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I really don't think that MANY of you here understand the issues at hand.



Yes as a man it is my fault.
;)
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I really don't think that MANY of you here understand the issues at hand.



Yes as a man it is my fault.
;)



No... :)
It's not that you're a "man" nor does it have any thing to do with a Y chrmn. It's the projection of unrealistic expectations and how that is then internalized. It's about the health of a relationship and thus the health of a person. "Medicine" and "wellness" is not just about blood work and body mass index... It's not nice maths like engineers get to play with. It has so many more dimensions that play into it. "Wellness" is not something a doctor can really give, but yet everyday, I have women come in for a "Well Woman Exam" and they hope/expect me to make them "well." Just like they expect relationships to make them "happy." Neither can do that. So those expectations are just as unrealistic as a males expectation that she should be a size 2, have a 38 bust, and be able to answer "If you could change one of your physical characteristics, which one would it be and why?"

I do understand that you posted this thread with an Andrew Dice Clay/ "tongue in cheek" mentality, and I know that you don't see the effect but I just wanted to say that it is there. I have seen the women that take it too far and then have chronic health problems related to their weight.

My point on all this is that we just need to try and realize what effect we have on others.

Tread softly and as my mom always said "BE NICE!"

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My only point was I have no sympathy for the girl who is getting made fun of and suffers “emotional pain” or the guy who caused the pain.

They are both Shallow because they both re using the same value system.


How do you console a fat ugly person who is called fat and ugly?

By telling them what get surgery, lose weight,? That will reinforce that yes shallow is very important

Do you LIE and tell them there hot ?

What do you do about the random unfair truths that occur in life?


I think its best is to be aware and acknowledge them, and I truly think its one of those things that’s really not a big deal unless you and the people around you make it a big deal.


Life is not fair and many things that will effect your life are random, it better to acknowledge then deny.
I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

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What do you do about the random unfair truths that occur in life?
Oh brother....now this guy is a real Persian.
This is one of those sit down with a nice cup of tea and Persian pastries and talk about it kind of issues.....
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LOL

As dasteh too:)


Sorry mate have no clue what that is...sadly google gave me saffron.
But a day like today....
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The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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My only point was I have no sympathy for the girl who is getting made fun of and suffers “emotional pain” or the guy who caused the pain.

They are both Shallow because they both re using the same value system.


How do you console a fat ugly person who is called fat and ugly?

By telling them what get surgery, lose weight,? That will reinforce that yes shallow is very important

Do you LIE and tell them there hot ?

What do you do about the random unfair truths that occur in life?


I think its best is to be aware and acknowledge them, and I truly think its one of those things that’s really not a big deal unless you and the people around you make it a big deal.


Life is not fair and many things that will effect your life are random, it better to acknowledge then deny.




I try to change the value system to "health" not "hot." Women generally don't come to visit me to be "sexy", rather they make an appointment for their pap or some problem. I don't prescribe birth control so that they can get more guys to "like" them... many times I don't even prescribe it FOR birth control (painful periods/ irregular bleeding/ heavy periods)

I just look at this issue differently. My perspective is not a scoring system on shallowness; it's looking at risks with diabetes or hypertension. I try to help women see that they are "beautiful people" at any BMI but if they want to live longer with less chronic problems, they should exercise and eat well. . . and reduce stress (I don't have too much luck with that one)

We are just blind (wo)men talking about an elephant ;)

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Oh so you agree with me?
Girls who work out and who take care of themselves are hot?
Cool!
And then there was peace in our time!
Can I get an A-men!
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How do you console a fat ugly person who is called fat and ugly?

How about showing some human compassion and just listen and comfort? how about being pissed off at the person who was cruel enough to be so shallow and offending? you know....human....

By telling them what get surgery, lose weight,? That will reinforce that yes shallow is very important

Do you LIE and tell them there hot ?
how about you focus on their beauty as a fellow human being? are they a sweet person, are they kind to others, are they funny are they compassionate with others? I mean come on now!?:o is it that hard to focus on something other then the exterior?

What do you do about the random unfair truths that occur in life?
you just be a good person to others and you'll notice less and less of the random unfair truths in life

I think its best is to be aware and acknowledge them, and I truly think its one of those things that’s really not a big deal unless you and the people around you make it a big deal. how naive is that :S


Life is not fair and many things that will effect your life are random, it better to acknowledge then deny.



I actually agree with this part :D hey we are all human and if we'll just start treating others like WE prefer to be treated then eventually it would all equal out (in a perfect world only of course) but why not try being the better person and just rise above the average "who cares" or "they are just being too sensitive" humans out there. Maybe just a little more caring would go a long way.

When I receive criticism, so matter who it comes from, I will spend some time internalizing it and evaluating it....sometimes, I find that I do need some minor correction in this area or that. And you know, I was called fat at one point in life (after my first child) know what I did?! I proved them wrong, now I kick ass in just about every kind of racing there is.

There is a special quality in those who can see the beauty in everything and everyone they encounter....and let me just say, life is much more pleasant with that perspective.

as far as the op...well the writer of the article is entitled to her opinion just as you are entitled to yours....she just has a broad platform and yours....well, you have dizzy.com so keep on keeping on, but I do lurk here often enough to know that maybe after all your "theraputic" posting online here you might be ready for another relationship someday and I wish you the very best :)
"A man only gets in life what he is believing for, nothing more and nothing less" Kenneth Hagen

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Oh so you agree with me?
Girls who work out and who take care of themselves are hot?



and the VAST majority of them are much larger than a size 8.
I could easily put you up against a dozen women who you would consider overweight, that would out class you in every regard, ESPECIALLY fitness
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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How's yours doing?

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Oh so you agree with me?
Girls who work out and who take care of themselves are hot?



and the VAST majority of them are much larger than a size 8.
I could easily put you up against a dozen women who you would consider overweight, that would out class you in every regard, ESPECIALLY fitness


hey now, shah does YOGA!!! :P

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and the VAST majority of them are much larger than a size 8.
I could easily put you up against a dozen women who you would consider overweight, that would out class you in every regard, ESPECIALLY fitness


Yum this could be fun!
Actually one of the girls I had a date with last week does "fitness modeling".....WHY DIDN'T ANY ONE TELL ME ABOUT THIS!!
She is a little bigger than I like but.....I'm ok with it.
Have this one silly rule about not dating girls who's hips are bigger than mine....so 33in or less.
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Have this one silly rule about not dating girls who's hips are bigger than mine....so 33in or less.


Liar



Such a nasty little mouse... What part of No Personal Attacks don't you get? You don't like Shah? Fine, go find someone you do like. Why do you continue to invest all this negative energy? I don't read a lot of these threads. So, have I missed some huge wrong he's done to you?

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Have this one silly rule about not dating girls who's hips are bigger than mine....so 33in or less.


Liar


Such a nasty little mouse... What part of No Personal Attacks don't you get? You don't like Shah? Fine, go find someone you do like. Why do you continue to invest all this negative energy? I don't read a lot of these threads. So, have I missed some huge wrong he's done to you?

it's not negative, it neutral,
I feel nothing for the guy, I’m, just replying to words on a screen, that conflict with other words on a screen that he previously repeated and often has posted.

If he never posted again it would not bother me or bring me joy in any way shape or form., same applies to pretty much anyone on here, as I’m sure it would also apply to me for others.
try not to sweat the little things in life like the internet, I’m about to leave for work and I assure you once i turn of the computer i will give no further consideration to any thing that is posted here by anyone, until i read the little words on a different screen, and continue my idle entertainment:)
Go make a skydive;)
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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Have this one silly rule about not dating girls who's hips are bigger than mine....so 33in or less.


Liar


Such a nasty little mouse... What part of No Personal Attacks don't you get? You don't like Shah? Fine, go find someone you do like. Why do you continue to invest all this negative energy? I don't read a lot of these threads. So, have I missed some huge wrong he's done to you?

it's not negative, it neutral,
I feel nothing for the guy, I’m, just replying to words on a screen, that conflict with other words on a screen that he previously repeated and often has posted.

If he never posted again it would not bother me or bring me joy in any way shape or form., same applies to pretty much anyone on here, as I’m sure it would also apply to me for others.
try not to sweat the little things in life like the internet, I’m about to leave for work and I assure you once i turn of the computer i will give no further consideration to any thing that is posted here by anyone, until i read the little words on a different screen, and continue my idle entertainment:)
Go make a skydive;)


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Squeak, enough with the PA's. This is your warning.


She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon


Yeah, you're sooo neutral... Never mind, Squeak. I was only really thinking out loud. Continue your idle entertainment if it helps you. Shah finds it amusing. Dunno why I bothered. I must be more tired from work today than I thought I was...

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Squeak's been given his time off.

For any of you- once a Mod has given you a warning, it's best not to ignore it. We're not even required to give a warning, especially for long-time users who know better, we just do it sometimes because we're so damn nice.
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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I'm feelin' the luv...:)


Did she at least buy you dinner first!
;)

I get it I get it...but remember bro's before ho's!
That said being that "sensitive" "evolved" hipster guy isn't going to get you much. Maybe a date with some chick who only owns granny panties!

Now being a shallow satirical well dressed dude such as I?
Well! Need I say more? ;-)

For the record, who watches beauty pageants anyway? Ladies FYI the girls of porn have a way healthier BMI than the ladies of pageants!
So, logic serves that if you want your man to understand what a real woman's body looks like....porn!

(If you actually took that last paragraph seriously you need to either stop eating led paint chips or have your head examined)

If you don't believe me ask Dr. Shah!
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The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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No it's not,
a CONFIDENT person would not be pissing and moaning like you do.
You are delusional.
I'm confident, successful, well travelled, financially secure, arrogant and opinionated.
so I can well assure you that you are delusional.


WAIT! That's me...you know...well educated, well to do and well traveled and arrogant and opinionated.

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And maybe one day you'll figure out how to get laid.
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The only sure way to survive a canopy collision is not to have one.

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A word of advice about bigger babes. Shade in the summer, warmth in the winter, and a dandy wind block if you are packing your canopy outside.:D:D:D


AAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

That there is funny!
OH now that's a thought! + sized pageants!
Size 20+ ladies! I would actually pay to watch that!

You know kind of like picking the biggest girl at the strip club to give you a lap dance!
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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