Cutaway?

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I have a very good friend who was recently diagnosed as bi-polar, so I've learned more about this illness than I expected to but still adamantly believe I know just enough to be dangerous. What I *do* think I correctly understand about this illness is that it can manifest itself in a variety of ways, including promiscuous behavior and in excessive spending. I don't think it's an excuse, but if the illness actually is underlying the problems you've been having, perhaps your counseling needs to look at the bi-polar components of the relationship. Making sure her medication is right could be important, too. Before you make any dramatic decisions, I would suggest examing at least those issues with your counselor and her doctor. Then, any decision you make can be an educated one. (Edited to fix typographical stuttering.)

TPM Sister #102

[ChrisL 2]

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Hi all,


Fuck this sucks

I was once "trapped" in a relationship with a severely depressed woman.

I stayed FAR longer than I should have because I felt responsible for her. I was afraid that if I left her she would off herself

In the end the pressure and stress consumed me and made ME sick too.

You obviously care about this woman, but your marriage is going to destroy you. You need to leave before you too are consumed.

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My mighty steed