taraflyer 0 #1 October 8, 2002 I kissed a guy (other than my so).It meant nothing, just a drunk thing. Should I tell my so? Please help!It's not flying--it's falling with STYLE... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dp1l 0 #2 October 8, 2002 Honesty is the best policy, and if he finds out from someone else, it is going to look like you have something to hide. Might bring some things to the surface, though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aneblett 0 #3 October 8, 2002 Without a doubt... It will be tough. May end your relationship but he will never be able to say you lied to him. Or tried to hide your transgressions from him. To me maintaining that integrity if you will, is worth the risk. AgeS.E.X. party #2 ..It is far worse to live with fear, than to die confronting it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #4 October 8, 2002 I second that. -S_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #5 October 8, 2002 Well...if you don't say anything it really isn't lieing is it? Were you two in the same zip code at the time? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #6 October 8, 2002 Yes..and tell him you used tongues, and you liked it....he may not like what he hears...but it's never done me any harm and kept be single for many years -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #7 October 8, 2002 "I kissed a guy..., just a drunk thing." ...checking your profile...Texas...ok, it wasn't you... Honesty is the foundation of a good relationship relationship. Once you can fake that, you're golden. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chachi 0 #8 October 8, 2002 Deny Deny Deny is all I have to say. ~Rob Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
taraflyer 0 #9 October 8, 2002 It was just a stupid thing to do. I feel so bad and I KNOW that my so will dump me for sure if I tell him. He will put so much more into it.It's not flying--it's falling with STYLE... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sweetgirl 0 #10 October 8, 2002 If you really loved your so, you wouldn't even be able to look at another man! Think about why you did it (I don't buy the *I was drunk* excuse) and what you are really looking for. Be honest with yourself first, then talk to your so. good luck! h Y.O.L.O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #11 October 8, 2002 Well, I really wouldn't blame him if he did dump you. It doesn't matter that it didn't mean anything to you, it's the basic issue of trust that you broke. Maybe this will be a good lesson learned for you. And, maybe you shouldn't drink so much in the future.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dp1l 0 #12 October 8, 2002 QuoteIf you really loved your so, you wouldn't even be able to look at another man! I really disagree with that. We are all human, and all make mistakes! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #13 October 8, 2002 Quote And, maybe you shouldn't drink so much in the future. Ssssshhhhhh Woman!!!! Do you have any idea how boring DZ's are with no drunken booze hags!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #14 October 8, 2002 Quote If you really loved your so, you wouldn't even be able to look at another man! Think about why you did it (I don't buy the *I was drunk* excuse) and what you are really looking for. Be honest with yourself first, then talk to your so. good luck! h Hmmm...she probably does love her so. She doesn't want to buy the other car, just take it for a test drive. In the future, try and drink copious amounts. If you are going to get in trouble anyway, might as well boink him. Just here to help. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #15 October 8, 2002 Quote In the future, try and drink copious amounts Then you can always claim that you don't remember. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 35 #16 October 8, 2002 Quote Do you have any idea how boring DZ's are with no drunken booze hags!!!! So sorry, Clay. It was really inconsiderate of me not to take into account the needs of men who want a easy woman! Please accept my apologizes! She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #17 October 8, 2002 Quote Please accept my apologizes! It may take a bit of grovelling but I suppose I can forgive you. However, it will take a while for my feelings to heal..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #18 October 8, 2002 Quote Quote Please accept my apologizes! It may take a bit of grovelling but I suppose I can forgive you. However, it will take a while for my feelings to heal..... She's been bad...very bad...ooooh yes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sweetgirl 0 #19 October 8, 2002 maybe it's just me then.....I can't look at another. Sorry, that may not apply to all. Y.O.L.O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mwabd1 0 #20 October 8, 2002 Hmmm......lets see do you tell him everytime you kiss your mother or father or girlfriend, NO, besides alcohol is the ultimate excuse!!!!!! .......I hereby reject your reality and instead choose to insert my own! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #21 October 8, 2002 I'm surprised it wasn't Clay you were kissing. You would have made is girl #3! My other ride is the relative wind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 232 #22 October 8, 2002 What the hell is a "so"? Yeah, from the context I can figure it out but where the hell did that term come from? I thought I'd heard it all. -Doug"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JDBoston 0 #23 October 8, 2002 Come on now, only we MEN are allowed to "make mistakes." Let's not piss in the pool for everyone else by suggesting that women can also have meaningless drunk indiscretions. We all know it's not true. When they do that stuff, it ALWAYS means something. Tara, since you "know" he'd break up with you, any chance that's exactly why you did it in the first place? Not saying you had any kind of evil motive - maybe just fear of commitment, or maybe you knew he's not the one, and you wanted HIM to be the one to end the relationship, because you thought you'd have a hard time & feel bad doing it yourself? Just food for thought - I've seen it happen before... anyway, best of luck whatever you decide to do about it. Joe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dp1l 0 #24 October 8, 2002 I'm guessing "significant other" Sorry sweetgirl - It's just I have strong feelings about this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy 0 #25 October 8, 2002 I have a question for all the guys that say..don't tell. How would you feel if it was your girlfriend asking this question and people told her not to tell but you found out later?? Would that advice still stand?? Just curious. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
