JumpNFly 0 #1 September 2, 2003 ... I'm having relationship questions again... Is this ever going to get easy? We've been together for 3 months, a very intense 3 months... when we met I was between apartments, and we ended up "living" together for the past 2 months or so... My new apartment is ready for me today... I'm happy that I've got my own place now, as 3 months is too soon to be living together, but at the same time, I'm totally messed up about the situation... I"m just not sure what to expect... how do you go from sleeping next to someone every night, to not knowing what's going to happen next... am I going to see him? am I not? is it still ok for me to just "come over"? he's also not being very helpful with my moving... he's got the truck, and I'm not about to lug my things over to my new place in a cab ( I live in NYC). One breath he tells me he'll help, then he says he may go to the US Open with one of his friends so he's not sure what to do with helping me... what is that? I'm fuming and crying in the same breath... any advice here? The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #2 September 2, 2003 Damn. Guys like him give the rest of us a bad name.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #3 September 2, 2003 any advice? The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #4 September 2, 2003 Another DZ.com soap opera. __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 212 #5 September 2, 2003 You could put the word out that you need help and see if anyone near you has the time, or resources. Maybe ask him if you could borrow his truck.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
txblondie 0 #6 September 2, 2003 Going to PM you... ***************************************** Blondes do have more fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #7 September 2, 2003 i'm sure I could do that, but he's my boyfriend and told me this morning that he would help me.... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #8 September 2, 2003 My b/f said he would help me move too - and then he conveniently ended up with tickets to the UT game in Austin....go figure.....move yourself - if he is not going to commit to helping you make other arrangements.....then tell him to go have fun at the US Open - it is really not worth getting upset about.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #9 September 2, 2003 too late... I just think that its rediculous that the thought even entered his mind knowing that 1) I'm moving 2) i'm upset about it, and 3) he already told me he'd help... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
juanesky 0 #10 September 2, 2003 PM'd"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beerlight 0 #11 September 2, 2003 Get someone to help move your ass out, and betcha he'll help then. Together for 3 whole months huh? I got a bag a potatoes older than that>>>>>. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #12 September 2, 2003 Are you upset cause he won't help you move - or because he hasn't asked you to stay???? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #13 September 2, 2003 Sooo I"ve kind of pin pointed what's go me so upset... I'm just so used to being with him and sleeping next to him and seeing him every night, and now we have a change, and I don't know waht to expect... I'm not sure what's going to happen... its just the uncertainty of the situation that has me a bit "ruffled"... i think The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #14 September 2, 2003 Well , I do think you have a right to be upset about him not helping you move especially after he told you he would. It's not like he's just a casual date- it's someone you've been living with for three months. As far as the uncertainty of everything? Haven't you guys talked about it at all? Obviously living with him you've been exclusive so why would that change? Ask him how he feels.... good luck , girly!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JumpNFly 0 #15 September 2, 2003 Kriss, you're the best!!!! We've talked a bunch... he just wants some normalcy to a 3 month relationship, doesn't want to feel like an old married couple so soon... makes perfect sence right... give me a call if ya can... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites drewboo 0 #16 September 2, 2003 Find a coupla HOT looking male friends to help ya move. That'll make him think....Secondly, wow, i've never heard of living with a guy...still being a couple...and THAN..moving out...weird.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JumpNFly 0 #17 September 2, 2003 we didn't decide to live together, it just kind of ended up happening, and it was clear from teh start that I was going to get my own place... and the place I found, I was able to move into Sept. 1st... I was in between apartments when I met him, and needed a place to stay... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
JumpNFly 0 #15 September 2, 2003 Kriss, you're the best!!!! We've talked a bunch... he just wants some normalcy to a 3 month relationship, doesn't want to feel like an old married couple so soon... makes perfect sence right... give me a call if ya can... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drewboo 0 #16 September 2, 2003 Find a coupla HOT looking male friends to help ya move. That'll make him think....Secondly, wow, i've never heard of living with a guy...still being a couple...and THAN..moving out...weird.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #17 September 2, 2003 we didn't decide to live together, it just kind of ended up happening, and it was clear from teh start that I was going to get my own place... and the place I found, I was able to move into Sept. 1st... I was in between apartments when I met him, and needed a place to stay... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
