evite etiquette question

[heidihagen 0]

ok, i got an evite but i don't see a single one of our friends from college (other than the bride) on the invite list. i'm thinking since he sister is throwing it, she might not know how to get the rest of us.
she left the "invite others" feature open. would it be in poor taste to use it? OR would you email first?
Or neither?? it's a surprise, so i doubt word will spread on its own.
usually i know the planner and nobody is left off. i don't want to step on any party planning feet.... especially when i don't know their owner

eta: added screenshot

i didn't lose my mind, i sold it on ebay. .:need a container to fit 5'4", 110 lb. cypres ready & able to fit a 170 main (or slightly smaller):.[/ce

[Thanatos340 1]

Anytime Someone is organizing any kind of Party.. It is usually a good idea to let them know what you are planning.

Definitely communicate with the Organizer. Not necessarily to ask permission, but atleast let them know what to expect.

[chaoskitty 0]

Forward the organizer a list of emails for the rest of your friends who werent included, and she can add them to the evite herself if they are meant to be included.

[Amanduh 0]

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Forward the organizer a list of emails for the rest of your friends who werent included, and she can add them to the evite herself if they are meant to be included.

Yup!

[heidihagen 0]

that's what i ended up doing-no reply yet but i'm just impatient thanks!

i didn't lose my mind, i sold it on ebay. .:need a container to fit 5'4", 110 lb. cypres ready & able to fit a 170 main (or slightly smaller):.[/ce