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  1. what the others said of your PC. a power spike (or defect in the power supply) could also happen to turn it on randomly. the dog could actually be responding to your own nervousness, not to anything real. if strange things continue. you might have a ghost in your home :) I'm a physicist, and I can tell you that 99.99999% reports of paranormal activity are just bogus, but there's probably a 0.00001% true. in that case, it's very easy to get rid of it and send it on its way. light some incense in every room, print the picture of a true saint or Jesus will do too, or Buddha, or Krishna -what appeals to you. bless every room and visualize it as full of light and you'll be fine. glimmering light
  2. Thanks! I would like to thank my mommy who supported me along the way, and all my fans. without you I could never have achieved this! Thank YOU! and. I didn't mean to say you're all pessimistic, but I read the whole thread and my impression was the general thought was "relationships don't last". I've never been married but my sister is. I could tell from the beginning the guy was nice but he wasn't mature enough to get married. now several years later and with 2 lovely kids, they are still together, but not as happily as when they were wearing the "pink glasses". now she's disillusioned with the "pink glasses" attitude of happy ever after - but I find nothing wrong with the romantic idea. but then I'm Italian - I still get surprised to hear so many Americans on their 2nd and 3rd marriage... and it's not to disparage Americans - some of my best friends are,and I'm moving to this country very happily :) glimmering light
  3. yes it is : ) what I really want myself is to have better discernment so that I choose the right person next time. there's really no reason why a relationship shouldn't last your whole life if you made the right choice. glimmering light
  4. marriage doesn't need to involve the state. it's like taking a vow. you should only do it when you're ready and you really want it. say you join the seals, I guess they take a vow to defend their country and their comrades. vows can be powerful aids example: say you go through a rough patch in your relationship. maybe if you've taken a vow you'll find that extra drive to make it work. glimmering light
  5. I'm sorry if your relationship didn't work Sandi, Nataly, ManagingPrime and everyone ... but it seems to me the general attitude is a bit on the pessimistic side. I think it's a problem of our culture, we grow up and we can learn amazingly complicated skills and knowledge (my work routinely involves discussion on things that defy any common sense conception) and yet little do we learn about ourselves. Even if we grow up with a smart and loving family and friends (far from granted), we acquire a little wisdom on ourselves and others but no extensive knowledge, nothing comparable to scientific knowledge. And yet why do we take that for granted? it's just our culture, because our psychological sciences are generally imprecise and not accessible to common people, we grow up with this idea. If all our relationship never last, what's the common factor? well, it's me. I haven't changed much my behaviour or what I expect, and why should I, that's me, my identity. But is it true? in my experience, the secret to finding happiness in relationships or in life, is very simple but not easy: to put some scientific order in our mind and heart, and I don't mean to become cold and analytical, but to balance enthusiasm with detachment, to be kind and selfless, flexible and caring to everyone, but strong and immovable when principles are at stake. glimmering light
  6. thanks : ) looking forward to jump. always had dreams to fly glimmering light
  7. thanks, I'm gonna go to Sky Temple, they are very friendly, but I don't drink alchool : ) glimmering light
  8. hello, I am a physicist - like in Big Bang theory tv show - I'm gonna move to Austin this spring and want to start skydiving. I'm italian. I came here to learn more about skydiving. especially if you're from Austin area say hi :) glimmering light