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Women, Why Men Haven't dated you....

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HA, I found it very interesting to read through Karens thread on Men & Dating, and got me to thinking why men have turned me down in the past...

I've been turned down b/c of my religion.
I've been turned down b/c I scare men (WTF).
I've been turned down b/c I'm short.
I've been turned down b/c "you're a nice girl, and I'm not a nice guy" :ph34r:
I've been turned down b/c- "You give off the I'm taken VIBE"

Oh, and of course...

I'm soooo not Sudsydoable! :D (I'm not the skinny model type)

Alright ladies, I want to hear some of the reasons men have moved past you and on to someone else.

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HA, I found it very interesting to read through Karens thread on Men & Dating, and got me to thinking why men have turned me down in the past...

I've been turned down b/c of my religion.
I've been turned down b/c I scare men (WTF).
I've been turned down b/c I'm short.
I've been turned down b/c "you're a nice girl, and I'm not a nice guy" :ph34r:
I've been turned down b/c- "You give off the I'm taken VIBE"

Oh, and of course...

I'm soooo not Sudsydoable! :D (I'm not the skinny model type)

Alright ladies, I want to hear some of the reasons men have moved past you and on to someone else.

g



Beacuse I have a child.
Because I am the marring type and not that dateable type.
Because am a leo.
Because I spend too much time with family or friends.
Because I snowboarded more than I ski.
Because I was better a snowboarding then he was.
Because I was too short.
Because I was too responsible.
And those are just a few...
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Because I was too short



You too? :o

Men are very silly creatures! :ph34r::)

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The actual phrase was

I can date you cause I can see the top of your head...:D
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The best reason I ever had to stop dating a girl was due to a progression of things she confessed to me...
First: She was allergic to hormonal birth control
Second: She was opposed to abortion
Third: She admitted she'd be graduating vet school with $130,000 in student loans
Final straw: She told me she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.

I never talked to her again. :D

(She was also too tall, but I figure nobody's perfect :D)

Blues,
Dave

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I've been turned down b/c of my religion.
I've been turned down b/c I scare men (WTF).
I've been turned down b/c I'm short.
I've been turned down b/c "you're a nice girl, and I'm not a nice guy" :ph34r:
I've been turned down b/c- "You give off the I'm taken VIBE"

Oh, and of course...

I want to hear some of the reasons men have moved past you and on to someone else.
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...because I'm a serial monogamist
...because I'm intimidating
...because I'm sexy (WTF?)
...because I have 2 kids
...because I skydive, surf, race car
...because of where I live, & the car I drive
...because I have a bus. degree

I just don't get it....:|
"Love is doing small things with great love."

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I just don't get it....



Does make you question, especially since most of the men in the other thread stated all of your qualities are the most appealing... :S

and they say women are difficult to understand! :ph34r:

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"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?"
Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU
OMG, is she okay?

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I just don't get it....



Does make you question, especially since most of the men in the other thread stated all of your qualities are the most appealing... :S

and they say women are difficult to understand! :ph34r:

g


Isn't that the truth! :D
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I just don't get it....



Does make you question, especially since most of the men in the other thread stated all of your qualities are the most appealing... :S

and they say women are difficult to understand! :ph34r:

g


Seriously!!!! I guess their words are a lot different than their actions!
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Didn't most of you girls state that you were looking for a tall guy? Some of you were even looking for guys who were above average height?

Well....look if you are super short and the guy is 6'6"....he may be into tall girls too.

But some of these responses are a little odd others I'm sorry I can agree wit a few of them.
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+1 on short women...

I'm not short myself, or tall for that matter (5'11")

5'4" + 2" is the most attractive to me.

As for all of you saying "and they say women are hard to understand"

At least the men are giving you reasons, you may not think they are good reasons but it is more than we get most of the time.
"Damn you Gravity, you win again"

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But some of these responses are a little odd others I'm sorry I can agree with



Which ones do you agree with????

g
"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?"
Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU
OMG, is she okay?

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Many of the confusing ones can be summed up into 3 categories unspoken by men where we will make up any excuse so as to try to not hurt your feelings and subsequently attempt to nail your friends:

You're clearly not going to hook up with me without more commitment, so I'm done trying.

or

I've gotten as much s*x out of this as I want from you, so I'm done f*cking you and would like some strange.

and finally,

I'm not attracted to you anymore (or potentially ever was), so we're done f*cking.

This would be "relationships" lasting in the 4 months or less phase. anything over about 4 months is getting into a more serious legitimate break-up scenario where truth generally is spoken.
So there I was...

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Third: She admitted she'd be graduating vet school with $130,000 in student loans

Final straw: She told me she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.



WTF was she smoking:S


Dunno...by the time I thought to ask that, I'd already run too far away for her to hear me. :S:D

Blues,
Dave
"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!"
(drink Mountain Dew)

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I find everything on that list sexy...:$ well, except for the kids, I like kids and all but don't like being responsible for them.B| It wouldn't stop me from dating someone but it is definitely a strong factor.

And what exactly is a serial monogamist? I'm a strict monogamist when it comes to serious relationships but I don't understand the serial part?

P.S. She didn't mention how tall she was ;):D

"Damn you Gravity, you win again"

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Many of the confusing ones can be summed up into 3 categories unspoken by men where we will make up any excuse so as to try to not hurt your feelings and subsequently attempt to nail your friends:



bwahahahahaha. :ph34r::ph34r::ph34r::ph34r:

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Third: She admitted she'd be graduating vet school with $130,000 in student loans

Final straw: She told me she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.



WTF was she smoking:S


Dunno...by the time I thought to ask that, I'd already run too far away for her to hear me. :S:D

Blues,
Dave


Just to clarify my point of view for other's so i dont get any hate mail. I have no problem either way but getting a 130K deg. so you can stay at home is fucking stupid!
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You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers!

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Third: She admitted she'd be graduating vet school with $130,000 in student loans

Final straw: She told me she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.



WTF was she smoking:S


Dunno...by the time I thought to ask that, I'd already run too far away for her to hear me. :S:D

Blues,
Dave


Just to clarify my point of view for other's so i dont get any hate mail. I have no problem either way but getting a 130K deg. so you can stay at home is fucking stupid!


They do it so they have a better chance of meeting and marrying someone that will have a high paying job... I've known a few.
"Damn you Gravity, you win again"

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