PikzeeVikzen 0 #1 May 10, 2007 What is your definition of a cheater? For me it's anything that you won't do in front of your bf/gf/spouse (let's call it significant other). Barring bathroom rituals of course. I'd hate to think that locking yourself in the bathroom for a noisy session with the porcelain god would be cheating. Luckily for me, my hubby knows I'm a huge flirt and doesn't mind a bit. I'm the twist that turns your key.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #2 May 10, 2007 QuoteWhat is your definition of a cheater? For me it's anything that you won't do in front of your bf/gf/spouse (let's call it significant other). Barring bathroom rituals of course. I'd hate to think that locking yourself in the bathroom for a noisy session with the porcelain god would be cheating. Luckily for me, my hubby knows I'm a huge flirt and doesn't mind a bit. Anything that you deliberatly make an effort to keep as a secret from your SO. I have guy friends that my hubby knows about, I would never sleep with any of them, I feel weird just hugging them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karenmeal 0 #3 May 10, 2007 That's a pretty good definition to me. I concur! "Life is a temporary victory over the causes which induce death." - Sylvester Graham Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #4 May 10, 2007 If I do it, it's OK..if YOU do it, it's cheating? Now, now, now...before the flames begin....j/k My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PikzeeVikzen 0 #5 May 10, 2007 QuoteIf I do it, it's OK..if YOU do it, it's cheating? I do believe that a good majority of the population abides by that line of thinking. I'm the twist that turns your key.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yardhippie 0 #6 May 10, 2007 I wont do anything I dont want her doing. B/C whats good for the goose is good for the gander. What ever the hell that means. The rule is if I do it, so can she. there are just too damn many things I'd not want her doing, so it balances out. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #7 May 10, 2007 QuoteI wont do anything I dont want her doing. Flip the gender in that statement and we're on the same page. When I was younger, more selfish and flippant in relationships, I learned the hard way how my actions actually affected someone else. Now I'm very conscious of my behavior when I'm in a relationship. Basically, I ask myself, is what I'm about to do (or not do) so important to me that its worth hurting someone I love? .. and it never is. That philosiphy doesnt apply just to "cheating" situations, its also about keeping your word and being true. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yardhippie 0 #8 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote I wont do anything I dont want her doing. That philosiphy doesnt apply just to "cheating" situations, its also about keeping your word and being true. True dat! How else would I get to hang out with all the Hotties in the ATL? Or drink all the beer at Trivia every tuestday?Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #9 May 10, 2007 I know! My problem is that expect to be treated the same in return and wont settle for less.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #10 May 10, 2007 Quote I know! My problem is that expect to be treated the same in return and wont settle for less.. There are some of us similarly inclined guys around. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #11 May 10, 2007 Where? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Lindercles 0 #12 May 10, 2007 How YOU doin? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #13 May 10, 2007 Hahah.. you're proving my point. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Lindercles 0 #14 May 10, 2007 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #15 May 10, 2007 Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites BelskyBlueEyes 0 #16 May 10, 2007 You would think.... I have not had a boyfriend in 6 years. So when you find out where the good guys in Atlanta are, please let me know! (Have been on dates etc, but no one that was relationship material. Atlanta is a city of the 'quick fix'. I find both many of the men and women are commitment phobes. Many are just looking for the good time and don't have any real intentions.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #17 May 10, 2007 Quote You would think.... I have not had a boyfriend in 6 years. So when you find out where the good guys in Atlanta are, please let me know! Sorry, I'm not exactly looking for them. The only guys I know in the Atlanta area are reprobates. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Icon134 0 #18 May 10, 2007 Quote Where? Nowhere... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yardhippie 0 #19 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites guppie01 0 #20 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. LOL, I thought the very same thing... g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites livendive 8 #21 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. LOL, I thought the very same thing... g You're an open and honest guy living in Atlanta?! I didn't realize you'd made such changes in your life (and anatomy)! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Thanatos340 1 #22 May 10, 2007 Quote The only guys I know in the Atlanta area are reprobates. Hey!! I live in Atlanta.. And I have been off probation for years!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. 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yardhippie 0 #6 May 10, 2007 I wont do anything I dont want her doing. B/C whats good for the goose is good for the gander. What ever the hell that means. The rule is if I do it, so can she. there are just too damn many things I'd not want her doing, so it balances out. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #7 May 10, 2007 QuoteI wont do anything I dont want her doing. Flip the gender in that statement and we're on the same page. When I was younger, more selfish and flippant in relationships, I learned the hard way how my actions actually affected someone else. Now I'm very conscious of my behavior when I'm in a relationship. Basically, I ask myself, is what I'm about to do (or not do) so important to me that its worth hurting someone I love? .. and it never is. That philosiphy doesnt apply just to "cheating" situations, its also about keeping your word and being true. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #8 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote I wont do anything I dont want her doing. That philosiphy doesnt apply just to "cheating" situations, its also about keeping your word and being true. True dat! How else would I get to hang out with all the Hotties in the ATL? Or drink all the beer at Trivia every tuestday?Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #9 May 10, 2007 I know! My problem is that expect to be treated the same in return and wont settle for less.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #10 May 10, 2007 Quote I know! My problem is that expect to be treated the same in return and wont settle for less.. There are some of us similarly inclined guys around. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #13 May 10, 2007 Hahah.. you're proving my point. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #15 May 10, 2007 Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BelskyBlueEyes 0 #16 May 10, 2007 You would think.... I have not had a boyfriend in 6 years. So when you find out where the good guys in Atlanta are, please let me know! (Have been on dates etc, but no one that was relationship material. Atlanta is a city of the 'quick fix'. I find both many of the men and women are commitment phobes. Many are just looking for the good time and don't have any real intentions.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #17 May 10, 2007 Quote You would think.... I have not had a boyfriend in 6 years. So when you find out where the good guys in Atlanta are, please let me know! Sorry, I'm not exactly looking for them. The only guys I know in the Atlanta area are reprobates. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #18 May 10, 2007 Quote Where? Nowhere... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #19 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #20 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. LOL, I thought the very same thing... g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #21 May 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote Quote Where? I know of one a few thousand miles from you, but he's spoken for. Atlanta is a big city though...there's got to be at least two or three there. Blues, Dave Im taken, but thanks for the compliment. that makes it one or two. LOL, I thought the very same thing... g You're an open and honest guy living in Atlanta?! I didn't realize you'd made such changes in your life (and anatomy)! Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #22 May 10, 2007 Quote The only guys I know in the Atlanta area are reprobates. Hey!! I live in Atlanta.. And I have been off probation for years!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
