Thank you all for your suggestions. You're all correct in that it sounds like I'm the one who wants to jump. The reason the idea came to mind is because a year ago he really wanted to go with me, we love doing things together obviously, and I feel if he doesn't have to pay for it himself he'll look at it differently. I definitely don't want to impose my wishes on him so I'm going back and forth because I feel the desire is there but this sudden lack of interest is surprising me. But anyway men are pretty straightforward so I will listen. Nobody wants to see that awkward face after opening a gift they don't like