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    These standards that I hold for my self. So no I don’t expect anyone to follow them but I do have the right to express my opinion and you the right to disagree with it.



    Your reasons for calling her a whore don't make sense to me but whatever. I feel like you are very hostile about it and then try to write off the hostility as morality when called on it.

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    At the same time neither one Sarah nor Paris gets any respect from me. They’re both whores. One for popularity the other her job.



    Darius, I hate to say it again but it's my perception that you refer to any woman you don't like as a whore. How is Sarah a whore? How is Paris a whore? What does the word whore mean to you that you dole it out so easily.

  3. She has made movies and recorded a cd. She does "work." Paris is where she is because the public wants it. If people weren't interested then we wouldn't care what happens to her. She thought she could get away with something because of who she is and she can't. She is paying for that now and it is deserved. However, lots of people "love to hate her" and she earns money and publicity from that

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    We also only have a three bedroom home and he was previously sharing a bedroom with his two younger brothers and it was very crowded. This room is only maybe 1500 feet from the backdoor of our house.



    If you and your husband have one room and the boys have the other room then who is in the third room? I think eleven is a bit too young to be out in the M-I-L house. I say make him move back inside where he can be monitored. I think taking away priviledges works very good with kids. What's his favorite thing?? His guitar. Take it away for awhile and tell him that when he can prove to you that he cares about his property he can have it back.

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    After looking at the line up, they were obviously angling for a soulful singer - preferably a black female




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    You made quite a stereotyping comment in that last bit, why would you assume someone's race defaults to R&B? I was specifically talking about the Idol corp's blatant marketing tactics



    Funny. I thought you were the one stereotyping. That's why I made the comment. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I'm the last one in the world to stereotype.\

    attached is pic of my daughter;):)

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    I told my wife at that time that Jordan would win, they'd set it up that way somehow. Hasn't each season resulted in a winner that was targetted to a different market? (pop, country, rock, etc?) they needed an R&B market entry.



    Actually, Jordan is very much a pop singer--not R&B. They've had a couple of R&B winners already. Just because someone is black or biracial doesn't make her a "soul singer."

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    But how can a child who is as young as that have sexuality issues when at that age your genetalia is nothing more than a way to relieve yourself????



    Because it isn't a sexuality issue, it is a gender issue.

  14. I saw the show too and I feel it was more than just boys wanting to play dress up. The kids were seen by doctors as well. It's not like they just said ,"okay--let him be a girl or ok let her be a boy." As they said these children are most likely hard wired this way.
    These kids definitely felt differently and said things that led me to believe that this is how they were born. It's more than just unsnapping a onesie. I applaud the bravery of the parents.

  15. Old Navy sometimes has some really cute flip flops. Some plain, some beaded, some with sequins. Department stores even have an assortment of casual but good for going out flip flops. Target has cute ones sometimes too;)

  16. I opened one late as well. Was waiting forever at the highschool for my daughter's dance team auditions to be over. She made it!!:)

  17. I am so over the smoke. They cancelled my daughter's last track meet and I can't take the baby for a walk outside or I'd feel like I was polluting his little lungs. I hate being cooped up.B|

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    It's interesting you chose your husband to be away while you stay home. Remember it works in both directions. You could be having sex with someone while your husband is home with the kids. If, hypothetically, that was something you are interested in of course. I presume you'd take issue with that as well. No judgment, just an observation



    It's really not something I am interested in.


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    More often than not, this leads to missed opportunities for love. Love that is available in abundance, only restricted by jealousy, insecurity, a false sense of ownership, and the fact that a day only has 24 hours.




    This whole thread brought up a great conversation between my husband and I. We both agreed that we had "experienced"plenty in our past lives and in our past relationships. We found each other at a point when we both wanted the same things. We love each other and find comfort and security in that love. We find comfort and security in the fact that we don't need other opportunites for love with others. We love our friends, we love our children and we love one another. We only want to share our bodies with each other-- I definitely don't feel like we claim "ownership" to one another. Of course, we could choose to flit from flower to flower but we make the choice not to. Our love is abundant enough as is and are completely comfortable with this.
    It's not because the church says so-- He is definitely not religious and I tend to think of myself as spiritual. It's not literature or music. We are very free thinking people. Like I said, we have both experienced a lot in our past lives and we've grown emotionally.


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    I couldn't agree more. That's why I continued to include monogamy in my first post in this thread. It will always be a choice for some people to remain monogamous to each other along one or more axes (sexually, emotionally, spiritually, etcetera). Who am I to judge that?




    And I dont judge anyone else's lifestyle either. But to imply that most monogamy is based on insecurity and jealousy would be like me saying having multiple partners is constantly needing validation from others which is a type of insecurity in itself.

  19. I would ask you if you have children? Not that this is the only factor but an important factor nonetheless. I can't imagine being home with the kids and all that entails while my husband was out having sex with someone. I would be angered because he made a vow to me and I to him-- to be true to each other. Human beings are different.. Some are straight, some are gay, some are meat eaters and some are vegetarians. What works for you might not work for someone else. It doesn't make it right or wrong--what is important is finding someone who feels and believes the same way you do.

  20. I do have fake ones. After breastfeeding three children, my breasts just didn't hang where they used to be. Maybe I was insecure, I don't know.. I just wanted my breasts back where they once belonged.

    I picked a size compatible with my body type and everything(clothes, bras, swimsuits)fit so much better. I just didn't like my breasts looking like pancakes and I fixed it. If I were a close to a perfect human then I guess I wouldn't care but I do. I do have to say though that after my fourth baby and breastfeeding, one would never expect that I have fake ones.:P I don't regret my choice.