Jasmin 0 #26 August 21, 2002 he he he ...my parents met skydiving. My mother became a whuffo. My parents are now divorced! Not totally related but amusing enough when not explained or substantiation! I've dated skydivers I've dated whuffos, neither is easy. She must learn to respect and understand your priorites ie on the w/e skydiving above all else...For example: I'm prepared to occasionally give up an snippet of morning jumping for snuggling and a shag/quickie....my bf wasn't. (He will no doubt read this) We now no longer date....or snuggle. You set your priorites as you see fit. If she doesn't skydive you need to encourage her to find something she loves to do. If not, she won't respect or understand why you want to run off every bloody w/e. Conversely, if you stop jumping for her, you WILL regret it and resent her. Neither of which is particularly useful or healthy. If all else fails take heart and lesson from these old skydiving proverbs....."And the sky-god sayeth:I knew I was a skydiver when (my gf held out her hand and said "diamond"....I instantly pictured the formation; realised the one she was talking about'd cost me at least 100 jump tickets and) I instantly pictured her bags packed on the porch...." "Don't be too afraid to cutway!"xj "I wouldn't recommend picking a fight with the earth...but then I wouldn't recommend picking a fight with a car either, and that's having tried both." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Newbie 0 #27 August 21, 2002 QuoteHELLO???????????? Do you love her?????????????????? sorry man i thought you were asking a rhetorical question as in i should be asking myself that. Yeah i do. "Skydiving is a door" Happythoughts Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymedic 0 #28 August 21, 2002 I didn't manage my marriage and skydiving....We divorced.....so now I have a skychicky....and Anne never gives me a hard time about going to the DZ.....cause she beats me there!!! Marc otherwise known as Mr.Fallinwoman.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freaksister 0 #29 August 21, 2002 managing both means that for me, both suffer but both also have rewards. all relationships are hard though-why are mine always love/hate? lol j/k Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
