Is it possible to masturbate too much?

[wildcard451 0]

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Very.

Got video?

A a matter of fact, I do.

Okay, I fold.

But just so ya know, if you'd said "no" instead of "yes," you could've asked for volunteers to prove it.

Now I can just ask for volunteers for a sequel.

[bdbrown 0]

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I plead the 5th

whats that after 5 times in a day your done.....come on Andy

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[RhondaLea 3]

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I plead the 5th

whats that after 5 times in a day your done.....come on Andy

This makes me wonder...everyone goes through spells of not being very interested in sex. Did you folks average it out, or did you use the total from a really good day?

rl

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

[nerd137 0]

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This makes me wonder...everyone goes through spells of not being very interested in sex. Did you folks average it out, or did you use the total from a really good day?

rl

Never have I gone through a period when I wasn't interested in sex. However, I have been going through a very long phase of not being interested in persuing sex. Or is that the same thing?

[Mockingbird 0]

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Sex is both.

It is a bodily function just like any other bodily function. It also has the potential to be beautiful and meaningful, but that doesn't mean it must always be that. If we were meant to have sex only when sex can be meaningful, why would the body become aroused at any other time?
If you have children, are you going to spend your their childhoods slapping their hands all day long, and telling them they have to suffer from these feelings until they get married and that when they're married, they can only have "beautiful and meaningful" sex?
No quickies at lunchtime. No wake-up sex. No "up against the counter while making dinner" sex. No... Huh...I don't think anyone is going to be having much fun sex at all--and certainly no masturbation--if we let you set the rules of the game.

#1, Typical. Can't respond to what I actually said, so let's build a strawman. Did I say that people shouldn't masterbate? Did I say that people should only have "beautiful and meaningful sex"? Did I make any rules by which people should "have sex"? (God forbid that we should refer to it as "making love." /sarcasm) I didn't say any of those things. Do I need to diagram my sentences for you so you'll interpret them correctly?

#2, It would be so much fun to respond to your other statements, but I don't want to make this about something that I never intended, so I won't.

cr

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See my post to "rl." I guess you don't get it either.

[RhondaLea 3]

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Sex is both.

It is a bodily function just like any other bodily function. It also has the potential to be beautiful and meaningful, but that doesn't mean it must always be that. If we were meant to have sex only when sex can be meaningful, why would the body become aroused at any other time?
If you have children, are you going to spend your their childhoods slapping their hands all day long, and telling them they have to suffer from these feelings until they get married and that when they're married, they can only have "beautiful and meaningful" sex?
No quickies at lunchtime. No wake-up sex. No "up against the counter while making dinner" sex. No... Huh...I don't think anyone is going to be having much fun sex at all--and certainly no masturbation--if we let you set the rules of the game.

#1, Typical. Can't respond to what I actually said, so let's build a strawman. Did I say that people shouldn't masterbate? Did I say that people should only have "beautiful and meaningful sex"? Did I make any rules by which people should "have sex"? (God forbid that we should refer to it as "making love." /sarcasm) I didn't say any of those things. Do I need to diagram my sentences for you so you'll interpret them correctly?

This is what you said:

Doesn't anyone keep their sex life private any more? Sex is beautiful and meaningful; you make it seem so frivolous.

I said it is both.

Your lack of knowledge of logical fallacies is your own problem. Perhaps diagramming your sentences might be a good idea.

And one more thing: you spelled "masturbate" wrong.

rl

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

[dustin19d 0]

It's a great way to stay awake when your out in the field and its cold as shit I've even done it out in the desert when I was bored out of my mind..

[1969912 0]

Thanks for not flaming me into oblivion!

"Once we got to the point where twenty/something's needed a place on the corner that changed the oil in their cars we were doomed . . ."
-NickDG

[1969912 0]

Yeah. It really makes you feeel good. What is amazing is how few males really understand that it is not just a matter of humpin' for a few minutes then being done with it. Even fewer have the natural ability (more likely caring and desire) to really concentrate on the feedback the gal gives, whether she knows it or not. Many women have been traumatized, most often emotionally, and really deserve the kind of guy who will devote all to her pleasure. Fuck, time for a cold shower!

"Once we got to the point where twenty/something's needed a place on the corner that changed the oil in their cars we were doomed . . ."
-NickDG

[1969912 0]

That is a very good point. But, if I were involved in any way in helping a lady experience what you described, it wouldn't matter how many orgasms I had. Even none would be ok.

"Once we got to the point where twenty/something's needed a place on the corner that changed the oil in their cars we were doomed . . ."
-NickDG

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Even fewer have the natural ability (more likely caring and desire) to really concentrate on the feedback the gal gives

HUH? I just need them to lay still for a few minutes.

[mnealtx 0]

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No "up against the counter while making dinner" sex

up against the counter making dinner sex is quite meaningful...

wife... "honey, we're out of cream cheese... can you spare a little?"

husband... "sure... i'm game for some countertop rompin..."

wife... "thanks hon, you're swell... ing."

LOL.... so you're her favorite "non-dairy creamer"?

Mike
I love you, Shannon and Jim.
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[Mockingbird 0]

rl: I guess I do have to explain. See if you can follow along:

Detailing one's sexual experiences in public cheapens the whole concept of sex. (I don't ask or expect you to agree with me, but I do think you should allow me to express my opinion without acting on your apparent need to prove me wrong by misrepresenting what I said.)

And one more thing: I wouldn't point fingers when it comes to spelling until I'd learned to proof-read my own posts first.

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FREEFALL WANK?

Since this thread is going to hell anyway, will anyone admit to having had a wank during freefall? To be fair, I guess the rules could allow some preliminary work before exit.

"Once we got to the point where twenty/something's needed a place on the corner that changed the oil in their cars we were doomed . . ."
-NickDG

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rl: I guess I do have to explain. See if you can follow along:

Detailing one's sexual experiences in public cheapens the whole concept of sex.

You don't see your underlying presumption? The one with which I took issue?

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(I don't ask or expect you to agree with me, but I do think you should allow me to express my opinion without acting on your apparent need to prove me wrong by misrepresenting what I said.)

I didn't misrepresent what you said. Not only that, you just said it again.

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And one more thing: I wouldn't point fingers when it comes to spelling until I'd learned to proof-read my own posts first.

It's just kinda funny to me that you couldn't get it right, and the correct spelling is right there in the subject line. Helpful hint here:

Spelling flames are lame, but the mispelling of "masturbate" struck me as amusing. If you're going to be real serious about flaming a spelling error, however, it works better if you quote it or if it's at least in the post you're referring to. The spelling flame of a post upthread or in a different thread entirely is irredeemably lame.

rl

P.S. The guy posted an interesting question, and there was nothing wrong with it. Keeping sex a "mystery" has done a lot of damage to a lot of people over the years. A little more plain talk about it would prevent a lot of hurt, in general, as well as a lot of misconceptions that can screw someone up for a lifetime.

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

[swedishcelt 0]

Mike that was too funny!!! And ew!! Gross!!

[mnealtx 0]

I was just lucky enough to be the first to make the joke... as you can see, everyone else took it and *RAN*...

Mike
I love you, Shannon and Jim.
POPS 9708 , SCR 14706

[piisfish 135]

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Is it possible to masturbate too much?

NO

scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM

[RhondaLea 3]

Addendum:

Beautiful, meaningful and topical sex.

And one more.

If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb

[vpozzoli 0]

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Geez, man, maybe when you have sex it's like a scene in a romance novel complete with Whitney Houston crooning in the background and rose pedals on the bed....but I think for everyone else it's closer to a porn shoot.

Huh? What's with the pedals? Is this some "lose excess weight while screwing" kind of thing?



Ciao.

Vale

Edited for spelling (shame on me).

[mnealtx 0]

That, or maybe this? (see attached)

Makes that morning ride into work much more enjoyable for the ladies...

Mike
I love you, Shannon and Jim.
POPS 9708 , SCR 14706

[nerd137 0]

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Do I need to diagram my sentences for you so you'll interpret them correctly?

Apparently, yes.

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It would be so much fun to respond to your other statements, but I don't want to make this about something that I never intended, so I won't.

That's very magnanimous of you.

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See my post to "rl." I guess you don't get it either.

Guess not.

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...but I do think you should allow me to express my opinion without acting on your apparent need to prove me wrong by misrepresenting what I said...

Com'on man, you left yourself WIDE open for criticisim from the outset. You pretty clearly indicated that you have a moral qualm with this thread's treatment of sex; are you really that surprised that you're getting this reaction?

Sheesh.

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Nope, not surprised at all, and I don't mind the reaction if it's a reaction to what I actually said and not a reaction to a misrepresentation of what I said. When insecure people feel the slightest bit judged, they'll sometimes put words in your mouth and then attack them (or your spelling)... even if you were only questioning the wisdom or appropriateness of talking publicly about the subject (in this case, private matters like mastUrbation). Some just can't accept a difference of opinion.

I said what I wanted to say, and have moved on.