adventurechick 0 #26 November 15, 2006 After dating a week the guy says... "baby, I'll support anything you do... I wish you would be with me tonight, but I understand... go do what you love... but I wish you wouldn't go" anything sounding too serious too soon. "I love you." "Oh you're going to be there thursday, there friday, and there on saturday... can I come with you all weekend and stand there by your side" Or if I go somewhere my guy and a group and he doesn't leave me side... I want him to mingle, go talk to other people. PMS #449 TPM #80 Muff Brother #3860 SCR #14705 Dirty Sanchez #233 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #27 November 15, 2006 QuoteStanding in the doorway of the bathroom while I brush my teeth--or do anything else in there for that matter. I feel trapped. I hate that too. I don't know why... but I get uncomfortable. Maybe not all the time... just when there are arguments or tension. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beverly 1 #28 November 15, 2006 Telling me I cannot go to the DZ this weekend again! Telling me I cannot buy something I want to - It is my own money, fuck off. "I love you!" after 2 days of dating "Come meet my family - they will love you" - after a week of dating "So how do you want to get married?" After a week of dating "I know you said you don't want children, but you will change your mind!" " How many should we have, 3 or 4?" "I don't like your skydiving friends/work mates hugging/kissing you. Tell them to stop!" Scratching through my life. I will let you in when I feel comfortable letting you in. Calling my folks or siblings is a no-no. Definate deal breaker! "I hate your team name!" "I am sorry I pissed you off - here have a kitten! " (Yes that really happened, I told him to come back and fetch it. The justice was getting white kitten hair all over his black suit pants) The kitty was cute, but I had 3 already. Damn, I could write a novel on this subject, better stop now. I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pia 0 #29 November 15, 2006 Not getting the space I ask for or need and being controlled and being told what to do. **Those who refuse to live and learn simply exist** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiles 0 #30 November 15, 2006 Quotewhat makes you feel claustrophobic in a relationship? When my partner decides to become captive of the "watchtower organization" concept. SMileseustress. : a positive form of stress having a beneficial effect on health, motivation, performance, and emotional well-being. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrad 0 #31 November 15, 2006 QuoteTelling me I cannot go to the DZ this weekend again! Telling me I cannot buy something I want to - It is my own money, fuck off. "I love you!" after 2 days of dating "Come meet my family - they will love you" - after a week of dating "So how do you want to get married?" After a week of dating "I know you said you don't want children, but you will change your mind!" " How many should we have, 3 or 4?" "I don't like your skydiving friends/work mates hugging/kissing you. Tell them to stop!" Scratching through my life. I will let you in when I feel comfortable letting you in. Calling my folks or siblings is a no-no. Definate deal breaker! "I hate your team name!" "I am sorry I pissed you off - here have a kitten! " (Yes that really happened, I told him to come back and fetch it. The justice was getting white kitten hair all over his black suit pants) The kitty was cute, but I had 3 already. Damn, I could write a novel on this subject, better stop now. Damn! Guys actualy do that????When an author is too meticulous about his style, you may presume that his mind is frivolous and his content flimsy. Lucius Annaeus Seneca Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beverly 1 #32 November 15, 2006 Quote Damn! Guys actualy do that???? Based on actual experiences... I think true friendship is under-rated Twitter: @Dreamskygirlsa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #33 November 15, 2006 QuoteI hate that too. I don't know why... but I get uncomfortable. Maybe not all the time... just when there are arguments or tension. We never argue. We play argue; but we're always laughing. I think we argued for real enough in our 2nd year that we got it out of our systems. And really, that was just the same argument rehashed a million different ways--SO much fun. I just don't like the door thing, in general. I have a lot of weird quirks like that. Thank goodness Billy finds them charming and/or thinks I'm hilarious. Oh, and Bobbi---CALL, ya beotch! Billy and I don't really need a lot of time away from one another. I don't like to be bothered for 1/2 hour or so/day--I'll just shut the door to my office or something. Billy could careless about that sort of "time alone". We do a lot together and we genuinely have a better time when we're together. We do thing separately, too, of course but probably not nearly as often as other couples. My father & stepmom are that way and so are my grandparents who are still as cute as a button together, so much in love, and recently celebrated 60 years together. What works for one couple might not work at all for the next.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #34 November 15, 2006 Ive been with my wonderful amazing honey for 10 years now, but prior to that.... anytime my independance is compromised. I don't need a man to think for me, or help me navigate life. Im totally capable of making my own decisions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
