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Because she shouldn't have to die with ONLY her cheating husband by her side and yes he cheated on her, he broke their marriage vows. He should have divorced her years ago. Desperate people do desperate things during severally emotional times. I'm sure non of you have ever rallied the troops for your cause. I just have more compassion for her parents than the "husband". J Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

So showing that you cared for someone by crying and caring on is okay as long as no one sees you and you seek no support. I saw it as a cry for help. Fabulous! Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

A comment was made about how inapproriate it is to show emotion in public, people might think you care. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Was the media in the room when the father had the outbreak for the world to see? I must have missed it. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Maybe cause he has a girlfriend and moved on a long time ago is why he has not emotions on this. I am sad and emotional when someone dies, it hurts when somone you love dies, it hurts alot. That is fact at least with most humans. J Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Not all of us are pro-lifers, some of us just don't believe the "husband". Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

That guy gives me the creeps, and he is a lawyer and they don't always tell the truth. At least they have some, emotions. Is it so wrong to not want to have your daughter starve to death and when that is inevitable then not be able to be by her side. Her fathers "outbreak" was awefully convenient for MS. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Because they were her parents and they wanted to be their for her. Unless you can prove they were abusive or neglectful they had as much right to be with her when she passed as you all think he did. They just haven't proven it yet. He lacks sincerity. J Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Yes I would be pissed if my written wishes were not met. If the court said she died 15 years ago then why deny the parents the right to see their child when she passes. The guy has a live-in girlfriend to go home to and continue on doing what he HAS BEEN doing for years. Did Terri want to be cremated? Was that MS's wish, the new girlfriends wish or part of our great court system? Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

But several people on here said she died 15 years ago so he was widowed 15 years ago. So why would he care now? If she dosen't know what's going on and hasn't for 15 years why would he even care who wanted to be with her when her body ceased to function. According to all the courts he pleaded to they said she was dead 15 years ago so it appears, apparently only to me, that he has a different agenda. How much do you think he will get for the movie? j Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

You don't even want them their on your death bed? How sad for them. I live 2000 miles away from my family, I watched my dad die 2 years ago on saturday. When they decided he wasn't going to get better or even survive the ride home, they called me and I came because he wanted me there. I can't imagine not having your family there at least those that wanted to be their. If Terri had a horrible relationship with her family, they sure aren't showing it. j Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

So at what point do you know someone really well? When is okay to marry someone that you THINK you know really well? People change over the years, change that can be unforeseen. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Parents kill their children as well. Reference Andrea Yates. I guess her children wanted to die? I know parents kill their children too, as well as spouses. MY POINT is he should have let them see her at the end. My point is not everyone has all the info all the time to make choices. I don't and more than likely never will believe MS ever had her best interest/wishes at heart. She may not have wanted to live incapacitated as she was, but do you really think she wouldn't want her parents and siblings there on her death bed? Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

There are alot of problems with our court system at all levels. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

I'm sure Lori choose to marry a murderer. In fact, I'm sure everyone that ever was murdered by a spouse choose that, because their spouse who killed them will just say it was their wishes. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

One of the good things about getting married is that you can't choose your parents - they could be insane, greedy, addicts etc but you CAN choose your spouse. Hence even if your parents are fundamentalist nuts who want you to not have sex, or not donate your organs after you die, or want to have you committed because you won't listen to them - you can choose a spouse who will do better by you. Some people marry people that are insane and will murder their spouse in a heart beat. Scott Peterson comes to mind. He was a wonderful son, husband and person or at least that was someone's opinion of him. I'm sure Lori wouldn't have chosen a murderer had she know what he was really like. Aside for starving her to death, I just think its really shitty he didn't let the parents see her until the end was over. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

No one REALLY knows what her wishes were. I see him as taking the easy way out in NOT getting a divorce. He picked up a girlfriend and moved on. Maybe that was his excuse for not marrying the new girl? Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

You're talking about her parents right? Could be either... Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

It would be more admirable if he didn't have a live-in girlfriend and a couple of kids with her. Its alot easier just to have a mistress than deal with the courts on a divorce. MS got his cake and got to eat it too. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Then make sure you have that written out, and you give a copy to your mother. All ready have. I can't believe so many people disrespect their parents so much. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Then divorce her - she was still alive! If he was so desperate to move on with his life, all he had to do was divorce her. She did not have a living will, some people THINK they know best, some do and some don't. J Again, my mother gave me life, if she is denyed access, someone is gonna pay. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

My mother gave me life, not my husband. I love him dearly, but I would haunt him for the rest of his life if he denyed my mother and family access to me on my death bed. Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

I figured all Cancer research is good! I just wanted the guys in the US to do it so I can see a bunch of them in boxers. J Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

I watched my father die, had I been denyed access by anyone - there would have been a big problem. I love my mother, those wishes won't change. You don't know either what conversations this "couple" had. We only know what HE says. Judy Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

[reply- and to stick to his guns for 15 years. Stuck to his guns? He has a girlfriend and kids with another woman. Was that part of her wishes. Was denying her family access to her on her death bed part of her wishes? J Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.