What to do, what to do......

[OrangeJumper 0]

Just had to share. When I got to the dz Sunday morning I went to the manifest window as usual. Had my credit card in hand ready to pay for a day of fun in the sun.

Well, since I hadn't been to the dz in a couple of weeks, I asked what my balance was. Now, I thought I had maybe 20 or 25 dollars left over. I was wrong, I had $225 on my account. So, you can imagine the "who farted" look on my face.

Turns out, an ex of mine that I hadn't talked to in months dropped $200 in my account. I have no idea why she did this. She didn't even call me to let me know. Manifest had to tell me where the money came from.

Here is my dilemma. Should I call and say thank you and keep the money, should I not call her back since she never told me to begin with and keep the money, or should I just pay her pack. Honestly, I can't stand her and the sound of her voice makes me want to vomit. Plus, I'm seeing someone else and I don't want to deal with any more drama.

The Original Cabana Boy!

[Ron 7]

I'd jump it and act like I didn't know where it came from.

If she calls and asks about it thank her. Be honest if she tries to get back with you.

"No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms." -- Thomas Jefferson, Thomas Jefferson Papers, 334

[weegegirl 2]

No no no no no....... the correct answer would be.... "Transfer all money to Liz's account and leave no evidence behind."

[OrangeJumper 0]

That's what I was thinking. Be honest???....hahahaha.....I think I took care of that when I broke up with her

The Original Cabana Boy!

[OrangeJumper 0]

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No no no no no....... the correct answer would be.... "Transfer all money to Liz's account and leave no evidence behind."

Damn, I can't believe I left that one out of the poll

The Original Cabana Boy!

[jumpjunkie2004 0]

Jason, Jason, Jason...you know the right answer

Jump, Land, Pack, Repeat...

[GeordieSkydiver 0]

How about paying everyones slot on a 11 way?

Lee _______________________________

In a world full of people, only some want to fly, is that not crazy?
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[PLFXpert 0]

I believe in "thank you"s, definitely. And definitely keep the money.

You can do it my way---if you want to avoid the person, but still do the right thing, either call at a time when you know she's busy so you can leave the thank you as a message or, mail the thank you, which I think is nicer anyways. No-one sends back a "thank you" for the "thank you" note so you should be in the clear. Either way, you wouldn't have to hear the shrill of her voice and you'd still be enough of a gentleman to say thanks when it is in order. $200 deserves a thank you, I think.

Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

[lisamariewillbe 1]

doesnt matter the reason she did it, or the reasons on why you two broke up, she did something very nice and a thank you is in order,

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

[OrangeJumper 0]

I do???

Congrats btw, did you buy your ?

The Original Cabana Boy!

[OrangeJumper 0]

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doesnt matter the reason she did it, or the reasons on why you two broke up, she did something very nice and a thank you is in order,

Damn!!!! ...I guess your right

The Original Cabana Boy!

[lisamariewillbe 1]

wow, guess I owe beer cause thats a first for me

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

[jumpjunkie2004 0]

Thanks Jason!

Yes...I bought 3 and 1/2 cases.
Avoid the drama...sleep sound.

Jump, Land, Pack, Repeat...

[OrangeJumper 0]

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Thanks Jason!

Yes...I bought 3 and 1/2 cases.
Avoid the drama...sleep sound.

hahahahaha.....see that is what I initially thought to do but maybe I should be nice. I'm trying to turn over a new leaf damn it

3 1/2 cases.....good on you. Should I expect to enjoy one of those well deserved beers next weekend?

The Original Cabana Boy!

[jumpjunkie2004 0]

You know how Sunday nights are. Everyone cleared out after one or two beers. Unless someone raids the refrigerator this week, there should be some left

Think you can suffer through one RW jump with a newbie?

Jump, Land, Pack, Repeat...

[flyangel2 2]

If you want to avoid the drama, give her back the money and tell her "thanks, but no thanks". Some woman and men, have motives.

May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey

[OrangeJumper 0]

Think you can suffer through one RW jump with a newbie?

[VanillaSkyGirl 6]

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If you want to avoid the drama, give her back the money and tell her "thanks, but no thanks". Some woman and men, have motives.

That is exactly what I would do. It's not right to lead someone on or to accept gifts/use their money if you are not a close friend or SO. (Men, especially extremely rich men, try to do that kind of thing all the time with with women.) Unless you are close friends or lovers already, in which case it's just money and a thoughtful gesture, it's best to not accept the money or gift.

[Diversgodown 0]

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Turns out, an ex of mine that I hadn't talked to in months dropped $200 in my account. I have no idea why she did this. She didn't even call me to let me know. Manifest had to tell me where the money came from.

Hell if it's been months just enjoy the jumps and don't call. It could be her way for you to contact here again. Like oohhh I left a movie at your house can I come buy and get it! If she hasn't called you then she obviously doesn't want the money back!!!

***Glory Favors the Bold***

[lisamariewillbe 1]

I think it all depends on what terms you two are on and why you broke up.

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

[OrangeJumper 0]

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If you want to avoid the drama, give her back the money and tell her "thanks, but no thanks". Some woman and men, have motives.

That is exactly what I would do. It's not right to lead someone on or to accept gifts/use their money if you are not a close friend or SO. (Men, especially extremely rich men, try to do that kind of thing all the time with with women.) Unless you are close friends or lovers already, in which case it's just money and a thoughtful gesture, it's best to not accept the money or gift.

Like I said though, she never called. It would be different if she left the money and told me that she did it. You do have a point though and it's not like I need the money but........who turns down 10 free skydives

The Original Cabana Boy!

[flyangel2 2]

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who turns down 10 free skydives

Some one who doesn't want the drama and has good morals.

You don't have to confront her. Mail her a check with a note saying "thanks, but no thanks." Period, end of subject.

You are going to open up a can a worms if you don't send her back the money. Trust me on this one, it might not happen tomorrow, or even a month from now, but she will contact you and throw the fact that she "gave" you jump money if you don't send it back.

May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey

[chaoskitty 0]

Are you sure she didn't owe you money for something and though she'd pay you back this way? Thats really strange for THAT much money to be put on your account as a gift.
Unless she owed you that money, keeping it is not the right thing to do.

[masterrig 1]

I'd return the money by mail with a note saying "Thanks anyhow." sign your name and fahgetaboudit. If, you keep the money, she's got one on you. Keep the slate clean.


Chuck