gerryfuss 0 #1 March 24, 2004 This is kinda depressing but a close friend of mines father commited suicide yesterday. Not looking for vibes, really more what to say, I'm speechless. I feel really bad for her. She had just moved in with her father about two months ago. I really don't know what to say here....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #2 March 24, 2004 I know how you feel, I've been there....there isn't word(s) that you can say to make that person feel better. Only....sorry, and offer to help anyway you can. Sorry to hear mate.... Orchid "tomorrow is another day""Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ifall 0 #3 March 24, 2004 That's a really hard one. I'd say just telling her that you are there for her if she needs someone to cry to or talk to is probably plenty in that situation. Just listen. Sorry to hear about that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #5 March 24, 2004 wow. Speechless too. Keep an eye on her. Offer help. ask for help. Sorry to hear about it . We're all here for ya. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #6 March 24, 2004 That's awful. There's really nothing to say, just be there as a shoulder to cry on, she'll need it. You're a good friend. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #7 March 24, 2004 if you don't know what to say, don't use words. Just give her a big hug. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crzjp20 0 #8 March 24, 2004 Ive been there to man, good friend and i found her dad. It was rough, very very rough. But i spent alot of time just letting her cry on my sholder. No words can express grief... but our love for one another can help ease the pain.-------------------------------------------------- Fear is not a confession of weakness, it is an oportunity for courage. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #9 March 24, 2004 There's really not much to say. Just let her know that you're there if she needs a friend to lean on or a shoulder to cry on. And...don't be afraid to give her a hug. She may act/say she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to burst into tears, but she can really use hugs now.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
