justaflygirl 0 #1 February 6, 2005 I've posted alot (not as much as the post whores...) but Ive started and put in my 2 cents quite a bit....heres my question, I never seem to get much response to any of my posts and I was wondering why this is? I am eager to make skyfriends from all over, as I know I will forever be a skydiver. However not getting much "attention" tends to burn me out here, I am more than trying to get involved, but cant figure what I am doing wrong, unless I simpply "just stink" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #2 February 6, 2005 Naw, you're doing good. Don't let DZ.com bullshit make you think people do or don't like you. If you'll notice, there are some serious "clicks" on DZ.com, it can feel like no one notices when a click groupie doesn't respond and the thread drifts off away from your post, but FIDO that doesn't mean people don't notice and don't read and don't agree.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #3 February 6, 2005 Yup..you stink. Hey!!!, look, I reply to your posting YAY!!! I hope this made you laugh __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #4 February 7, 2005 I think that too sometimes, I figure its just like real life though, people have to get to know you a little before they post up. Either that or my sense of humour sucks. Watch this thread die now....Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justaflygirl 0 #5 February 7, 2005 Thanks Dave, Ivan, & Geordie... I smiled Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #6 February 7, 2005 Thread-killing in this forum is my speciality, find your own damn forum. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #7 February 7, 2005 You didn't even read my post, or you would know my name is Lee.Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,410 #8 February 7, 2005 Maybe the problem is that your posts are too thoughtful,and polite. Trying being unreasonable and belligerent, and you will get more responses."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #9 February 7, 2005 I wouldn't worry about it. Everyone has started a thread that 'clunked' at least ONCE...maybe you are putting threads where there is no interest...like putting a female concern in the Speakers Forum...or asking about something that happened in the Incident thread that was more emotional than factual. I wouldn't worry too much about 'cliques'..just be yourself and good luck (see, you DID get responses this time ~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justaflygirl 0 #10 February 7, 2005 i did read it, thats just how I replied...sorry..thanks for replying to my post. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #11 February 7, 2005 One thing you must know...DO NOT REPOST!!!, or I'll arrest your ass __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justaflygirl 0 #12 February 7, 2005 QuoteOne thing you must know...DO NOT REPOST!!!, or I'll arrest your ass Isnt this "re-posting" arrest me?....I like handcuffs.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GeordieSkydiver 0 #13 February 7, 2005 Oh shit, that was a joke... See, i told you my sense of humour sucked.Lee _______________________________ In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy? http://www.ukskydiver.co.uk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #14 February 7, 2005 Quotearrest me?....I like handcuffs.... Yup __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #15 February 7, 2005 QuoteQuotearrest me?....I like handcuffs.... Yup -or if you want to get their attention... just make your posts more sexually oriented. See - you're learning!!! (seriously though, don't worry about it. Post about what interests you and don't worry about how it interests others.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #16 February 7, 2005 Or post a pic of you...that'll get the men paying attention. Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #17 February 7, 2005 Thank you april for pointing out the correct spelling of clique. Ok, i have to go ignore people now. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #18 February 7, 2005 Quote Thank you april for pointing out the correct spelling of clique. Meh. Dz.com is one of the few places I don't spell check or even reread for typos. *shrug* I guess I just don't care enough.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #19 February 7, 2005 Quote Thank you april for pointing out the correct spelling of clique. Meh. Dz.com is one of the few places I don't spell check or even reread for typos. *shrug* I guess I just don't care enough. Lol...agreed. When I am writing on DZ.com, I am usually typing crazy fast and make many typos. This is despite the fact that I am great at spelling. I used to be uptight about spelling mistakes, but I've definitely learned to live with it. Justaflygirl ~ Don't worry. You'll make plenty of friends in the skydiving community. Sometimes, it takes a little time. You're doing fine by posting a little and jumping a little. Pretty soon, you will be a regular both at your home DZ and at DZ.com. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lainey 0 #20 February 7, 2005 Hey I think that too sometimes!! I am pretty quiet in new places so I don't really post unless it's about someone I know or something that directly affects me... I guess you just gotta keep at it, get to know people and they'll be more likely to respond warmly. I don't think you stink hehe, chin up girl. . And you shed not a single tear for the things that you didn't need 'Cause you knew you were finally free - Death Cab For Cutie Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #21 February 7, 2005 QuoteQuote Thank you april for pointing out the correct spelling of clique. Meh. Dz.com is one of the few places I don't spell check or even reread for typos. *shrug* I guess I just don't care enough. Hey, now! I really wasn't trying to point out your mispelling, I was just commenting on cliques period...I'm pretty comfy here too, and although I'm an exceptional speller, I have my own little glitches (sailor's mouth). So please don't think I was trying to correct you.~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #22 February 7, 2005 QuoteHey, now! I really wasn't trying to point out your mispelling I wouldn't care even if you did.You didn't write what I quoted, anyways.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
windcatcher 0 #23 February 7, 2005 justaflygirl, ya don't stink! I'm sorry you would even have to ask that question in the bonfire. Obviously you've noticed some people usually respond to their friends' threads and avoid certain other ones, which is somewhat expected since some dz.commers have stories/jokes to share that the rest of us have no clue about. Don't feel bad, don't stress or even think about it. I know certain people will avoid others on here, especially if they respond in a manner which they aren't used to being around. Girl, don't care what others think of you, if they don't want to respond to you then just go on. Have fun, if people won't like you for who you are, they probably aren't the type of people you want to surround yourself with. Mother to the cutest little thing in the world... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #24 February 7, 2005 MMMM you smell good.Hey girl, just be thankful you don't have a reputation like mine on here. I crack up at what people actually have thought of me before they met me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #25 February 7, 2005 Uh-huh.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites