skydiverbry 0 #1 April 21, 2009 What's the point in trying to save a relationship??-------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #2 April 21, 2009 that depends on why it needs savingDude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #3 April 21, 2009 Dunno. Details?What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #4 April 21, 2009 good question -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydveraz 0 #5 April 21, 2009 Quote What's the point in trying to save a relationship?? there is none. Been there, done that.Arizona only has two seasons, Hot and HOTTER! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #6 April 21, 2009 it'll be easier to save it now than save it later. if you feel it needs saving my advice is to get off the procrastination machine, mind you, that would be my advice to anyone in a relationship.Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #7 April 21, 2009 Sounds like your evening sucks. What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #8 April 21, 2009 Depends on the situation. Can it move forward and be healthy?Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #9 April 21, 2009 Details?Well not sure how to put this.I've known her 25 years,been with her 4 years out of which we are engaged 3 years. I did stupid thing and acted like an asshole.Now I'm rethinking if I should have even posted this. My head is ALL screwed upI love her ALOT -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #10 April 21, 2009 so 1 tell her then 2 act like you love herDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #11 April 21, 2009 Not putting it off.Just giving her time to breathe-------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #12 April 21, 2009 Quoteso 1 tell her then 2 act like you love her this this thisDude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #13 April 21, 2009 Kinda.No alot!! -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #14 April 21, 2009 Ok,Lisa.In all seriousness.I am not sure.Right now I don't know what would be healthy-------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #15 April 21, 2009 Been telling her.The problem is the way I acted.Like a jerk -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #16 April 21, 2009 Dude. I feel you. I've been with my wife 14 years. After you calm down, think about it. If you were an asshole, apologize. Realize she might not move on as fast as you do. Love is as much about admitting your fuckups as anything. Good luck What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmills0705 0 #17 April 22, 2009 Quote Been telling her.The problem is the way I acted.Like a jerk We all act like jerks to our SO at some point in time or another. Depending on what you did she will probably need some time to cool off. In the meantime write her a letter (not an e-mail or text) and let her know you are truly sorry and what you are willing to do to fix it. Some things are harder to repair than others such as trust. But if you are willing and committed I believe anything is possible - as long as she is willing to give you a chance. If she refuses to... just give her some space - it may just take some time for her to come around. By the way - I know a lot of guys who won't even admit when they screwed up - so I think you are going down the right road.Kim Mills USPA D21696 Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
