So if you haven't hidden the summer sausage.

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The definition of hell is to be madly in love with the love of your life ready willing and able to do whatever you need to do such that the other person is happy...and knowing that the passion you feel for them is 100 times more than what they feel for you and there is nothing you can do to change that for they are just a person with a very low sex drive.

Sorry to hear that, it sounds stifling. However, I see your dilemma from a different perspective, and that is not to be focused on sex but on communicating.

Every person has his/her own communication style. Physical intimacy may be your way of expressing passion, but may not be for her. A strong relationship will benefit from understanding each person's style and adapting as best they can. Things may not be perfect, but the love and intent are there.

Just my humble opinion. You may be met with a different answer if you talked to a sex therapist.

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Uhh.. she doesn't look like a pig...

One the "handsome" engineering girls who thought she pissed Champaign and farted high end fragrances and who's rubinesque size should be something to be admired not ridiculed and looked down on once after hearing me pontificate on the values and virtues of "Long legged, flat bellied, perky boobies amazing assed hotties" got to pissed that I was causing her such cognitive dissonance and potentially pissing in her dating pool that she had an aneurism and blurted out in total frustration and flabergastation "You Shah are a pigdog!"

She then went off to Wendy's and consumed like 10k calories.

Last I knew of her she had packed on another 50lbs and is a diabetic at 33 and 175lbs of dorky engineer.

"I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."

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Just my humble opinion. You may be met with a different answer if you talked to a sex therapist.

I've been there done that and per the people I've spoken with others and well....how did a wise older engineer once put it.

Shah the secret to a happy relationship is to understand that people just don't change. No matter how well you attempt to articulate or what method you go about it people just don't change.

To bring it down from 30k ft, you can't talk someone into being kinky and you can't talk someone into being fun in bed. They are who they are from the day they are born. You want a fun loving partner, find a fun loving partner not a dull cold one and hope and talk to change him or her to consider your view.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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This is a serious question, sorry for the threadjack.

When I hire people, I always google them to see what comes up. It is amazing what people will put online, thinking it will never come back to them.

Reading some posts on here, no-one's in particular, if I were googling I would be concerned that:

1. This person spends an inordinate amount of time on the web and
2. Their expressed thoughts and opinions could be an HR concern if the same were expressed in a work environment

Does this concern you at all?

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It should only worry someone if they are not worth their salt. Maybe they are just bored to death at their last gig and have all their work done and are wating for others to catch up?

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[d_squared431 0]

I read this thead hoping it was the one normiss was talking about. I was disappointed. Just like most every woman is with you. [insert the face emotion here]

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