy when it really matters. I completely agree with Skymama. It sucks beyond belief that this happened and I hope she gets hers for what she's done to you, but she was as you said a convicted felon...should be kind of a redlight, warning signal. Sorry this happened... and don't let it jade you to future relationships----if you feel something is "off" with the person then let that be your first sign to get the hell out of dodge. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #75 February 13, 2004 Yeah...well didn't know that when we started dating. Or when I took her to the range to teach HER how to shoot (big mistake)...considering it's illegal for her to even touch a gun. Hmmm....come to think of it, she had to sign releases and sign in at the range, I'll make sure to tell my lawyer that as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
